Thanks everyone.
Angie: what do you mean --the temples are too delicate? When I ggogle, "temple" seems to refer to the arms of the glasses--is that what you mean? Or the area where the glasses and the arms meet (that is what I would presume is the "temple" on a pair of glasses).
I have never, in my life, returned a pair of glasses. But, I do think I would like to get these right.
So, the shape of the top is right.
A colour would e an option --a strong colour? A pale one? These also came in purple (pale metalish). There is a LOT of white from the thickness of the lenses which give the black framaes a two tone effect. I'd like to minimize that, ideally, but it is not something I will see when I try on frames, so that's a bit of an issue.
Is there a good primer on choosing glasses out there?
My anxiety level is sky high.
Thanks again, I really appreciate all of your votes and opinions.