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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Yet another follow up</title>
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				<title>Eirlys on "Yet another follow up"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/yet-another-follow-up#post-2076108</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 08 Nov 2019 22:39:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Eirlys</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;:O)
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				<title>Marilyn on "Yet another follow up"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/yet-another-follow-up#post-2070987</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 22 Oct 2019 15:16:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Marilyn</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;&#060;div&#062;Oh, Eirlys.&#038;nbsp; This was such a wonderful read!&#038;nbsp; I'm so happy to hear that you are doing well and that you are adjusting, in a positive way, to this new way of life that has been thrust upon you.&#038;nbsp; I can only imagine how difficult it must be.&#060;br /&#062;&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;&#060;br /&#062;&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;And you are so right in that our thoughts and attitudes have a major impact on how we deal with life and and take on new challenges.&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;&#060;br /&#062;&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;Hugs to you. :)&#060;br /&#062;&#060;/div&#062;
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				<title>Eirlys on "Yet another follow up"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Oct 2019 19:49:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Eirlys</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;:-)
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				<title>Jules on "Yet another follow up"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/yet-another-follow-up#post-2067586</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Oct 2019 14:51:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jules</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Eirlys, you are clearly a person who attracts others to want to be in your company. No surprise given your positive and thoughtful presence on these boards.
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				<title>Barbara Diane on "Yet another follow up"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/yet-another-follow-up#post-2067485</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Oct 2019 02:10:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Barbara Diane</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Echoing what everyone else has already said. So glad for your being willing to be vulnerable and for your update.
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				<title>Eirlys on "Yet another follow up"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/yet-another-follow-up#post-2067263</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 08 Oct 2019 13:54:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Eirlys</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you ALL yet again for your kind comments. &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Peri on "Yet another follow up"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 08 Oct 2019 12:59:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Peri</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm glad about this for you! And also, you offer us all so much to learn from your attitude. Thank you.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>bridgie on "Yet another follow up"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/yet-another-follow-up#post-2066850</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 07 Oct 2019 00:24:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>bridgie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Eirlys, Good to see your latest update. So glad to hear things are going well for you.
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				<title>DonnaF on "Yet another follow up"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 06 Oct 2019 00:44:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>DonnaF</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So glad your life has taken a turn for the better! A cozy place in town sounds so much better than a huge place in the country, at least in the colder months. So fortunate to have friendly people around, too.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Anonymous on "Yet another follow up"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 05 Oct 2019 23:13:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What wonderful news.  A house swap is genius for you.  It’s a chance to try out exploring a new neighborhood without the stress of actually having to sell your house..
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				<title>Carla on "Yet another follow up"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/yet-another-follow-up#post-2066571</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 05 Oct 2019 12:28:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Clever you, and clever son.  Good idea to be ‘in town’ over the winter, and how good to have cultivated some friendships.
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				<title>Suz on "Yet another follow up"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 05 Oct 2019 05:57:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh, Eirlys -- this is such a wonderful update -- thank you! And no wonder. What an inventive and interesting decision you have made, and how promising these first encounters! I'm so glad you are giving this a whirl and I hope you enjoy your new home.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>nemosmom on "Yet another follow up"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/yet-another-follow-up#post-2066496</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 05 Oct 2019 01:01:47 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hugs to you, sweet Eirlys!&#038;nbsp; A change of scenery and walkable neighborhood sounds perfect!
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				<title>Angie on "Yet another follow up"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/yet-another-follow-up#post-2066489</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 05 Oct 2019 00:52:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What an uplifting read. I'm proud of you. The house swap is very clever!&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>rachylou on "Yet another follow up"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 04 Oct 2019 23:53:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hey, that’s great! Meeting neighborhood folks already. I really like being able to walk to the shops. When I was younger I didn’t think it was important. Now that I’m older, I find it easier and makes for pleasant outings.
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				<title>The Cat on "Yet another follow up"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/yet-another-follow-up#post-2066447</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 04 Oct 2019 22:39:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>The Cat</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am so glad on your behalf, Eirlys. Wishing you all the best.
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				<title>Gail on "Yet another follow up"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 04 Oct 2019 19:24:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Gail</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Very pleased that you're feeling better. What an exciting step you've taken on your home swop ! Seems as though changes are being &#038;nbsp;made and you will be having a different type of social life  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Eirlys on "Yet another follow up"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 04 Oct 2019 16:52:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Eirlys</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Some time ago I wrote about Ugliness and so many people responded and posted positive uplifting comments. &#038;nbsp;I did a follow up in which I confessed that the post was written following the death of my husband. It was written at a vulnerable time and I did find so much comfort from your posts.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I am in a much more positive frame of mind now. I have taken so many chances lately, the biggest one being. a house swop with my youngest. He lives in a small one-bedroom flat : &#038;nbsp;I live in a large 5-bedroom house in a very rural area. It means that I will now be within walking distance of shops and restaurants. If I don't like it, we will swop back.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;So many people are intrigued with this arrangement : a change of occupancy , not of ownership. I am discovering a different chapter in my life : one that has been thrust upon me but that I am going to tackle positively.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Today daughter and I had lunch out and the couple at the next table started a conversation. They were in. my age bracket an the conversation ended with the statement that they would keep an eye out for me on their regular visits to this particular restaurant.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;A sympathy letter arrived from our vet and she asked to meet up for coffee as she had always enjoyed our conversations! She has a new baby whom I have yet to meet.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;What am I trying to say? There are times when Life's ugliness is reflected in one's thoughts, and even attitudes'&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I feel so much better these days.&#038;nbsp;
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