Julie I missed this the other day, but I LOVE your new cut. We have very similar hair (in texture and length), and this is the direction I'm going in for my next cut (which will only be in a week or two, when I go home to Canada for Thanksgiving). Right now my hair is between chin and shoulder length and straight across the back, but I'm thinking that inverting it slightly might look good, because I'm loving it on you!
The thread that shana mentioned is this one, which I started a while ago about caring for curly hair. Not sure if it will be helpful for you, but there are lots of tips and product recs in there.
(OT but very funny, you look so much like my sister and certain members of my family- every time you post a pic I do a double-take!)