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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: WIW  Hits/Misses and Where I am Headed</title>
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				<title>Janet on "WIW  Hits/Misses and Where I am Headed"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2014 14:23:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think we share some of the same flattery concerns, but I've got to say I absolutely love #3 on you, and #4 is a close second. I've figured out how to make skinnier jeans and pants work for me, but it's really hard to beat boot cuts for pure flattery.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  I'm just glad we have so many options now that look current!&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;You've distilled your evolving preferences really nicely. Doesn't that feel good?&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Oh, and those blue/green booties are great!&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Transcona Shannon on "WIW  Hits/Misses and Where I am Headed"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2014 14:04:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Transcona Shannon</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh my...the green booties and the red oxfords are AMAZING! I love fabulous footwear and these are right up there.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I think you're very much on track with your style and it's funny how after experimentation we seem to loop back to where we were in the first place - just with more updated pieces.
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				<title>Angie on "WIW  Hits/Misses and Where I am Headed"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2014 13:59:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It's great to see you in wider pants. They are actually trending so rock on. Loving #4.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I love #3, and find it &#060;b&#062;extremely&#060;/b&#062; flatting. The most flattering of the lot, although #4 is high on the list too. You look very good with an untucked top.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I find baby bootcuts a little odd in general. Their width is neither here nor there. Whenever a client tries them on - we take them off and go for something wider or straighter at the hems. The flare doesn't fall that well over shoes. It's tricky.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;You know I bat for Team Suits. Wear them and enjoy them if they are your cup of tea.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Kimberley on "WIW  Hits/Misses and Where I am Headed"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2014 13:10:09 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hi Dianthus ~ &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Wow!&#038;nbsp; I relate&#038;nbsp;to so many of your observations!&#038;nbsp; I share your love of wide-legs over skinnies, your pattern preferences, your love of neutrals, clean lines and simple shapes.&#038;nbsp; I have tried other things, but like you, I always come back to these :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;You look great in these pics - especially #3 and #4.&#038;nbsp; And I like the dress in #1 very much, too, I would just try a darker shoe or bootie, as already suggested by other wise ladies here.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I hope you post more WIWs - these are inspiring me!&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>bj1111 on "WIW  Hits/Misses and Where I am Headed"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2014 12:52:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>bj1111</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Dianthus...agree on you take on proportions.  I have resisted /still resist the drop waist top worn with baggy low riding pants because I feel too short in it without wearing heels but who wants to wear heels all the time!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I know when I wear those outfits, I am choosing between conventional flattery and looking current.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Ps.  I stopped shopping for 11 months because I gain two clothing sizes last year.  So I (along with many women here --see lisap's thread in off topic) commiserate with you.
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				<title>cheryle (Dianthus) on "WIW  Hits/Misses and Where I am Headed"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2014 11:32:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cheryle (Dianthus)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks Shedev. &#038;nbsp;I see my thighs when I look at bootcuts and skinnies which is probably why I love the wider legs - than and the swish and movement.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Lisa, I felt fab in #1 until I looked at the pics. &#038;nbsp;Just to clarify, when I wore this it was close to 30C so the sandals. &#038;nbsp;The oxfords are Splendid Orlando and I ordered them online and it took a while for them to make it to Canada. &#038;nbsp;I did try the semi tuck with the last shirt but it seemed too long in the back to drape properly. &#038;nbsp;I will try again.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Aida, thank you. &#038;nbsp;I love the watch. &#038;nbsp;It is a bit chunky which I love and I have been wearing it quite a bit. &#038;nbsp;It reminded me of my love for chunky watches and I've been wearing one almost every day. &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Thanks BJ. &#038;nbsp;I may give the bootcuts another chance and try them with a pair of red patent knee boots they will feet over. &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Suz, I will add the booties here. &#038;nbsp;I am usually an 8.5 but they didn't have them in green so I got the 9. &#038;nbsp;They are a touch loose but work with socks and are VERY comfy. &#038;nbsp;Nice cushioning so I would recommend them but I have lower volume feet (flat).&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Thanks AG. &#038;nbsp;You inspired me with your oil slick oxfords. &#038;nbsp;I believe that was how I found the red patents. &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Shevia/Carla, thanks. &#038;nbsp;I am going to rework the dress. &#038;nbsp;It has nice detail and is very nicely made and fits.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Interesting on the proportions. &#038;nbsp;I find that the higher waist and tucked top makes the legs look longer when I am wearing flats and to my eye that is slimming. &#038;nbsp;perhaps I am too weight focused to see things clearly but I have always loved tucked shirts. &#038;nbsp;Perhaps I need to reserve that look for a mid-rise pant.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Oh yes, I ordered another pair of oxfords yesterday. &#038;nbsp;they are a wingtip style in distressed pewter. &#038;nbsp;Can't wait to get them.
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				<title>Carla on "WIW  Hits/Misses and Where I am Headed"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2014 04:41:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wowsa!  You have an eye for amazing footwear.  I quite like the shift in #1.  Why not try it without the belt...as an uninterrupted column?  #3 slays!
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				<title>Jaime on "WIW  Hits/Misses and Where I am Headed"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2014 03:36:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I also think the dress looks good on you - why don't you like it. My standout favorite is #3, love the booties, but the whole thing just works for me. The color of the sweater in #4 is gorgeous on you.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>catgirl on "WIW  Hits/Misses and Where I am Headed"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2014 02:29:18 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh, the green booties!&#038;nbsp; FANTASTIC!&#038;nbsp; Love the plaid pants, love the dress - it's actually my fave on you.&#038;nbsp; I like that shoes are a big focus here.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  
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				<title>Suz on "WIW  Hits/Misses and Where I am Headed"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2014 02:24:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You have great shoes!!!! Seriously, those green booties are so fab. Can you add the link again, please? I remember your posting it before and I was very tempted. Now I'm even more tempted. I also adore those Lord and Taylor pants and could kick myself for not trying harder to track them down last year. (They didn't have my size at our Bay).&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Love the new red oxfords, too!&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And every one of these outfits is great. Agree with Lisa about #1. You are being tough on yourself. Mind you, maybe it didn't feel comfortable, which is another issue. But if the comfort level was good, it's a good outfit!&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I agree with Lisa about the proportion issue, also. I like the longer top better than the tucked one in #5. But I also really like both pullovers in 3 and 4 in terms of proportion and fit. (And I know they are a completely different size).&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>bj1111 on "WIW  Hits/Misses and Where I am Headed"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2014 02:15:01 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;i am nodding my head at your comment &#034;i like suits...don't care if&#038;nbsp;&#060;span&#062;they aren't &#034;in&#034; right now.&#034; &#038;nbsp;i also LOVE pant suits and am in the market for one with wide floopy legs.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;on to your outfits...love #1 esp with the burgundy jacket. &#038;nbsp;still mulling the nude sandals. &#038;nbsp;aida had a great idea (she's full of them!) to try with the green booties--which are so cool with the stingray textured back. &#038;nbsp;#2 is cute--i do love plaid bottoms and these fit you so well. &#038;nbsp;the bootcuts in #4 work so well because of the looseness. &#038;nbsp;in #7/8, the bootcuts work here too, in a more structured way. &#038;nbsp;i wonder if an almond toe rather than a round toe would make you like the jeans more?&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Aida on "WIW  Hits/Misses and Where I am Headed"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2014 00:33:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aida</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well wide leg pants are certainly wonderfully dramatic and well suited to you, so it doesn't surprise me that you enjoy wearing them. Have you tried the dress in #1 with the new green booties (which look really cool btw)? Totally love #3 on you, you look cozy and chic and tall. #4 is a look I definitely associate with your style, and I adore the light footwear with that one. #5 has such an impish, boyish charm to it. So fun! #7/8 looks good too, though I do feel the jeans are a bit short if they are bootcuts. The plaid shirt looks great, though! I'm tickled that you got the Fossil watch, how are you liking it? It's heavy and I love that about it ^^
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				<title>Anonymous on "WIW  Hits/Misses and Where I am Headed"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2014 00:08:49 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Cheryl - first off, those red oxfords are SO great! &#038;nbsp;Where are they from ? &#038;nbsp;I need to check these out myself. &#038;nbsp;I also love the green/blue boots - those are really cool, especially with the plaid pants. You have some really interesting footwear, and it adds such a touch to your outfits.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I don't understand why you don't like outfit #1 - in fact I quite like it, and think all it needs are some dark shoes or booties? &#038;nbsp;It's such a lovely classic look, and the dress fits you well. Add some funky higher heels in black, and away you go! &#038;nbsp;I also have to say I like the black flared leg pants in 7 and 8. &#038;nbsp;What happens if you semi-tuck the shirt into the pants a bit?&#038;nbsp;&#038;nbsp;My eye favours the proportion of a longer top on you - as opposed to the higher waisted pant in 5. &#038;nbsp;Just pure observation from a photograph though :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I get my best thinking done while driving too, btw .&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>shedev on "WIW  Hits/Misses and Where I am Headed"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2014 00:07:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>shedev</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Bootcuts do really suit you, I love your footwear.
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				<title>cheryle (Dianthus) on "WIW  Hits/Misses and Where I am Headed"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2014 23:43:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cheryle (Dianthus)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I have been doing a lot of thinking about my style and where I want to go with it. &#038;nbsp;I posted about this a while back and received some great feedback including a link to a questionnaire from Suz. &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I did a bit of thinking about what I like and what I don't think works for me and like many other YLFers, feel I have gone full circle. &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;A few of the observations/conclusions I have come to so far:&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I much prefer a wider leg pant to a skinny pant and think it is much more flattering on my body. &#038;nbsp;I also like a straight leg but not as much as the wide ones. I also like the feel of the movement of the pant leg.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I also think a slightly higher rise works better but I could be wrong on this one. &#038;nbsp;Opinions are welcome on the proportions.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I like suits. &#038;nbsp;I bought one a few weeks ago but haven't worn it yet and don't think I care if they aren't &#034;in&#034; right now. &#038;nbsp;I especially like pant suits&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I love plaid, stripes and polka dots more than other patterns. &#038;nbsp;I don't mix patterns but like to mix a pattern with texture.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I will wear the skinnies and ponte but likely only tucked in taller boots to add a bit of volume at the bottom for balance.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I like neutrals and a few patterns but like to only have one color in many outfits. &#038;nbsp;I think I will stick to my favorites of blue/green/fuchsia.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I like clean lines and simple shapes. &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I like a few accessories. &#038;nbsp;They can be a bit bolder if there is only one or two. &#038;nbsp;I am also back to wearing my watches including the new fossil (Aida copy). &#038;nbsp;I think silver and platinum look better on my skin but still like the fossil and will wear it.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I got the red oxfords yesterday and love them. &#038;nbsp;In about 2002 I wanted a similar style shoe and wasn't able to find them in women's so I bought a good quality pair of men's black oxfords in the smallest size they came in (7) and wore them to death over the next two years.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Outfits&#060;br /&#062;#1 not my best&#060;br /&#062;black louben dress (I have the skirt and jacket too)&#060;br /&#062;danier jacket&#060;br /&#062;Purple shell necklace&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;#2, 3&#060;br /&#062;New earth green booties. &#038;nbsp;I found them for Sveta but bought them for me.&#060;br /&#062;Lord and Taylor pants (Shannon twin)&#060;br /&#062;Black gap merino t-neck (size M - important later)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;#4&#060;br /&#062;Gap merino wool sweater (size XL)&#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;silk scarf&#060;br /&#062;Jones modern fit pant&#060;br /&#062;born booties&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;#5/6&#060;br /&#062;Nygard pant from a few years ago&#060;br /&#062;white cotton shirt with silver collar points and buttons&#060;br /&#062;Splendid red patent oxfords (got them yesterday and couldn't wait to wear)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;#7/8&#060;br /&#062;gap plaid shirt (love the colors)&#060;br /&#062;black stretch boot cut jeans - these may have been a mistake. &#038;nbsp;Tony and the sales assistant loved them but I didn't so should have left them behind.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;That is all. &#038;nbsp;Comments and suggestions are welcome. &#038;nbsp;I may add a few more observations later. &#038;nbsp;I think of them as I drive but never remember when I type. &#038;nbsp;LOL
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