Ahhh, yes, the impact of hair on style... There are days I am jealous of you lovely ladies with your incredibly stylish and contemporary cuts on your hair that will behave as it is supposed to.
My hair has a mind of its own. It will do as it pleases. So I have learned to let it. Just some de-frizz product and air dry then pull it up in some fashion (if you try to touch my hair it will frizz. The more you touch. The more it frizzes. Hairstylists attempting to cut and style my hair in the past have learned this the hard way, even when warned.
I have worn it very long (cut about 7 inches off it 2 years ago) and a few times in my life very short (I look like orphan annie or bozo the clown with short hair).
Mostly I just wear it up or under a hat. It often doesn't mesh with some of my looks and I've learned not to care too much about that.
It's been more than 2 years since my last haircut (my record is 7 years without one). So I did recently decide that I'd go ahead and give another shot to having it cut and styled.
I've got an appointment in about 2 weeks to have a "deva curl cut" (where they cut your hair dry individually by curl because that more accurately will reflect how curly hair lies when it's dry --as opposed to cutting it wet like you would straight or wavy hair). I think it's ridiculous what they charge to cut and color my hair considering you can hack at it quite a bit and not be able to tell anything has been done to it. So yeah, $140 for a haircut seems ridiculous to me. But hey, I'm always game to try something new. So what the hell. I'll try it out and see if I get any bang for my buck.
My hair curls up more than 6 inches in length when it dries. So those stylists who have done it in the past have given me some ultra-not-fabulous-cringe-inducing "poodle cuts" over the years. They cut it and then the sides curl up into two balls on either side of my head and one on top. Not a stylish look, even for a poodle, if you ask me.
So in two weeks, after a "deva curl cut" and "pintura" highlights (apparently the way to individually paint on highlights on curly hair so you don't end up looking like you have stripey snakes coiled on your head) we'll see if my answer changes