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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic</title>
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				<title>Lyn D. on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 21:57:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lyn D.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It reminds me of 80's fashion with a modern touch.&#060;br /&#062;Love the Tee especially!
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				<title>Aida on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 21:30:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aida</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Slouchy goodness! I love the outfit, what a great print on those pants. Semi-tuck works famously here, and the soft colors all around really feel nice and light.
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				<title>Thistle on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 20:19:33 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Thistle</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Fun, fabulous outfit.&#038;nbsp; The pants are very 2014!
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				<title>Transcona Shannon on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 18:02:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Transcona Shannon</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Fantastic - *high five*
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				<title>rabbit on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 17:57:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rabbit</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;LOVE the pants. &#038;nbsp;I think they work so well, and the tonal match with the t shirt and&#038;nbsp;gold shoes is perfect.
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				<title>Mo on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 16:31:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Fun shirt!
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				<title>Diana on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw-im-not-negative-im-realistic#post-1218437</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 16:31:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;This is Super Fab!&#038;nbsp; I really like it.&#038;nbsp; The drape of those pants is perfect.
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				<title>rachylou on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 16:25:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Spot on! And quite fashion forward - slouchy on slouchy.
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				<title>Peri on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 14:04:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Peri</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Funny! Cute outfit too. I bet you have a lot of interesting conversations today.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;My favorite statement T shirt I've ever seen was worn by a teen and said &#034;As a matter of fact, the world &#060;i&#062;does &#060;/i&#062;revolve around me&#034;. Perfect teen outfit!
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				<title>Neel on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 13:59:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Neel</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Lol Angie!  Thank you!  I am glad I looked current because I did get a few looks.  Wasn't sure if it was good or bad ...lol!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Thanks ladywone  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Ledonna N. on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 13:52:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ledonna N.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The outfit is very casual creative, the semi tuck bumps up the cool factor.&#038;nbsp; 
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				<title>Angie on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 13:50:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;But Just Flattering Enough came flying through the door. Tonal and low contrast from head to toe helps, as does the semi structured&#038;nbsp;half tuck.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;A very 2014 Outfit. You look fabulous. xo
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				<title>Neel on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 12:58:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Neel</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks Janet, Shevia and Suz!   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  ... &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Janet - I adore your style!  You look stylish and effortlessly chic all the time! Grinning ear to ear that you like my style  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Suz on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 11:55:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What Shevia said. Those are really fun pants!&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Jaime on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 11:50:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Looking good&#038;nbsp;is flattering and this is more than flattering enough.
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				<title>Janet on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 11:47:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The print on those pants is gorgeous! I think this works without being conventionally flattering (JFE?). It looks intentional and the semi tuck helps create a little structure. I really like your style.
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				<title>Neel on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 10:57:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Neel</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Cute pants Harmonica and yes you should wear them out!! With a white tee, black moto and pumps :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Thank you leopardluxe and kkards!
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				<title>kkards on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 10:41:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>kkards</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;i like that this is so different from your usual outfits, its great to change thing up and try new things.&#038;nbsp;the pants are so fun, and perfect for a casual day, but&#038;nbsp; i can see them being dressed up as well! and the tee, i need that tee! nicely done!
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				<title>Astrid on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 10:39:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Astrid</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh, I love those Harmonica! I was thinking of getting a pair to lounge around at home in the summer and these are cotton and the pattern and color is great. &#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>leopardluxe on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 10:36:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>leopardluxe</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think this looks like a perfect outfit for a casual and comfy day running errands or hanging at the library. Anything that is a s comfortable as PJs and passes muster to be worn in public is a win in my book. The fact this also looks so effortlessly stylish is like icing on the cake  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>harmonica on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 10:16:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>harmonica</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;This is a super cool and laid-back outfit! The semi tuck, shiny loafers and bag give you structure. The sleeve detail, as well as raglan sleeve, on the tee seems to make it not too oversized, too.Maybe I'll dare to go out of the house in my new H&#038;amp;M &#034;PJ&#034; pants... &#060;a href=&#034;http://www.hm.com/no/product/21483?article=21483-A&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.hm.com/no/product/21483?article=21483-A&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Neel on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 10:03:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Neel</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you girls!  Glad the outfit works!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Fuzzylogic- I have tied the sling ... It actually hits me on my thigh!  I find it interferes when I bend down to do something with kids.  So I wear it shorter.  Nice eye  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  ... I could wear it little lower if it looks weird.
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				<title>fuzzylogic on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 09:50:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>fuzzylogic</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That whole outfit works so well!  Those amazing pants, the edgy tee, the cross body bag for contrast and the (as neutral) loafers! It has a laid-back vibe of awesomeness!! Have you played around with the bag much?  Does it sit any lower?
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				<title>LoriFLA on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 09:41:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>LoriFLA</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I can't even express how much I love the pants. I am digging the T-shirt. The shoes are perfect. Cool look for the library for sure.
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				<title>Astrid on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 09:32:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Astrid</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love it. Slouchy look and pajama feel and all! I wish the people coming to our library were that well dressed. Love the colors in the pants and they go perfectly with your metallic loafers. The T-shirt is fun as well! That slogan was my motto as a teen, I think.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-biggrin icon-emoticon-biggrin "></span> 
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				<title>Neel on "WIW: I&#039;m not negative, I&#039;m realistic"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2014 08:16:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Neel</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That's what my tee says today  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-biggrin icon-emoticon-biggrin "></span>  &#038;nbsp;Conventional figure flattery went flying out the window with today's outfit!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I have had these slouchy harem-esque pants for 4 months now. I got them at the end of season sale from Mango.&#038;nbsp; I was waiting for the weather to warm up in order to wear them. &#038;nbsp;I love the oriental print on the pants and the breezy fabric. &#038;nbsp;The colors are not overwhelming and that keeps it from being OTT. &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I could have used a fitted top or jacket&#038;nbsp;in order to balance out the extra fabric down. &#038;nbsp;But I was in no mood for figure hugging clothes today. &#038;nbsp;Moreover this graphic tee wanted to come out with me. &#038;nbsp;This is a truly oversized tee because I sized up 3 sizes to achieve that fit (or lack of it :D). &#038;nbsp;I think the raglan sleeves keep the tee from looking *just too big*. &#038;nbsp;I semi tucked the tee to add a bit of structure to the outfit. &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I could have also added pointy toe heels. &#038;nbsp;But not today. &#038;nbsp;Just popped on my comfy loafers because I love them, grabbed my burgundy mini crossbody bag and headed out with the kids to the local library.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Do you think the&#038;nbsp;semi tuck managed to add just enough structure to this outfit? &#038;nbsp;Does this outfit work? &#038;nbsp;In my head it worked&#038;nbsp;because I felt like I was in my PJs! &#038;nbsp;LOL!&#038;nbsp;Is that a good thing?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Thank you for your comments as always! &#038;nbsp;Have a good day!
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