I notice that I can start to question if something is 'dated' when it becomes over 'familiar' to me. I am so used to seeing it (the look) that it no longer seems fresh and exciting to me. I guess that's the equivalent of feeling fatigued with or by a look.

But really if I am not sure if something's dated, I have you awesome ladies to tell me

For me, this statement from Angie's original post sums if up for me. An item is 'still in style, although not as on trend as it was before.' I know bootcut jeans are still in style but I personally have not worn them in years and I do not think they are on trend right now.

Very interesting! In my opinion, the trends are moving towards a more dressy and ladylike style, not as casual as before. Thus, skinnies and boots combined with a button down and blazer/peacoat is more on trend than with a sweater and denim jacket, to my eye at least. Am I right?

Thanks for this, Angie. I find I'm still asking myself "is this dated?" and just not being sure. This never seemed like a problem when I was in my 30s and 40s- the 50s have made it a little harder. YLF has really helped with this- before YLF, I never got style compliments from my daughter. Now I frequently do. And it feels great!