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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: WIW: Happiness factor, experiments, burnt toast?</title>
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				<title>Deborah on "WIW: Happiness factor, experiments, burnt toast?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jan 2013 11:37:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Deborah</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I don't think this is bad at all.  But as you are asking, I don't think you need the belt.  I would wear a chunky scarf and leave everything else as is.  Love your boots:)
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				<title>jayne on "WIW: Happiness factor, experiments, burnt toast?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jan 2013 08:42:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>jayne</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hmmm, I would also feel less than fab in this.  I guess the slacks are too loose when you have a loose top/card like that.  Suggestion, a pair of slimmer waxed jeans?  for shine and stiffness against the soft cardi ( I found a brown pair at jcpenny for 26 dollars and love em).  Or just jeans actually, since a blue color against taupe is lovely!
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				<title>Suz on "WIW: Happiness factor, experiments, burnt toast?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jan 2013 03:23:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Those are fab boots! And I love your thought process here...you are working it all out bit by bit. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Do you wear button downs and turtlenecks and cowls? I think you might find they work with your proportions quite well. It is true that one might not work in this situation (though I do think a button down would, with the open neckline). Another option here would be a scarf at the neckline. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;This is a proportion I also find very tricky to wear. (Long sweater over pants). I actually think that keeping it tonal in this way helps a lot.
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				<title>Anonymous on "WIW: Happiness factor, experiments, burnt toast?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jan 2013 02:16:05 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I do agree with you on the belting. I don't think this particular cardi is playing nicely with the belt, and yes, happiness is most important.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;love the boots!
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				<title>JulieJohn on "WIW: Happiness factor, experiments, burnt toast?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jan 2013 01:15:08 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It's not bad atall, but you know best. I like your slim shape, and I don't notice any bulge below the belt. I also like the neutrals on you. The belted look is deliberate without being affected. Nice!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I look forward to seeing it with teal, and with the lower cut tank.
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				<title>sarah on "WIW: Happiness factor, experiments, burnt toast?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jan 2013 01:06:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>sarah</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Actually, I don't think the neckline proportions are so bad, but if it's not meeting your happiness standards, then by all means, try your new idea.
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				<title>unfrumped on "WIW: Happiness factor, experiments, burnt toast?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jan 2013 00:14:57 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Here is WIW one day this week. This may be a good example for me of how the photo picks up things you tend to overlook just in the check-the-mirror evaluation.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I'm trying belted longer sweater over pants (well, obviously). I loved this taupey-beige linen sweater from Talbot's even though long is usually not my style. Tonal look--very neutral. Boots I picked up last year because of the cool-toned brown color which has been hard to find. They have  crochet-lace side panels which is a little weird but in the early fall I thought it gave a lighter look, but usually they don't &#034;show&#034;. So trying to create outfits with brown pants and boots.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I liked it at the time because I felt empowered to experiment and try belting. Long-over-pants for me is tricky because I don't wear tall shoes so cuts me in  half. Belting over &#034;modern&#034; pants is tricky because the pant waist falls below my natural waist but adds bulk in tummy and a waist-cinched belt tends to sit  right above all of that. Hence I gravitated toward a kind of slung-belt that is angled from back to front. It is much easier for me to belt over a pencil skirt where the fabric is continuous and smooth in front or maybe pants that have a high, flat hollywood (?) waist&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;This was a cold day so I used a wool-blend shell. Have worn this sweater before with a tank top that has a lower neckline, and that is more flattering (no pic). . Now in the photo I can see that quite clearly--the high shell neckline exacerbates the proportion problem. I could easily add color (teal is pretty) that way too and then consider tying in with a colored belt.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Happiness? Not so up there now. I still think belting over this sweater is still a possibility but I need different bottom part of outfit. The tonal look went too far into boring, too.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Using the happiness factor, I'm thinking  this is a do-not-repeat outfit. Not because that would be a crime, but because if I create another one that looks better, I would want to wear it more. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Back to the kitchen!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;That might be a shift in thinking for me, to be more ruthless!&#060;br /&#062;
Another shift would be to think of individual items as part of more experiments. As in, yeah, that's right, I wore this sweater once a week for the last 3 weeks but now I finally got it right! I mean, who cares, and in the end you've nailed a look. I have not done that enough, I think. SYC sessions are great for that of course but sometimes you think it's okay until you launch it.
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