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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: WIW: Not So Sure</title>
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				<title>catgirl on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 28 Sep 2013 02:34:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think the cardi is just a little too much.&#038;nbsp; Not too flowy but too long.&#038;nbsp; I always think of you as tall even though you are my height, but this is a overwhelming even with your regal stature.&#038;nbsp; Not sloppy though, just a lotta look.
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				<title>Susie on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 28 Sep 2013 02:31:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Susie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree with Day Vie's assessment. My first thought was that a higher heel would eliminate the puddling to give a more sleek finish to the bottom. The pants really aren't voluminous so I think they work with the cardigan with just that slight tweak. You still look fab and quite far from sloppy.
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				<title>Day Vies on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 28 Sep 2013 02:23:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Day Vies</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think with wearing a lower heel you're attracted to the sleek like of the skinny jeans. The straight legs have more volume that compete with the low flowy hem of the topper. I think that's why you felt sloppy. It is a noticeable departure from your regular style but It's only the pant hem that's off that would be remedied with shortening the hem or a slightly higher heel to get rid of the break/ volume at the ankle.
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				<title>K. Period. on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 28 Sep 2013 01:12:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>K. Period.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I really like it, but I'm seeing it as a very fluid on fluid thing. &#038;nbsp;I think Shannon and Sveta are absolutely right that the combo of the&#038;nbsp;fluidity and length of the cardi is what you aren't liking. &#038;nbsp;If the cardi was shorter or if it was more structured, then you wouldn't feel so over the top in this. That's why your impulse is to put on a structured blazer. Adding that structure. What about a wider belt over the top of the cardi as another option?&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Sveta on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 28 Sep 2013 01:04:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sveta</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think it is not as much volume as the volume AND&#038;nbsp;length together. Replace the long cardi with shorter &#034;fluid fit&#034; sweater and you are in business!
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				<title>JulieJohn on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 28 Sep 2013 00:58:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>JulieJohn</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I don't see anything sloppy, I just see fabulous you. However, I commiserate with your feelings. I just wanted you to know you look great to me.
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				<title>Lantana on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 28 Sep 2013 00:53:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lantana</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Pointy toes peeping out from the hems would provide structure, I feel.
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				<title>AviaMariah on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2013 22:09:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>AviaMariah</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm going to be a spanner with Thistle because&#038;nbsp;I love it! &#038;nbsp;Maybe you were just needed a little more structure that day. &#038;nbsp;But I think this volume on volume looks great on you. &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Lyn D. on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2013 21:55:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lyn D.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hi Deborah,&#060;br /&#062;It could be that our eyes are so accustomed to the hi/lo hemline now that the cardigan seems to be dragging the eye down front-on here.&#060;br /&#062;Of course you always look so Fab that this is nit-picking- our expectations are so high!&#060;br /&#062;I hope you are having a rest this weekend after your busy Spring Fashion Week (s)?
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				<title>AnnieMouse on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2013 18:13:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>AnnieMouse</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Is it possible that the trousers feel a wee bit too long with that heel? That is the part that, for me and my wackadoo self, would feel a bit off, in conjunction with the drapey topper. I like the topper with the trouser, but that bit of puddling would be a crazy-maker for me.
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				<title>kkards on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2013 16:47:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>kkards</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;i like this look, but i can see what you are saying.&#060;br /&#062;i would love to see these trousers with the black and white printed jacket that you post a week or so ago.
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				<title>Hil on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2013 16:44:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Hil</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree that a different jacket would work better, but as Mochi says... problems on you are fabness in others.&#038;nbsp;How would the Spiegel look?
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				<title>Anonymous on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2013 16:33:09 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You obviously crave more structure on the bottom every time you wear a more flowy top, so it just feels different to you. You do look great though Deb. You just need a bit more of a structured topper like a blazer. The trousers are really lovely.
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				<title>Thistle on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2013 16:28:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Thistle</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am going to be a spanner here and say I like the fluid drapey look. So you and so lovely!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;BUT you don't like it, and that's what matters. I would select a more structured topper to pair with the trousers and see how that feels to you.
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				<title>Mochi on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2013 16:21:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mochi</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think Shannon got it right. But may I add that a problem outfit for you is something that for most people would be an incredible step up in fabness. If that makes sense.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Transcona Shannon on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2013 13:15:30 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think the trousers look lovely on you Deb and have the fluidity that Angie has been speaking about lately. But I find the cardi a bit too &#034;flowy&#034; and long to work with these trousers. A more structured jacket would work very well though.
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				<title>Anonymous on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2013 12:25:57 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Those look like lovely fluid pants.  The whole outfit has fluidity and doesn't look like too much in the photo.  Still I hear you on craving a little structure.  I different topper would change things up.  Your new belt looks great!
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				<title>Glory on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2013 12:23:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Glory</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I also like the drape of the trouser and echo the others to try a more fitted jacket or perhaps a moto.
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				<title>Nicole D on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2013 12:22:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Nicole D</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I actually love the fluidity of this. &#038;nbsp;The belted , fitted waist adds a bit of structure. &#038;nbsp;I think you could try a different topper, but I am liking this too. &#038;nbsp;Not sloppy at all! &#038;nbsp;Wonder what Angie thinks?
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				<title>Jaime on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2013 12:21:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What everyone said. I think these trousers are great on you but try with a more structured topper or no topper at all.
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				<title>Suz on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2013 12:19:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What Ceit said. The trousers look brilliant on you! You just need a different kind of topper with them.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>TraceyLiz65 on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2013 11:57:55 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love your drapey outfits as well, so pleasing to the eye! &#038;nbsp;i do think that a tailored jacket with these pants may hit just the note you are looking for.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>nancylee on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2013 11:57:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>nancylee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree that maybe it's just a little too much volume that's bothering you about the look. &#038;nbsp;Swap out the drapey jacket for a tailored one and I think you'll be happy. &#038;nbsp;:)
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				<title>lyn67 on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2013 11:54:47 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I always like your drapey outfits, Deb, but this one may be wee bit overhelming, as Ceit said. Or it's only the&#038;nbsp;longer&#038;nbsp;length of the toper(?).
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				<title>Anonymous on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2013 11:47:24 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think a tailored blazer might work. It might just feel like too much volume over volume right now?
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				<title>Deborah on "WIW: Not So Sure"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Sep 2013 11:45:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Deborah</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hi Ladies,&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Wore this to work today.  I have become very attached to slim and skinny leg pants but I still like these straight leg pants and want to keep them in rotation.  They are only a few months old.  BUT I am just not loving how I look in them:(.   I don't think they are terrible but I realise how much I like a skinny leg.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I did feel good in this outfit at the start of the day but by the time I got home I actually felt sloppy.  Not sure I would repeat this, though might consider swapping out the drape jacket for a tailored blazer?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Your thoughts and suggestions much appreciated.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Happy Weekend.&#060;br /&#062;
xxxDeborah
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