Haven't read the other comments thoroughly, but my first impression was #3 in black, then #1. However, the zipper on #3 may be too hard edge for you; although you wear lots of edgy things like asymmetric cuts and the like, they're generally not "hard" like the exposed zipper is, if that makes any sense. So I guess I am on the fence between 1 and 3.
I don't like #2 for you because it seems way too classic and symmetrical, and there isn't much drape. I associate your style with asymmetry and drapey fabrics.
Congratulations on being asked to do this!