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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black</title>
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				<title>Cee on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw-my-personal-challenge---wearing-black/page/2#post-2007210</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2019 05:59:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Cee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Way to kill the Halloween party mood, JAil' !
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				<title>JAileen on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2019 04:31:01 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>JAileen</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Cee, I was Grim Reaper at Halloween once...&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Janet, Brooklyn, thank you.  I thought black washed me out and made me look like a ghost.  Maybe I should reconsider?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Suntiger, thank you.   Your suggestions remind me of when I go to our local Philharmonic.  The men wear tuxes, but the women wear black.  And what they wear really varies.  The concertmaster is probably the dressiest, and of course she’s front and center.  The women who play stand up basses wear pants.  I think the cellists wear pants, too.  Anyway, some have sheer sleeves which I really like.
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				<title>Anonymous on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2019 02:11:09 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Fun with the white accessories-and your moon necklace makes me think of yin yang.&#060;br /&#062;
What works well for me (dark autumn) with black is to break it up with skin, like a scoop or v neck-the necklace kinda has the same effect. Another trick is&#060;br /&#062;
sheer fabrics (sleeves especially) - then it reads as dark brown! Matte black fabrics look less dark than sheeny ones in my experience too.
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				<title>Brooklyn on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw-my-personal-challenge---wearing-black/page/2#post-2007094</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2019 02:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Brooklyn</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look great JA. Black may not be your favourite colour, but I think it does favour you. And I like the white accents.
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				<title>Janet on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 23:08:39 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well, I’m a big fan of all black, and I think it looks fantastic with your hair. And I don’t normally gravitate to light footwear but I just love those boots with this ensemble.
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				<title>Cee on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 22:54:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Cee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Don't Fear the Reaper !!!
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				<title>JAileen on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 16:01:39 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Firecracker, thank you.  Now that I’ve worn the necklace, I think it doesn’t need black, it would work with other colors, too.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Cee, I’ll mention it this Wednesday.   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Cee on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 05:49:31 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Dang right !
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				<title>Firecracker (Sharan) on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 04:01:18 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look smashing! I love how the white accents brighten the outfit and make it &#034;you,&#034; bringing attention to your face and hair. That necklace is so neat, and this is just the outfit to show it off. The bell choir sounds like a great experience.
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				<title>JAileen on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 03:43:01 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;FashIntern, thank you.  I’ve never worn black.  I was told I was an Autumn, and so I wore browns, olives, etc.  Black didn’t do anything for my hair, which was chestnut.  Although some think black looks good on me, I think it’s too strong a color, and makes me look like a ghost.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Taylor, thank you.  I wore white booties mainly because...I don’t have any black ones!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Ginger, thank you.  Yes, I think I might have to develop a black capsule.  I think I’d like black cropped pants.  I do have black sandals and heels.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Kate, thank you.  The reason I got the white booties is because they would bookend my hair.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The Cat, thank you. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Cjh, thank you.  You see what I see, I think.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Anchie, thank you.  The funny thing was, the choir (singing) didn’t wear robes or any kind of cohesive color scheme.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Karen, thank you.  I really like the necklace, but because it’s black and white, I just hadn’t figured out what to wear it with.  I’ll PM you.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Mainelady, thank you.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Rachy, thank you.  Maybe you’d enjoy bell ringing...&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Cee, thank you.  That sounds like a good idea!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Shevia, thank you.
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				<title>Jaime on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw-my-personal-challenge---wearing-black#post-2006510</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2019 02:25:44 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The white shoes are just the thing here!&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Cee on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw-my-personal-challenge---wearing-black#post-2006382</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2019 23:48:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Cee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Beautiful, JAileen... and ask the handbell choirmaster, &#034; Do we need more cowbell ? &#034; ...just for the helluva it  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>rachylou on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2019 23:40:14 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sharp!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And omg, my secret dream is to do the carol of the bells...!  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Mainelady on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2019 23:34:42 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Black and white sophistication.  I love it!
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				<title>karen13 on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2019 22:18:51 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Mission accomplished! You look great in this. I really like the necklace - it makes the outfit. Along with the pops of white. I too find black difficult and wonder how to work it in, as so many great clothing items only come in black. And what a cool new skill - PM with when you play - if I'm in town I'd love to see it.
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				<title>anchie on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2019 21:59:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>anchie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think you did a great job. Love white accents, they elevate the whole outfit. My DD sings in choir and their dress code is all black.
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				<title>cjh on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2019 20:20:47 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look nice, but I can see why you avoid black. Perhaps you can avoid adding much to your closet by having a summery option besides this sweater, and sparking up with jewelry and scarves. It’s not a bad thing to just have the one black item to conform to the dress code.
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				<title>The Cat on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2019 20:14:43 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Gorgeous black outfit. Perfect accessories and amazing silver hair &#034;lift&#034; the black. You look fab!
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				<title>Kate on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2019 20:09:41 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look lovely in all black, and I love the white booties with your outfit. Great bookending!
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				<title>Ginger on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2019 19:13:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ginger</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;How fun! I've played handbells some, too. And I identify with the need for Performance Black. If you keep it up long enough, you may develop a capsule.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>taylor on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2019 19:09:52 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;All black  with the white booties ! FABULOUS!
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				<title>Stagiaire Fash on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2019 18:12:56 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;&#060;div&#062;You look great! I also find black difficult to wear. Could it be that you decided it doesn't work for you before your hair turned white, and now it works much better? I really like the way the necklace and boots pick up the hair color. And that necklace is so cool, compounded by memories of the trip and it being a gift from your husband. &#060;br /&#062;&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;&#060;br /&#062;&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;I've been meaning to take up recorder again and find a group to play with. I'm intimidated by the &#034;find a group&#034; part.&#060;br /&#062;&#060;/div&#062;
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				<title>JAileen on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2019 18:10:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>JAileen</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Joy, thank you.  Good idea about the accessories.  I don’t have a find for the necklace.  My husband bought it at a local jewelry store.  It came with earrings, too, but that seemed a little over the top.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Kkards, thank you.  It is *super* fun!
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				<title>kkards on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2019 18:09:34 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;oh, this sounds like fun....and i think you look good in your all black outfit...of course the white booties peaking out are fab!&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Anonymous on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2019 18:05:11 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;This looks great!  You could wear the same sweater and pants all winter and just change accessories.  Maybe the pants can be worn all year with a lighter weight black top.  Can you wear black and white stripes? Love the white boots and your necklace.  Do you have a find for the necklace?
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				<title>JAileen on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2019 18:05:01 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Suz, thank you.  I’m really enjoying this.  And the others have been very kind to this newbie.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Cardiff girl, thank you.  I had joined before I learned of the dress code.  It wouldn’t have changed my decision to join, though.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Bonnie,  thank you.  It’s funny, how well you wear black.  My usual neutral is grey.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Barbara Diane, thank you.  My husband gave me the necklace a year ago, and this was the first time I’d worn it!  I should wear it every time there’s an eclipse.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Katerina,  thank you.  There’s a reason I don’t wear black:  I think it washes me out.  Maybe I’m wrong.   &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Torontogirl,  thank you.  It was funny moment at one of our rehearsals:  I suddenly noticed nearly everyone had grey hair.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Eva, thank you.  The necklace is extra special since we took a trip into the Zone of Totality for the eclipse in 2017.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Christel, thank you.  Yes, red is an option.  Some wore red sweaters or red scarves.  When it warms up I may wear white crops.
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				<title>ChristelJ on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2019 18:00:46 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think you look just great in black! Where does the red come in, is that just an alternative choice?
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				<title>Eva on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2019 17:58:14 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That is such a special and interesting necklace! Great outfit!
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				<title>Helena on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2019 17:02:49 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ho-ly-cow. This is PERFECT execution of a black outfit. Gorgeous use of line and contrast, and your hair looks amazing. #goals Well done!!
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				<title>Katerina on "WIW:  My personal challenge - wearing black"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw-my-personal-challenge---wearing-black#post-2005965</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 25 Feb 2019 17:01:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Katerina</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I was so intrigued when I read the title of your challenge. How fun! You did a fantastic job putting together this outfit. It is unusual to see you in black, but you look gorgeous. The accessories and white footwear make the outfit chic and interesting. It suits you beautifully.
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