Welcome and thanks for the kind words, ladies. (Hugs to Suz).
I have my hair cut and coloured every 6 weeks. The cut has to be extremely good in order for it to look thick and textured (because it's very fine) - and I'm lucky to have found an brilliant stylist who gets my hair and me. I blow every day - literally takes a minute because I barely have any hair - and style with a flat iron and two types of goo. Alterna Blow Out Cream first, and Redken Shape Factor 22 after that. I style my hair to stick up like a punk - but a polished punk. From wet to styled hair takes 5 minutes. And I don't think about it again until I wash my face in the evening. Hope that helps.