Ceit, I like thinking of clothes as armour. And now I am
having a new suit of armor made to repel a threat I hadn’t imagined before.
Suz, you are
right – it seems like I’ve had two years of nonstop stress. Just when you think
you’ve adapted…
Mo, I’m so sorry that you had to go through something
similar. But seeing you so strong and happy is very heartening. Thank you for
sharing your experience.
Angie, yes… I have a milestone coming up, too. I am sure
that is weighing on my mind as well and influencing my style.
Julie, thank you for the Rogue comparison. Not only is she
strong, but she has that whole thing going with Gambit.
Elle, I am sorry to hear you have PTSD, too. It sure isn’t
fun… but like Mo, you are an inspiration to pull myself up by the bootstraps
and endeavor to be a cool chic despite it all.
Gaylene, I like the term “re-invent” a lot. Like I am the
product of my own design – and not a Vonnegut-esque victim of a series of
accidents.
Rebekah, my heart goes out to your family. I hope that you
are all healing and finding yourselves again. Hugs
Perl, I read that article in the links! Thank you for
submitting it! Even though I was not to the point where I didn’t care about my
looks, the part about self care really resonated.
Mary, you have been in my thoughts as well! It does take
time… preferably time spent at happy hour with good friends and mini sliders,
right? <3
Stacey, not
you, too! I hope you are doing better and that your strong colors are lifting
you up. Beautiful quote – I hope the cracks do let the light in.
Una, you hit the nail on the head… there is something extra
icky about a brush with evil. But yes, I am trying to wrest the power back. It
is easier with the YLF army at my back. J
Vicki, you are a treasure trove of inspiring quotes (I
collect quotes, too, but mine were usually funny or obtuse). But the best thing
is just that you said, “it’s okay.” You know, sometimes that’s all you want to
hear.
Shannon, thank you for your kind words. I know I don’t feel
too strong most days. I appreciate the hand holding immensely.
Shedev, thank you for sharing your experience – it is good
to know someone else felt the same way.
Rachy, I wonder the same! Don’t let me become boring, ok?
BJ, very well-said. Aspirational dressing as part of the
navigation process sounds exactly right.
Rambling Ann, I am very flattered by your suggestion.
Seriously. It used to be my dream to write. I wonder how I would even go about
pitching something like that…
Inge, you are so articulate, it is hard to think of you as
lost for words. I am glad you saw meaning in the post – I am always afraid it
might be seen as whining or begging for attention. Thank you for the support.
K, you are so right. I definitely hear you about the power
of symbolism – especially since I tend to think symbolically naturally. And I
do have sage in the freezer. J
Zap, I am hugging you back. You are another fine example of
Someone Who Survived – not only an initial incident, but you survived the PTSD
as well. Thank you for sharing your triggers, as it makes me feel much better
about my own.
Janet, thank you for sharing about your clothes. There is a
little voice that nags me to keep the coat, but what you say about it keeping a
weight on the shoulders rings true.
Sona, you are yet another woman who I especially look up to
during this time. I know you had your own trials this year, and you somehow
emerged even more beautiful inside and out. I love your use of “hole” and “whole”
– they are just one letter apart… that isn’t much difference at all, right? I
can do that, like you, one step at a time.
Denise, I wish we could talk in person, too! From our past
talks, I know you have a lot of wisdom. Very good idea to deal with other issues
at the same time – the new issues definitely have aggravated some old ones. I
get scared that the doctor will say he is only supposed to help with the PTSD,
but you never know…
I know I have missed some of you, and I hope you aren't offended if I did! I very much appreciate all your wisdom, insights, and suggestions. Reading the comments here is a great boost that keeps me going.