https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Thu, 09 Apr 2026 12:42:43 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1529535 Wed, 29 Jul 2015 17:14:54 +0000 Dee 1529535@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think that eye-catching accessories (by whatever definition) can add pop to an outfit and dress it up or down.&nbsp; An LBD with heels, jewelry, etc. can work great for a night out or be worn with sandals, sunglasses, etc. for a casual lunch or shopping.&nbsp; However, except for toppers and maybe scarves, I think it is difficult to accessorize an outfit in such a way as to make it look like a different outfit.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1529529 Wed, 29 Jul 2015 17:03:25 +0000 BridgetteRaes 1529529@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Great thoughts, Laura, and I can definitely see where you are coming from.&nbsp; Every client I work with is totally different.&nbsp; I am remembering a client from last week whose clothes really stood on their own without a lot needed.&nbsp; It's really all a just preference, really, and, as you said, dependent on the environment and lifestyle.&nbsp; </p> <p>And I just wrote a post further talking about the Base Accent Pop approach, for what it is worth, should you want to expand on that in a separate topic.&nbsp; <a href="http://bridgetteraes.com/2015/07/20/stylish-and-coloful-outfits/" rel="nofollow">http://bridgetteraes.com/2015/.....l-outfits/</a></p> <p>Thanks again for the lively conversation! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1529505 Wed, 29 Jul 2015 16:32:18 +0000 Laura (rhubarbgirl) 1529505@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Bridgette, thanks for stopping in and posting the new link. Very interesting. The base/accent/pop approach might deserve its own separate conversation but it does relate, for me, to how I feel about accessories. If I wear scarves or noticeable jewelry, the rest of my outfit is very basic.</p> <p>I look at Bridgette's photos in that post and I think ok, the base is fine, and then the accent is nice, but when the third layer of pop is added my reaction is that there is way too much going on at once. It looks nice, and I can see how it would suit other people, but I would feel way out of character wearing it. I do base plus accent and that's all, and that's why I've never been a big accessories person, because clothing accents are to me more interesting and versatile than accessory accents.</p> <p>Partially it might be a dressiness thing too. Bridgette's client photos are for work at a business formal workplace, with suiting and jackets and heels. Jewelry in that situation has a different, "oh but I know how to have fun and am feminine" vibe. When worn with a more casual outfit, say jeans and a knit top, jewelry makes the outfit more dressy rather than less, and a little fussy and 'done', which is counter to the environmental norms I live in most of the time. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1529499 Wed, 29 Jul 2015 16:08:17 +0000 BridgetteRaes 1529499@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Wow!&nbsp; What a conversation my blog post generated!&nbsp; I happened to notice it my traffic stats and had to come by and see what all the chatter was about.&nbsp; What a really great conversation!&nbsp; Torontogirl, thanks for starting it.&nbsp; </p> <p>I think everyone has different points of view, none right or wrong, but I do see shoes as an accessory because, the way I see it, any non-clothing item falls into that category.&nbsp; I also consider them accessories because they can change the look of an outfit in some many ways.&nbsp; But, I completely see the views of others who see them as non-accessory items.&nbsp; </p> <p>For those of you who can't see the changes in the original post that started this whole thread, I can also see how it's hard to really get how much of a change a few accessories can make from a bunch of polyvore sets.&nbsp; This link (<a href="http://bridgetteraes.com/2014/07/13/adding-color-to-work-outfits/" rel="nofollow">http://bridgetteraes.com/2014/.....k-outfits/</a>), that has actual working client photos (not professional, and a little crude) may help in seeing my thinking.&nbsp; Sometimes it is easier to get concepts on a body and I wish I had the time to photograph everything for my blog that way.&nbsp; Oh time, there is never enough of it.&nbsp; I like to show the way accessories can change clothing up so that my clients feel they can get more with less and can mix and match.&nbsp; Of course, this may still not be enough of a change for some people.&nbsp; Everyone is certainly different, but thought this might be helpful.&nbsp; Another post that might show how mixing and matching and the use of accessories can be used might be this one that also shows not only how accessories can be used to change up one look but how they can be used lots of different ways to finish outfis- <a href="http://bridgetteraes.com/2011/09/26/behind-the-scenes-mrs-fabulous-gets-ready-for-fall/" rel="nofollow">http://bridgetteraes.com/2011/.....-for-fall/</a></p> <p>Anyway, thanks again for starting this engaging dialogue.&nbsp; It's always great to get feedback on a post that you have written and see different points of view!&nbsp; Thanks!&nbsp; <br />Happy accessorizing! <br />Bridgette </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1529462 Wed, 29 Jul 2015 14:45:42 +0000 Angie 1529462@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>High five, Susie. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1529334 Wed, 29 Jul 2015 10:42:56 +0000 Helen11 1529334@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Very interesting. Especially since I don't even wear my wedding rings at the moment. I got tired of taking them off for some of my work tasks, and I haven't worn them for months! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1529184 Wed, 29 Jul 2015 02:24:11 +0000 Thistle 1529184@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hmmm, wondering about my accessorizing habits. Perhaps this is an area I need more focus on! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1529178 Wed, 29 Jul 2015 02:02:44 +0000 Susie 1529178@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>YES!! That makes perfect sense.....Just like I don't wear earrings if I wear a necklace! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1529151 Wed, 29 Jul 2015 01:01:48 +0000 Angie 1529151@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yes, Susie. That's certainly one way of looking at it, and it's a good way. But I'll throw you a curve ball with a smile. I don't wear accessories like earrings and necklaces <i>because</i> of my hair and specs. That's why I consider them my accessories. Does that make sense?&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1529033 Tue, 28 Jul 2015 21:56:32 +0000 Aida 1529033@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Another here who doesn't consider footwear an accessory. For me, it's really only a fab hair 'do that I'd consider <i>essential</i>. Everything else is just a finisher, not a way to "change" an outfit's look. Personally the silhouette of an outfit makes a bigger difference to me; the article's examples don't show much variety to me, just different finishes. As far as my own accessories go, for me "important" is earrings and watch (which I wear every single day), and then the occasional necklace, bracelet, belt, scarf, or hat. I do also change my sunglasses per outfit.</p> <p>EDIT: Did want to add that I do quite enjoy a statement accessory. Most of mine are bold :)</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1529018 Tue, 28 Jul 2015 21:39:45 +0000 Suz 1529018@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>TG, I'd agree with Gigi that you are an expert with accessories, and also that accessories can be key to a minimalist closet. I'd also agree with those who said that the example in the article did not look all that different from one another! At the same time, I also know from my own experience that the same simple black or navy shift dress can look completely different with pumps and pearls vs. knee high brown boots, warm tights, a scarf, and a tee layered underneath. I'm not sure that's so much the power of "accessories" per se as of outfit composition -- that is, it's not so much the pearls that make the difference as all the components working together.&nbsp;</p> <p>I have always been pretty minimalist when it comes to jewellery. I wear a wedding ring, the same pair of earrings 9 days out of 10, and often a cuff bracelet. I have been trying to experiment a bit more with different earrings and cuffs and even the odd necklace lately -- now that I am not wearing specs, I find I'm more open to other accessories.&nbsp;</p> <p>My favourite winter accessories are scarves. I wear them for warmth and for a bit of pattern. They work well for my climate and my hairstyle.&nbsp;</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1528970 Tue, 28 Jul 2015 20:42:06 +0000 Helena 1528970@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Amazing trove of ideas here! I agree that some of the examples on the site don't demonstrate much of a change; great point. I like the idea of also choosing a category of clothing, e.g. topper or shoes, to be the "spice" (I really liked her chicken analogy ;)</p> <p>Gigi, thank you for the kind comment; I'll have to look back on some of my WIWs with an eye to the accessories.</p> <p>Thanks everyone for the inputs - great thread thanks to you all! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1528957 Tue, 28 Jul 2015 20:24:14 +0000 Kirstjen 1528957@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think of accessories as the sass that you can add to your look &amp; that accessories are definitely the fun part of getting dressed, so I include shoes in that part of the equation. &nbsp;</p> <p>I wear a ton of scarves when it's cold &amp; wintry. &nbsp;I like them so much, sometimes I wear two at once. &nbsp;:)</p> <p>&nbsp;In the summer, I wear a lot more pendant necklaces. &nbsp;I also love a funky colorful shoe, have about a dozen pairs of eyeglasses, and a pretty good collection of handbags. &nbsp;</p> <p>I have a pretty well-stocked jewelry box with pieces that I buy at art shows, and those get thrown into the mix all year round. &nbsp;</p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1528836 Tue, 28 Jul 2015 16:51:22 +0000 Susie 1528836@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>To me, an accessory is something that is extra or&nbsp;optional. So I don't think of hair as an accessory because it's not optional, you HAVE to wear it everyday! In your case, Angie, I do see your hair as a key element of your style. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1528828 Tue, 28 Jul 2015 16:32:48 +0000 Angie 1528828@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I don't think of footwear as an accessory either. Footwear is <b>so </b>extremely &nbsp;important in an outfit - that it gets its own category. That's why I always refer to, "clothing, footwear and accessories".</p> <p>My hair is my most powerful accessory. My eyewear next. Then comes watch and belts. Occasionally a scarf. No jewellery.&nbsp;</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1528801 Tue, 28 Jul 2015 15:33:36 +0000 Summer 1528801@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I <i>do</i> rely on accessories to change up my look because it's an affordable way to achieve variety in my wardrobe. &nbsp;I accept that others may not notice too much difference, but it makes <i>me</i> feel different.<br />&nbsp; Of course, adding more tops and jackets would make a more distinct change to an outfit, but for those on a smaller budget, that isn't always an option.<br />&nbsp; Mostly, I use scarves, statement necklaces or cuffs to change things up, but they <i>do</i> need to be large/colourful enough to make an impact; dainty items don't have the same effect.<i>&nbsp;</i>&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1528775 Tue, 28 Jul 2015 14:40:31 +0000 Susie 1528775@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Shevia and Maneera mentioned my first thought....since when are shoes an accessory??!! It's not like I am going to skip adding shoes to an outfit. And for me they function as an important part of the outfit, as does a bag even though it's usually part of the look for only a small part of the day. </p> <p>Last winter I got into wearing scarves and went into spring wanting to do more with completer or third pieces. I got a few very lightweight scarves, a white vest, and&nbsp;a couple of statement necklaces. I regularly wear a watch (currently white or silver), my wedding ring, and a right hand ring. If I wear a scarf or a necklace then I don't wear earrings. I agree with others that jewelry is especially useful for dressing up an outfit.</p> <p>So I guess I use accessories to 'finish' an outfit more than to add variety.&nbsp;&nbsp;And overall, to me the looks she showed still looked very much like the same outfit. </p> <p></p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1528611 Tue, 28 Jul 2015 07:47:33 +0000 anne 1528611@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm not great with accessories, but I understand that they can be used to dress an outfit up or down. I am less convinced, in common with many above, that the examples given change the look of an outfit that much and are all you need to give variety to the same outfits underneath.</p> <p>I think they certainly can enhance an outfit. I love how Imogen at Inside Out style uses necklaces, and I loved Angie's use of them in the past (before she chose not to use jewellery) too.</p> <p>I confess to wearing just my wedding ring and the same earrings nearly every day. I do wear scarfs quite a bit in winter, and appreciate that they mean I can wear top colours that aren't so flattering close to my face like black and grey because there is&nbsp; a scarf next to my face (plus I like the warmth)</p> <p>Like E, many of my shoes are expensive, in my case because they are specially made for orthotics, and this means I have quite a lot fewer than I might like, and they aren't as attractive and outfit enhancing as would be nice. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1528604 Tue, 28 Jul 2015 06:52:22 +0000 Maneera 1528604@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love accessories. The ones I use most are:</p> <p>Scarves<br />Necklaces<br />Belts<br />Rings</p> <p>I don't count handbags and shoes in accessories as they are part of the outfit for me.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1528597 Tue, 28 Jul 2015 06:36:56 +0000 Gigi 1528597@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I have just started getting more into accessories lately, mostly of the jewelry variety. This is tough for me, though, because I am very sensitive to a lot of metals and so have to buy sterling silver or gold (and it gets pricey fast!). So I would have to say that for me, the most important accessories are shoes and jewelry. But overall, I choose to have variety through owning more clothes in different styles.</p> <p>I have noticed that you are a good accessorizer, TG! Accessories are absolutely crucial to your style. I think that anyone who dresses on the more minimal side of the spectrum needs to have a good grasp of accessories.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories/page/2#post-1527829 Mon, 27 Jul 2015 01:53:39 +0000 Echo 1527829@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am definitely NOT convinced by the examples in the article linked. They all look the same. However, I have definitely seen tights. boots/shoes, belts and hairstyles change a style entirely.</p> <p>While toppers are generally considered wardrobe items, they are the very best way to assure diversity in a wardrobe of basics, IMO. I have just introduced my DD to the idea, and she LOVES it. She has comfortable basics she enjoys wearing for school, and the toppers make the entire outfit different. Scarves, for people who enjoy wearing them indoors, can also create the same effect. But changing to a different coloured pair of pumps and changing one's earrings &nbsp;just aren't enough to create a different look in my eyes. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories#post-1527828 Mon, 27 Jul 2015 01:53:31 +0000 UmmLila (Lisa) 1527828@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like Bridgette Raes' ideas on adding color via shoes and bags. Her thoughts on the colors green and teal are particularly inspiring.</p> <p>However, I never like the jewelry she features as a way to add color to outfits...I am not a fan of any jewelry that looks like it might be made out of plastic or might weigh enough to cause a neck ache.</p> <p>I always wear jewelry, and feel undressed without it. However my choices are nearly always low key gold and silver, and therefore don't show up in photos as much as they do in real life.</p> <p>And I love scarves ... I am not without them in colder weather. For me that's like under 55 degrees.</p> <p>I update my sunglasses at least once a year. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories#post-1527821 Mon, 27 Jul 2015 01:29:56 +0000 Jaime 1527821@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Shoes! Not technically accessories but function that way for me in terms of changing the look of an outfit. I regularly wear sunglasses, hats and a watch but those tend to be repeated for months. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories#post-1527761 Sun, 26 Jul 2015 23:16:34 +0000 gryffin 1527761@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm a minimalist at heart. &nbsp;The only accessories I regularly use are booties/boots and belts. &nbsp;I get variety by swapping up what underlayer with which topper. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories#post-1527755 Sun, 26 Jul 2015 23:02:29 +0000 Staysfit 1527755@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am clearly an accessories person. &nbsp;I love scarves, shoes, belts, necklaces, earrings, bangles. &nbsp;I have a variety of handbags, but even though I like them, I am not really a handbag person. &nbsp;Maybe I am a coat person though. &nbsp;I love coats, and given the weather around here, it's a good item to love! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories#post-1527744 Sun, 26 Jul 2015 22:11:59 +0000 Sal 1527744@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am also equal opportunities but also happy to wear very simple looks too with minimal accessories.</p> <p>I do wear scarves - mostly winter<br />Hats - mostly summer unless for warmth<br />Sunglasses - all year<br />Belts - I love a peek of a colourful or fun belt<br />Tights - patterned, not as much as I used to<br />Earrings - mostly large ones, for special occasions<br />Necklaces and cuffs - once every couple of weeks, love it when I do<br />Cocktail rings - evening</p> <p>I could lift my game with jewelry. &nbsp;I also need a second pair of sunglasses as my Aviators are getting a little worn and need a backup pair.</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories#post-1527736 Sun, 26 Jul 2015 21:58:11 +0000 Lyn D. 1527736@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My must-haves are interesting shoes and bags, earrings and scarves in the colder weather.<br />I have purged most of my necklaces as they were unworn and unloved. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories#post-1527734 Sun, 26 Jul 2015 21:55:49 +0000 Helena 1527734@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What a great lot of insight and ideas. I definitely agree that this is only ONE way of getting variety ... tops are another slam-dunk for variety, especially if you are adventurous and diverse in color and silhouette choices.</p> <p>I agree sometimes an accessory that is very trendy gets a little tired after a while ... those bubble statement necklaces that were big I am sort of over ... however, I think there is always a new incarnation of things to try!<br />I also enjoy delicate jewellery.</p> <p>Karmyk, I was thinking of a pair of silver flats so I am glad you noted this one! I agree, changing purses is a pain, although I did think a colorful or printed clutch might be fun for a night out.</p> <p>Smittie, sunglasses - absolutely. Jackie O and a million celebrity style icons can't be wrong! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories#post-1527721 Sun, 26 Jul 2015 21:07:39 +0000 Anonymous 1527721@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I don't think anybody mentioned sunglasses a way to change a look. That's what I notice immediately, especially on summer outfits.</p> <p>Was at the splash pad with the kids, and the mum who stood out most , to me, was the one wearing the blue rayban wayfarers with some sort of subdued mirrored lenses. Really made her short- and-tshirt outfit. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/your-must-have-accessories#post-1527704 Sun, 26 Jul 2015 20:15:37 +0000 kerlyn 1527704@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Fun topic! &nbsp;Accessories are integral to my fairly boho style. &nbsp;I think they can make a huge difference, and I tend to notice them on other people as well. &nbsp;Strangely, I don't wear scarves (except warm ones in winter). &nbsp;I just never feel "myself" in them. &nbsp;I'm also not a handbag girl. &nbsp;I have a handful of purses, mostly cross body style. &nbsp;I did recently buy a pretty embossed leather clutch at World Market, and I really enjoyed carrying that on a recent date night with my hubby.</p> <p>As for jewelry, I love it and have built a nice collection over the years. &nbsp;None of it is expensive, but some is precious for the sentimental value. &nbsp;Hubby brought me a gorgeous lapis necklace from Afghanistan, and that is one of my very favorite pieces. &nbsp;I love chandelier earrings, hoops, &nbsp; beaded bracelets, bold cuffs, and rings of all sorts(semi-precious stones and interesting metal work). &nbsp;</p> <p>I never used to care much about shoes, just owning fairly practical shoes in neutrals colors. &nbsp;But over the last couple years I can't stop buying boots. &nbsp;I've gotten great deals on them(many on clearance), and still in neutral colors. But I have really enjoyed having some different styles to play around with. &nbsp;And here on YLF I've seen how much a great shoe can add to an outfit. &nbsp;</p>