Okay family I REALLY appreciate your feed back. An and all advise is welcome and we have some really great people here.
Here is what I'm learning.
I must be myself because that is what drew Tem to me and I him
Tem is a selfless person and a giver/nurturer like I am only he is way better at it.
Relationships are difficult specifically after you have been on your own for a while.
It is great having alone time and together time.
You wisdom as a collective is so very helpful. Thank you
Honorable mention to Janet. I am soaking up these quotes.