Angie - As a 40-something that is a rectangle (to the point of being cinderblock) and medium height , should I be layering as is the style on YLF? I feel that when I layer a t with a fitted cardi I'm creating horizontal lines across my body that stop the visual "flow." How do you feel about mono-chromatic dressing as a base with a longer duster or longer cardi left open to create a more vertical visual flow? I'd love to hear your opinion on this and would love to get feedback from other members as well. Thanks!