Thanks everyone, this is so helpful-- even looking at the pics myself is a helpful to way to train my eye-- it is quite different than looking in the mirror!
I never would have thought about the sleeve length on the blazer. But I was afraid someone would suggest a belt I am terrified of belts b/c I am short-waisted and large busted, but I really have not actually tried this look. I'll give it a try.
As to the coral bravissimo top, I got it for my way casual, hang out at home or outside days, not at all for work. Also, FYI on Bravissimo, I also got their PJ top and love it! super comfortable to sleep in, just enough support but not too much.
CRWilson- I got the Sweet Pea top at MyShape.com, along with another Sweat Pea, stretch mesh faux wrap top that I also really like. FYI, my opinion of Myshape.com is "ok", but they do NOT take cup size into account with tops, I returned most stuff I bought from there.