I loved the article that LBD linked to from Alterations Needed. It summarized how I was feeling about my collarless denim jacket, which I have already sent to consignment. I felt like it was a "little sister" and I needed to upgrade to a "big sister" one....longer, more iconic, with a collar, etc. However, after hunting down and finding the perfect denim jacket for me, I brought it home and tried styling it with my clothes. There was nothing wrong with it, I mean, a denim jacket is a no brainer, right? But I just didn't like it on me. I still can't put my finger on it, but somehow I feel like I've moved on, and that I want a different type of "go-to" topper--not sure what yet. Luckily I was able to return it for a full refund, but there are many, many other wild horses that I've lost money on. But I have to say that they are very good teachers. I've started writing down in my notebook exactly what was wrong with each culled item so I won't make the same mistake twice (or three times...or...).
Of the new (not thifted) items I bought this Spring that have turned out to be wild horses are two thin boyfriend cardis, one in cream and one in navy. The navy one is so dark that it just looks wrong with either black or navy and the cream one was so thin that the print on my blouses showed through on the sleeves and bothered me. I bought them to wear when I volunteer at DFS (since I can't wear a denim jacket--which I no longer have, lol!) and I wore the navy one the other day with a pencil skirt and something about the low V cut my small bust in half and the length (neither cropped nor long) of it really bothered me. It feels alternately sloppy, dorky or dowdy on me, depending on my mood. I wish I could figure out exactly what the problem is.