Aw, thank you so much for your lovely feedback everyone :-)
Jean, DH will feel vindicated when I tell him ;-)
Angie, That is what happens when I post half asleep. My posts confuse me too when I read them the next day :-D You understood right, the store in the mall close to me was out in my size; when I called the other stores this morning they they didn't have it either. And yup, Sarah was right, the fabric of the Express dress gives it a more casual, cocktail party feel to it than evening. I'll be looking for a similar dress in better fabric. I'm glad you like the Max & Cleo dress :-) It still doesn't make sense to me why I like it; ruffles are just not me :-)
Maya, LOL! You and I share this "bust fixation". I think it is only natural for us busty gals because the bust is more "in your face" that most other parts of the anatomy women are concerned about.
As for the anniversary dinner update, it seems it isn't destined to happen anytime soon. DH had a bad bout of acidity today so we rescheduled for next Saturday. We'll see if it happens as planned but in the meanwhile I might post some styling options with this dress.