Writing this before I read another posts so I don't get my opinion swayed.
I do not like the first cat dress. It does not feel like your style to me. Not 00Noir. Not fun and playful. Just not Rae. I can be totally off base on this and only you can answer if you will wear it a lot. I feel like you are settling on this.
Te second dress you linked to above feels more like Rae. Yes, playful kitties, but with all the right edge to it and something think you would wear more. Is it THE ONE? Only you can answer that, but I would hold out for theone, especially for such a statement piece.