Oh Celia, I am so very sorry for your loss. Having lost my own Papa last year I was nodding along with everything you wrote. And even though you were a little prepared, it still hits you extremely hard and more deep than you can imagine, doesn't it.

I am so glad you were able to spend time with your Papa in August, and that you were able to help your Mama through the first few weeks alone too. Living so far apart makes everything even harder for sure.

Please know that I am thinking of you and your family, and that we are always hear to help, listen, anything you need... Just say the word.

Warm hugs,

Inge
xxx

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sorry to hear this. My father died 8-1/2 years ago and I still miss him, although it does get easier. You can never be really prepared. It would be especially hard with the distance between you and your mom. Take care of yourself.

I'm so sorry, Celia. I lost my dad 25 years ago -- half my lifetime ago -- and it still gets to me. I'm sending all the best to you and your family. Be gentle with yourself. Big hugs.

Cecelia, I'm so very sorry for your loss. It is very hard. I'm so glad you were able to be there this summer and that your daughter was there with you, building some memories. Wishing you peace and strength for the months ahead. I have lost a parent recently, too, and the grief can catch you by surprise and stun. But you are strong and loved.

I'm so glad you got to spend time with him in August. I am sure your mom was so grateful to have you by her side. My condolences to you and your family.

I'm so sorry, Celia. Wishing you peace and healing.

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I wish you strength during the coming months.

I am sorry for your loss. I am sure your insecurity about the work situation will pass soon, give yourself time to mourn.

Thanks for chiming back in, Celia. I get it better now, and am happy to hear that you're surrounded by dear friends. Much love.

Dear Celia: I'm so saddened to hear of your father's passing. I wish you the very best as you move into a new chapter, and I'm glad to hear you have a strong support system to help you navigate through these huge changes.

Sending hugs Celia. My DH says its like cutting one of the strings connecting you to world so you are swinging around wildly. Its such a good analogy.. so glad your lovely friends are holding you close x

I am very touched by all the support and kind words.
Thank you Eliza, Shevia, Aziraphale, Joy, deb, Sisi, lyn67, Inge, Karie, RobinF,Janet,Suz,AJ,Aubergine,Jane,bella, BethAnn and jenanded

I'm so sorry, Celia. Losing a parent always leaves a deep wound, whatever age we are. Cling to the happy memories. Take care.