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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: WIW-BBQ with Friends at my Place</title>
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				<title>LJP on "WIW-BBQ with Friends at my Place"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2023 13:01:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>LJP</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you for taking the time to reply - my questions were of a less literal manner. &#038;nbsp; I hope that you can recover in the best way possible for you, and that you find the support you are looking for. &#038;nbsp;I would also suggest putting this &#038;nbsp;posts in off topic with a title that hints to the content , which is less fashion related than it appears.&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Sal on "WIW-BBQ with Friends at my Place"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2023 05:07:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sal</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am pleased your bloods were healthy - that's great.&#038;nbsp; And I support getting out and about and enjoying life.&#038;nbsp; You deserve to be having some fun and I am pleased that life is on the improve.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Swimming and PT are both great things to build muscle strength.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;My friend's son (15) has just got out of hospital and is trying to go back to school.&#038;nbsp; I hope it's a good transition back for him- it's not an easy stage of life.
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				<title>Bee on "WIW-BBQ with Friends at my Place"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2023 04:28:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Bee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Questions answered and deleted.
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				<title>LJP on "WIW-BBQ with Friends at my Place"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2023 03:19:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>LJP</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I’m really conflicted about this type of post and don’t know how to respond - so clearly I shouldn’t . But this isn’t about style or fashion , it’s getting into dangerous areas and discussions about things I’m certainly not professionally equipped to handle , and I’m sure others aren’t either . I understand support for mental and physical health issues for those who wish to share , but I’m not sure what’s going on here. I guess I’m confused because I don’t have any idea how old you are , where you live ( what is the cultural norm etc)  - things that make it easier to respond to those in need . These are big issues , and I don’t mean to dismiss or ignore , but something seems amiss . I work in the medical fitness field and am pretty attuned to women’s health and fitness issues . I’m curious what drew you to a fashion and style forum as most of the discussions here are shopping and style related . Are the two photos you’ve posted both of you at the same party ? ( as in , both are current ??)  I’m sorry if I sound rude , I suppose I likely do . I worry I’m either misunderstanding or seeing an issue that doesn’t exist .
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				<title>Bee on "WIW-BBQ with Friends at my Place"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2023 02:15:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Bee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sal, I wish your friend’s son all the best during the rest of his recovery and I’m glad to hear he’s finally well enough to go home. I had a close friend who suffered from anorexia and several other compulsive/obsessive issues during her early teens and it was very painful to watch. We lost touch but I still talk to her younger sister occasionally and I was thrilled to learn that she’s just had her first child. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Thanks to everyone for your support!
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				<title>Bee on "WIW-BBQ with Friends at my Place"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2023 02:07:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Bee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks sal! I had a check up about month ago with my endocrinologist after I had some bloodwork done. Everything seems to be in order.
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				<title>Bijou on "WIW-BBQ with Friends at my Place"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2023 01:42:58 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Bijou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Bee, your outfit was fab and fun and you look beautiful in your swimsuit. Sal is wise and her advice is coming with the intention of providing you with support. I hope you enjoyed the BBQ and will continue to get out, socialise and enjoy life.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Indigoprint on "WIW-BBQ with Friends at my Place"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2023 01:25:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Indigoprint</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I echo Sal.&#060;br /&#062;
 Good for you for feeling confident and honest you are FAB! Please make sure you have the supports you need to continue to feel confident about yourself.
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				<title>Val MN on "WIW-BBQ with Friends at my Place"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2023 01:12:02 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ha, I love the rib cage shirt. It’s hard dealing with a lengthy illness that friends and acquaintances may not understand. Good on you for showing up to the party
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				<title>Sal on "WIW-BBQ with Friends at my Place"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2023 00:59:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sal</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Bee - you should not hide away - good on you for swimming and enjoying the party.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;You can ignore the following advice - but it is given from the view of someone who has had friends and family suffering with different forms of eating disorders, at a variety of sizes and weights.&#038;nbsp; One of my oldest friend's son has just been discharged from hospital after a lengthy stay with an eating disorder.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I recommend a check up with a doctor - you can be healthy at many weights and sizes but a checkup might provide reassurance to yourself.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Bee on "WIW-BBQ with Friends at my Place"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2023 00:11:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Bee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So my husband decided to throw a bbq this weekend at our apartment for some of our friends and acquaintances. I wore the rib cage shirt from Shein paired with the black and red houndstooth leggings I bought a while ago from Zara.
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