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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal</title>
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				<title>cindysmith on "WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2020 01:55:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cindysmith</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Kind of... there's nowhere to go to wear my high heel shoes, so I've temporarily given up on them. I miss them terribly! They always make me feel so powerful and fierce
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				<title>kkards on "WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2020 21:54:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>kkards</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ditto what JenniZ said&#060;br /&#062;And FAB pattern mixing with the florals and the stripes! If we must wear mask, lets wear them the way you do, with an eye towards making them &#038;nbsp;part of our personal style&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>citygirldc on "WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2020 20:25:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>citygirldc</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love this outfit. I would wear this in a heartbeat.
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				<title>rachylou on "WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2020 18:24:55 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yes, have to agree heels feel off to me. I even have a pair of heeled sports-styled shoes that I put on and take off all the time because they never seem right anymore.
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				<title>Anonymous on "WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2020 04:54:16 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You will love metallic loafers.  I could wear my gold ones every day.
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				<title>MsMary on "WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2020 15:48:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>MsMary</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank, everyone!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;b&#062;Jenni NZ&#060;/b&#062; great point about wanting the role models to model being able to move around easily instead of totter around on stilettos!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And &#060;b&#062;Joy&#060;/b&#062;, if you look closely you can see that the loafers in this outfit are perforated leather! Perfect for summer! And I have some on order that are metallic and can't wait until they arrive.
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				<title>Helena on "WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2020 13:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Helena</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Mary, I appreciated your comment on my thread and I think your flat collection is FABULOUS. I agree with Jenny, although I love the look of a good heel, flats looks SO fresh and modern imo, and you've got some amazing options!
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				<title>RobinF on "WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2020 12:49:49 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love this outfit and the loafers are perfect with it. I have never been a high heel person but I do think my style has gotten more casual during this and I don't see that changing back.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Jaime on "WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2020 03:02:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yes to your fabness and yes to Angie's&#038;nbsp;&#060;i&#062;although I never wore high heels, which I leave for you&#060;/i&#062;. Due to a minor toe injury and some other foot issues, I am leaning on the most comfortable shoes I own but that is not pandemic related.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Anonymous on "WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2020 02:20:54 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I had to give up heels and sandals a few years ago.  Loafers are my favorite shoe year round.  They come in a wide variety of colors and even styles like flat forms or pointy toe.  I have some that are perforated leather and some in colorful patterns and even glittery.  They are easy to step into and out of and can be worn with jeans or dresses.  I even have loafers that are mules.
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				<title>Jenni NZ on "WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2020 23:02:33 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jenni NZ</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I know what Angie thinks about dated being a dated concept, but somehow high heeled pumps are looking dated to my eye. It may partly be that unlike you I have never found them comfortable ever since I first tried them at about age 23 ( younger than that, any heels I had were less spindly and stiletto-like). So it may be that my eye is liking the flatter shoes I have been preferring to wear?&#060;br /&#062;
Having said that the rainbow heel on your Kate Spade pumps is stunning. And you look great in this outfit with your loafers.&#060;br /&#062;
I do wish though that women like the Duchess of Sussex aka Meghan Markle would stop wearing those spindly heels. As a feminist I do not want yet another generation thinking they must wear those things to look sexy  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-sad icon-emoticon-sad "></span>  Or to be powerful.
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				<title>MsMaven on "WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2020 22:28:42 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Not only does the outfit look great, it also looks like it's comfortable to work in. Love the shoes.
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				<title>unfrumped on "WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2020 22:04:27 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh yes.&#038;nbsp;&#060;br /&#062;And even having trouble with loafers that fit previously but now pinching. Though the style is still one that I think I still will depend on.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Echo on "WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2020 21:15:12 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Mary, you look equally great in both heels and flats! I do agree that flats are looking fresher than heels - at least traditional pumps. I think there's always a place for funky heels (lower, though, and more comfortable), but traditional pumps aren't doing it for me right now, either.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Sal on "WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2020 20:52:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sal</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love this outfit Mary- totally fab!!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I agree with you - flats are looking more modern in about 90% of cases aren't they....&#038;nbsp; which makes me a bit sad as I love heels too.&#038;nbsp;&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I wear heels in summer more as my boots are low or mid heel, and I only have one pair of pumps.&#038;nbsp; But I wear heeled sandals in summer a lot more...I will not add any more but I hope they get a few more outings.
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				<title>slim cat on "WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2020 19:18:18 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I left heels long ago - sporty shoes with support are the best option.&#060;br /&#062;Your outfit looks pretty perfect and current with coral loafers - fab!
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				<title>Anonymous on "WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2020 18:44:56 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yes mostly. Not sure how I'll feel when I have to return to the office, but the only heels I'm wearing are 2 inch block sandals. Haven't even tried to wear my higher sandals since March. Most days I just wear Birkies or flip flops outside- barefoot in the house. And sneakers for biking in the early am, but get those hot constricting puppies off the second I get back from my ride!
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				<title>Angie on "WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2020 17:58:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;&#060;i&#062;&#034;but my eyes are finding loafers and sneakers look much fresher than my beloved high-heeled pumps&#034;&#060;br /&#062;&#060;/i&#062;&#060;br /&#062;YES!!! although I never wore high heels, which I leave for you! :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Another KILLER look and fab matching mask! You had me with the swooshy skirt...and I will take the whole outfit, thank you.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I've been wearing the same outfits I always do. No change in my style despite the pandemic in the clothing, hair, and make-up components of it.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;BUT the shoes &#038;nbsp;- YES. I only wear fashion sneakers, leave off my wedding rings and bracelets, and wear a mask. I also have a set of at-home-only sneakers!&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>MsMary on "WIW 8/12: My new (shoe) normal"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2020 16:47:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>MsMary</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I was interested in &#060;b&#062;torontogirl's &#060;/b&#062;post about how the pandemic is changing our idea of what our &#034;normal&#034; dressing is. I have been going to work this whole time, and mostly dressing up (although simplifying -- note lack the of a &#034;third piece&#034; like a blazer), but my eyes are finding loafers and sneakers look much fresher than my beloved high-heeled pumps.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Normally I would have worn my tried and true Kate Spade coral pumps with this outfit (see Find below), but I am enjoying my new Corso Como loafers. I feel a lot lighter on my feet!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;What say you? Anybody else giving up heels in these trying times?
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