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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?</title>
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				<title>LACeleste on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2014 13:56:02 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>LACeleste</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Super look and gorgeous pup! &#038;nbsp;You look terrific in that sweater Michelle!
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				<title>Janet on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2014 13:37:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I see no dude.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span>  I really like this -- the pattern in the sweater provides plenty of interest. Wine colored skinnies sound like a great variation too.
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				<title>jackiec on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2014 13:37:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>jackiec</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;This is great, Michelle! I love the play of textures but especially the shine on your shoes, and the care you put into your earring choice. Well thought out.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;PS you are clearly a writer - I love your write ups and you always have me in stitches  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Tanya on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2014 13:26:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Tanya</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Beautiful outfit Michelle, nothing masculine about it at all.&#038;nbsp; Both you and Reva look gorgeous.
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				<title>Sara L. on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2014 13:22:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sara L.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Great sweater! I also don't like overly masculine outfits (on me) so I can understand your hesitation. I think this outfit is great and not masculine at all.
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				<title>krishnidoux on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2014 10:16:40 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Very simple, clean lines. I like the black purse with it, as it offers a sleek contrast, so do the patent shoes, which bookend your hair beautifully. Overall&#038;nbsp;a tasteful outfit. The way you have styled the sweater&#038;nbsp;here lets it&#038;nbsp;take center stage and shine, which is a good thing, because it is a fantastic, beautiful piece. It also very much has an&#038;nbsp;Autumn vibe that I find quite appealing.
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				<title>lyn67 on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2014 07:56:06 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;A rich and fab outfit Michelle! Don't worry, it has the right dose of feminity when all put together! You look smashing!!
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				<title>Jaime on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2014 02:54:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Looks good - and not at all like a dude!
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				<title>Michelle on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2014 02:51:49 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you guys.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  Sometimes it's refreshing to just dress very simply. I'll work on ways to take it up to killer and I suspect the wine skinnies, or perhaps the Kut Catherines if they work for me, could accomplish that. I'm starting to think I'm really not into flares so much, but that's another thread. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Aida: You nailed exactly why I was feeling more androgenous than usual. My style usually includes more overtly feminine pieces, like silky blouses or skirts. Combining jeans, chunky high-necked sweaters and loafers is about as masculine as I get, but it was different for me. &#060;br /&#062;Jenava: Hi! Hadn't seen you back here yet. Glad you liked the sweater.&#060;br /&#062;Sarah: Sorry about the song! :p Seriously it's a lovely sweater. Give it a try! Now that I've had it on I suspect the buttons would add structure to a fluid garment rather than widening your shoulders. &#060;br /&#062;Angie: thanks for recognizing the other glam girl.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  I guess I got on a real texture kick without realizing it, but your guidelines over the years gave me the confidence to buy this sweater based on an online description alone. Thank you!&#060;br /&#062;Marianna: colour me flattered! Off to check. &#060;br /&#062;Your reply
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				<title>marianna on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2014 00:58:08 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Lovely lady.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  I posted a WIW in your honor too. Thanks for the inspiration  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Angie on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2014 00:36:06 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I see two glam ladies.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;GREAT. Fashionable, fabulous and texture-rich.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Meow on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2014 00:33:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Meow</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ok, now that song is in my head and I can't get it out! :)&#038;nbsp; You look great.&#038;nbsp; Very my style - I almost got that sweater but was worried about the buttons on the shoulder with my wide shoulders.&#038;nbsp; 
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				<title>Firecracker (Sharan) on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2014 00:19:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Firecracker (Sharan)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Dude, you look great! (Not like a dude at all.) The shiny patent of the shoes adds a lot of interest to the look, and I'm sure the lurex threads in the sweater amp it up in real life, too (though I can't make out that shiny detail in the photo). Love your selection of the clutch--another ladylike detail. This outfit is a keeper. I look forward to seeing the sweater with wine skinnies, too.
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				<title>Aida on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2014 00:08:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aida</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Looks great to me Michelle! I don't think it's particularly androgynous; though I suppose the elements on their own (cable sweater, jeans, loafers) are worn by both men and women, the particular versions you are wearing look perfectly feminine. Love the idea of pairing this sweater with wine skinnies!
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				<title>Jenava on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2014 00:08:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jenava</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I actually quite like that we can see the pretty boat neckline of the sweater!&#038;nbsp; I think this is a beautiful fall outfit on you.&#038;nbsp; LOVE that sweater!
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				<title>Kristin L on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2014 00:02:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kristin L</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I don't see androgynous either. I think it's a great, simple outfit. I bet it would look great with your wine skinnies.
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				<title>Elizabeth P on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2014 23:53:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Elizabeth P</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You are hilarious Michelle.&#038;nbsp; And you look gorgeous.&#038;nbsp; 
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				<title>cheryle (Dianthus) on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2014 23:51:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cheryle (Dianthus)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I don't get an androgynous vibe either Michelle. I think the outfit is very flattering and there is no way your curves could look mannish. &#038;nbsp;I am really glad you are back. &#038;nbsp;Your post titles and descriptions make me smile.
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				<title>Anonymous on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2014 23:10:10 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Michelle, you look like a lady.  No dude or bore in sight.  Your sweater is not the masculine-looking V-neck pullover.
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				<title>lynn on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2014 23:03:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>lynn</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Nothing androgynous here--all pretty woman!  The sweater looks beautiful on you and I like the pearl additions too.
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				<title>Michelle on "Wiw: Dude looks like a lady? Or a bore?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2014 22:28:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Michelle</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You guys gave me enough confidence to wear my new ivory sweater out and about. Unfortunately I couldn't lay my hands on the black and bronze silk scarf I had planned to wear over it as part of a neck lengthening strategy, but its ok, the sweater probably does enough talking all on its own.&#060;br /&#062;
I kept the outfit very simple in light of the lurex top, and I realized I was abiding by Angie's guidelines for pairing ink blue with black. My new DKNY flared jeans wound up being the right length for my black patent loafers, and the sweater obviously adds the requisite dose of white. I was feeling unusually androgynous, so put on pearl and gold earrings to add a bit of femininity. And yes I know masculinity and my physique go together about as well as American Apparel and a convent. :p&#060;br /&#062;
So what's the good word? Can this work or was it too simple? If so, my next stop is to pair the sweater with wine-coloured Skinnies.
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