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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like</title>
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				<title>Angie on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2015 18:42:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;GO FOR IT.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>TraceyLiz65 on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2015 15:23:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>TraceyLiz65</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You could definitely take this fantasy into your real world. &#038;nbsp;It's all in how you believe it makes you feel and how you present yourself in it. &#038;nbsp;I like the idea of a column of white. &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>kkards on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2015 10:43:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>kkards</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;well the overwhelming support for the fantasy outfit has me rethinking this jacket….i'm thinking that maybe if it wore it over a column of white it would look dramatic it instead of formal. and that would make it more approachable, because it would be more obvious that it was a fashion choice and not a power statement. does that make sense?&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Firecracker (Sharan) on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2015 04:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Firecracker (Sharan)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look stunning in that long jacket and heels! Wear it out, if not to work. Or wear it on a day when you are up and around more, rather than sitting at the desk. I agree, perhaps with those pretty low-heeled shoes, the jacket might feel less formal and more wearable? But I also know that how something feels is just as important as how it looks. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Oh, and I like your reality outfit, too!&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Jaime on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw-fantasy-vs-reality-or-what-wed-looks-like#post-1484602</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2015 02:26:02 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love the fantasy jacket on you and agree with everyone that you should wear it!
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				<title>Karie on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2015 00:40:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Karie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Bring the fantasy into reality! I known as the one who overdresses for work. I don't care. The jacket doesn't look standoffish at all, it looks gorgeous!&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Daria on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 01 May 2015 00:28:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Daria</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;i absolutely love your fantasy outfit and that gorgeous jacket!
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				<title>donnat on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2015 19:47:11 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>donnat</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Gorgeous jacket, but I understand how you feel.  I am guilty of&#060;br /&#062;
 the same thing. I think it is somehow related to comfort though.  Sitting at your desk all day...
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				<title>Angie on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2015 18:15:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I echo Diane and Ladyone 100%. Wear the gorgeous jacket. It costs nothing to sport this Fantasy look. COMPLETELY appropriate. A gorgeous look on you.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;You *could* wear the jacket with jeans to dress it down - if that makes you feel more comfortable. &#038;nbsp;&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Summer on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2015 17:59:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Summer</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;This makes perfect sense to me: pared down, more casual version for work, beautiful jacket plus dressier finishing touches for a special look. Both outfits are lovely.
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				<title>E on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2015 17:32:41 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love that jacket! And the idea to wear it with flats for a less formal feel. I can definitely see you wearing the fantasy outfit in the office.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>rachylou on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2015 17:28:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Very sophisticated - both versions. I agree, make fantasy reality  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-biggrin icon-emoticon-biggrin "></span> 
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				<title>kkards on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2015 16:26:41 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;viva---yes in my extreme fantasy world, i would wear this with jeans to work....because i think the jeans would &#034;soften it&#034;.&#060;br /&#062;ladywone --need to think about how to make this fantasy a reality.&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>viva on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2015 15:42:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>viva</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Totally agree with ladywone -- bring that fantasy into reality! That is an AMAZING long jacket. I think it would be gorgeous over skinny jeans with a tee and black ballet flats. I definitely see what you mean that it is more structured than the cardigan (and the reality outfit is great as it is) -- but I think you can definitely work this fab jacket into a more casual look for something interesting and still warm and approachable. It's really about feeling comfortable in it. 
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				<title>shedev on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2015 15:29:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>shedev</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look very nice in both outfits. The fantasy outfit has really nice lines, more long and lean than the first.
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				<title>Ledonna N. on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2015 14:56:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ledonna N.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think you look great in both but, I say it's time to start bringing your fantasy into reality.
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				<title>Anonymous on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2015 11:05:09 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ah, I get you, yes, it does look a little like a knit. I just adjusted my brightness setting on my laptop and I see it better now. I do love the texture of it. You need to wear it!  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>kkards on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2015 10:52:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>kkards</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;diane, i think that the lower shoes would lend a less dressy feel…maybe i'll have to try that. and interesting that in the pictures the fantasy jacket reads as knit, because its actually a woven, and i think thats what makes it more formal--its stiffer than a sweater because its lined.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Anonymous on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2015 10:33:03 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think your reality outfit is great. I love the gold on the heels of your shoes. The fantasy outfit is beautiful. The line of the longer cardigan is fab. It's a shame you don't feel appropriate to wear to work as I don't think you look stand-offish at all&#038;nbsp;to me. Would you have the same feelings if it were a long line fabric jacket? To me a knit has a slightly more casual vibe. Perhaps if you popped on the shoes in #1 with it you may not feel quite so formal?
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				<title>kkards on "WIW fantasy vs reality or what Wed. looks like"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2015 10:22:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>kkards</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;i realized after looking at these pictures this morning that maybe a mostly black outfit makes it hard to see the details of what makes the fantasy so different from the reality. but let me tell you, its all in the details. the fantasy outfit (#2) is a long jacket that has a chanelish feel. the reality(#1) is a slightly oversized lightweight wool cardi, and that changes the feel of the outfit completely. at least to me, the fantasy is kind of stately and dressed, the reality is &#038;nbsp;Wednesday i'm going to be at my desk all day trying to catch up….anyway, i love the jacket in the fantasy look, but rarely wear it, because it always seems more formal and sort of standoffish than my workplace. does that make sense?&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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