Gaylene -- re. "Maybe it's a case of "the grass is always greener"?" Lol, all right, you got me. There's always some of that.
You make several fair points. But still, I'd rather trade being the one who goes to investigate those "bumps in the night" (or dealing with, say, unwanted spiders or dead rats -- which, with my squeamish husband and son, is my purview anyway) with the one who has to endure pregnancy, menstruation, harassment, income inequality, and sex bias.
All right, all right, I anticipate hearing a chorus of "but men endure sex bias too" -- it's just that I think I'd prefer their sex bias to mine.
Also, if either of our kids has been injured -- especially if there is blood involved -- I am on the hot seat. My husband, white-faced, mutely hands the responsibility to me. The "manly" ability to be unflappable (and, importantly, not faint) in the face of trauma already happens to be mine.