Our 12 night Western Mediterranean cruise is coming up and would love your help in sorting out my evening wear for 3 formal nights. I struggle with shoes for my fussy feet, also my shapewear doesn't exactly help my shape. It digs in at my waist and I think some of these pictures show that off. Any recommendations for shapewear that doesn't do that?

1. Just bought this new gown on Nordstroms website and feel like it fits pretty well. What do you think?

2. Also the chain accent shoulder strap is gold so it's either gold or black shoes and this is what I have...do either of these work? I much prefer the old black shoes as they don't make my feet scream in agony.

3. This is a dress from the last cruise a few years ago that my husband LOVES, I think new shapewear might help the rear view ( it stops right at the ribcage and digs in). What do you think?

4. Another dress from the last cruise, it's a little on the short side, is that a deal breaker?

5. Also an old cocktail dress that I still love and it still fits.

6. My shoe choices, the lst pair are a new nude Van Eli and the others are all gathering dust in my closet.

I know this is alot but would appreciate honest and brutal feedback so the Captain doesn't throw me off the ship!