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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday</title>
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				<title>Debbie on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2014 05:46:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Debbie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sarah thank you for sharing this with us. The memories of your daughter are perilous and this was truly a way to honor her.
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				<title>Firecracker (Sharan) on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2014 04:51:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Firecracker (Sharan)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sarah, you look beautiful in this outfit and it honors your daughter's hand-made jewelry perfectly. Thank you for sharing your special day and memories with us. How wonderful that you got to spend some time with cuddly Bruno today and then came home to extra cuddles with your guys this evening! 
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				<title>karymk on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2014 04:30:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>karymk</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Happy Sweet 16 Sweet Ellie. &#038;nbsp;You made your mama a pretty present she can cherish forever. You were taking after her in the style and creativity department that is for sure. &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I hope you have a happy day Sarah and family, full of loving, sweet memories of your precious daughter.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;K
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				<title>Neel on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2014 03:25:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Neel</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Your post brought tears to my eyes.  You are a beautiful mother and Ellie was lucky to be your daughter  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Anonymous on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2014 03:12:43 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sarah, I didn't know! I'm glad you felt comfortable to share here. You have a good way of celebrating Ellie's life and a healthy way of talking about it and grieving with your family. What a beautiful example of a loving mother you are.&#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;Thanks for the tip on the Pixie pants, they're really cute. Cashmere always wins in my book, and I love the jewel neckline for your sentimental pretties. I was hoping you'd say that Bruno was yours, but at least he was yours for the day. Big hugs. :)&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Jaime on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2014 02:28:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Beautiful tribute. Enjoy the love of your wonderful&#038;nbsp;family.
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				<title>Joyce B on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2014 02:26:04 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Joyce B</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks for sharing the beautiful memories, Sarah. Ellie will always be with you.&#060;br /&#062;
Bruno came in the perfect moment.&#060;br /&#062;
The necklace and bracelet are beautiful and your outfit is fab.
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				<title>Windchime on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2014 01:39:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Windchime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You are gorgeous, Sarah.  And so is Ellie.  What a beautiful observance of the love that will forever connect you and your daughter.  I'm glad you had a sweet dog and your work, and your DH and DS on a difficult day.
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				<title>Anonymous on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2014 00:22:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I teared up a little just reading this and looking at the pictures of adorable Ellie. Am glad you had so many comforts around you today.
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				<title>thimblelina on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 23:43:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>thimblelina</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sarah: you look beautiful here. You have really touched my heart today. What a gorgeous girl! I am so sorry for your loss. I'm glad you had a canine companion today. xoL
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				<title>columbine(erin) on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 21:37:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>columbine(erin)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I wish I could give you a hug! This is such a lovely way to remember your daughter. Sending virtual hugs.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Anonymous on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 21:30:59 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Here's to you and to Ellie living on in your heart and life. Both of you beautiful (and the pupper too). Wearing the jewelry she made is a beautiful way to help celebrate. ((hugs))&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And again I say, great shoes!&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>SarahTheWhite on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 21:24:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>SarahTheWhite</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh yes... And Suz, the pink cashmere was definitely cathartic. I got home, and both John and Ethan hugged me at the same time with their faces against my chest (John was sitting down and Ethan is just short) and Ethan said &#034;Is this cashmere?!&#034; And then both faces buried deeper amidst murmurs of &#034;ohhhhh cashmere...&#034; Cracked me up!!
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				<title>SarahTheWhite on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 21:21:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>SarahTheWhite</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You all are just so incredibly kind! I was a little worried about bringing more to the table than just fashion, as I have a tendency to do... I never want to make anyone feel sad or uncomfortable. But you have all made this day even that much sweeter with your words and hugs that span the miles. I appreciate it  more than I can say. Even though I was working, I was able to check the messages every so often.  Some brought a tear to my eye (in the best possible way). I got to snuggle and play with Bruno to my heart's content, and then my boss sent me home early. We are off to get some sushi for dinner in just a bit, and continue the celebration of our girl's life. Even though we have been weepy off and on today, her birthday is always a happier day for us than her death day. So we mostly just enjoy the excuse to remember and laugh and cry. It's all good. :-)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Jen: I just wanted to send an extra special thank you for chiming in with sweet encouragement.  I know that you know how this feels... Sending you so much love back! &#038;lt;3
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				<title>Transcona Shannon on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 20:42:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Transcona Shannon</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So beautiful in so many ways Sarah. 
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				<title>jenanded on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 20:40:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>jenanded</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look beautiful... on a special day... more thoughts for you than words can say Sarah xxxx
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				<title>Janet on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 20:33:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sarah, you look lovely as always, but this is such a special and touching WIW post. I'm sending virtual hugs and good wishes for your daughter's day. I can't even begin to imagine all you've gone through. It's obvious and you and Ellie shared the same kind and gentle yet strong spirit. XO
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				<title>Anonymous on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 20:27:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What a touching a beautiful story!&#038;nbsp; Thank you so much for sharing.&#038;nbsp; Your daughter was so lovely and artistic for someone so young.&#038;nbsp; Hugs.
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				<title>Suz on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 19:32:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sarah, thank you for sharing this beautiful tribute outfit with us. &#038;nbsp;You are such a loving mother to your beautiful girl. Your story brought tears to my eyes, as my own girl is just about to celebrate her 15th, and I can all too easily imagine that wrenching loss.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;So glad you had pink cashmere and a loving pup to help you on this day.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>K. Period. on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 19:25:02 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>K. Period.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sarah, I'm not a good enough writer to tell you (well) how beautiful I think it is that you share Ellie with us in this way. &#038;nbsp;It is so touching that you help us be part of your experience and that you let us share in your love. &#038;nbsp;Bless you! &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>catgirl on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 18:53:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Tears and hugs... Your girl was a beauty then and would be today.&#038;nbsp; I will think of her all day.
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				<title>Niki Lea on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 18:49:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Niki Lea</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Happy birthday to your Ellie, Sarah. The necklace she made is such a pretty keepsake.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Gracie on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 18:21:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Gracie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look lovely – thank you for sharing this special day with us. Ellie's photos are so touching, such a lovely spirit. I'm glad cuddly Bruno is keeping you engaged.
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				<title>Beth Ann on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw-ellies-16th-birthday#post-1365482</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 18:17:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Beth Ann</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Keeping mementos like this is such a simple, but important, part of grieving and remembrance.&#038;nbsp; There is the loss not only of the child that was, but the woman she was to become.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I'm glad you had a puppy to cuddle and a bit of diversion with fashion, as well as the structure of work to help you through.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;You look lovely in pink and the necklace has such a lovely pattern.&#038;nbsp; Your daughter knew how to take her time to make something that would be worthy of wearing even without a sentimental connection.
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				<title>Hil on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 18:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Hil</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm pretty sure that were Ellie around she would be agreeing with us that you are awesome and inspiring and just gorgeous. Thanks for sharing your memories with us! &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Much love to you today!
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				<title>Meredith on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw-ellies-16th-birthday#post-1365462</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 17:46:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Meredith</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I needed this post today. Thank you for sharing, and you look beautiful as always.
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				<title>Echo on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 17:39:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Echo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You and your spirit are a touching tribute to Ellie (I adore that name) daily. The jewelry highlights your eyes so beautifully, and I LOVE the pictures of your DD - truly beautiful like her mum. And I agree that Bruno was the perfect companion today. Thank you for posting.
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				<title>Kristin SF on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 17:31:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kristin SF</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you for sharing Ellie with us, and her beautiful jewelry, too. You look simply lovely today. Much love to you, Sarah!
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				<title>abc on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 17:30:21 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you for sharing with us. Touching. I can't imagine your grief. You handle it with such grace.
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				<title>Aziraphale on "WIW: Ellie&#039;s 16th birthday"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2014 17:25:18 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look splendid for your sweet girl's would-be 16th birthday. What a lovely way to honour her memory. Sending virtual hugs. xo
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