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				<title>goldenpig on "WIW 12/4-5 DB/UWP (&#38; YLF Challenge: Primary and Shadow Style Personas)"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2012 19:25:36 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks amyreh! Your primary style is so luxurious and elegant you don't even need a secondary style! All that cashmere and sparkle!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Thanks Shannon! I noticed you posted in Suz's thread before that your shadow style is androgynous/menswear. I can see that because you are great at the vintage retro ladylike but you do the menswear and trousers look equally well. Maybe you should do a feminine/masculine pair!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Rae, I love your outfits. You have integrated both personas into your look so well that they almost seem like one unified persona in my mind because they're both so Rae. I love the playful steampunk style that you do and the mix of girly and tomboy (love the term &#034;retro-futuristic&#034; too!) I love steampunk too and in fact I posted in Suz's thread that steampunk is my aspirational style. I haven't tried to incorporate it into real life though, unlike UWP. So maybe it's my hidden shadow persona. I would love to do steampunk girly girl!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Suz, thanks for coining the term and your fascinating thread. You said your shadow style was boho, but maybe you've moved on? I can't wait to see what you come up with for your outfits!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Thanks Manidipa! Yes, it is fun to still play around with style even while pregnant. I love doing juxtapositions and contrasts, so Bombshell Bump and Preggo Warrior Princess looks are great fun!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Ceit, can't wait to see what you come up with! Firefly chic sounds absolutely fascinating!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Amiable (and those of you who haven't named your style yet), don't worry, you can still play! Just pick an outfit that is your favorite or feels very &#034;you&#034;, and do something that is opposite in style. Or a contrast, like feminine and masculine, or polished and rough around the edges, or colorful/bright and dark/neutrals, or boho and preppy. Your style doesn't have to have a name, but I think it's a great thinking exercise and lots of fun!
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				<title>amiable on "WIW 12/4-5 DB/UWP (&#38; YLF Challenge: Primary and Shadow Style Personas)"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2012 19:23:01 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ceit - I definitely think of you as having a shadow UWP style.  I really doubt that helps, but I see it in your outfits, which I completely love. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Wish I knew my style, but I'm getting there, and will figure it out sometime in the next few years, I imagine (or at least, hope!)
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				<title>Anonymous on "WIW 12/4-5 DB/UWP (&#38; YLF Challenge: Primary and Shadow Style Personas)"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2012 18:50:05 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love this idea but I have no idea how to describe my styles. I guess my primary is Firefly Chic as someone coined it (which is basically Military/Western/Steampunk/stealing from Rae retro-futuristic/Postapocalyptic/Asian/Space with a soupcon of Cyberpunk), and my shadow style is UWP. I will think on it and come up with some outfits!
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				<title>ManidipaM on "WIW 12/4-5 DB/UWP (&#38; YLF Challenge: Primary and Shadow Style Personas)"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2012 18:44:56 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What a fun challenge! And an execution that raises the bar, straight out of the gate---it's hard enough to reconcile mum-to-be with bombshell, for most people, let alone an expectant warrior princess. But there you are!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Though, the switcheroo with the Kate Spade coat *really* takes the cake. Primary and shadow style, you make both of them unquestionably YOU with the one garment.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Love Rae's girly-tomboy rendition of steampunk too --- as if it wasn't challenging enough to combine the masculine and the feminine without coming up androgynous, she decides to marry retro and futuristic too. Now THAT's having fun with your fashion!
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				<title>Suz on "WIW 12/4-5 DB/UWP (&#38; YLF Challenge: Primary and Shadow Style Personas)"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2012 18:22:21 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Natalie, you look absolutely stunning in that first dress. What a spectacular colour and shape for you. You're like a burst of tropical warmth. LOVE the second outfit, too. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I had to go back and read some of my original thread to think about this, because I couldn't even remember my own shadow style! &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Funny thing is, I don't think I have one any more. I haven't properly embodied my aspirational style - but it's the only one I want. Maybe the fact that I'm still working on getting that one down is part of the reason? I don't know. All I know is that I'm going minimal, minimal, minimal.....&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;This is a fun idea, and I can't wait to see what everyone comes up with!! &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Maybe my challenge should be to show my &#034;ordinary&#034; every day style...and then try to come up with an outfit that DOES fully embody my aspirational style. It isn't easy, let me tell you.
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				<title>rae on "WIW 12/4-5 DB/UWP (&#38; YLF Challenge: Primary and Shadow Style Personas)"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2012 17:15:46 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Super fun thread! And I think it will be helpful, too, for anyone who is really dialing in their style and might need a tweak in one direction or another. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;My primary style is UWP - Urban Warrior Princess. Shown in #1 a la the military coat, distressed, buckled boots, and overall apocalyptic color scheme. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;My shadow style is SGT - Steampunk Girly Tomboy. This is shown in pics #2-3. SGT is more colorful and feminine, and it relies more on Steampunk (retro-futuristic fantasy technology) than Military references. Represented by the verdigris color scheme, dress, expanse of leg, map bag, and robot necklace. There is still a masculine element represented by the masculine shoes and jackets.
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				<title>Transcona Shannon on "WIW 12/4-5 DB/UWP (&#38; YLF Challenge: Primary and Shadow Style Personas)"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2012 17:07:10 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;All fabulous looks Natalie! Gorgeous Secret Santa gift!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;You definitely have two styles working for you. Unfortunately I can't play along as I have no idea what my shadow style is. But I'll be watching all of you!
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				<title>amyreh on "WIW 12/4-5 DB/UWP (&#38; YLF Challenge: Primary and Shadow Style Personas)"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2012 17:02:58 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Aren't you rocking fabulous maternity style! What a fun challenge. I love both these looks on you, so different but you look comfortable and fabulous either way.
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				<title>goldenpig on "WIW 12/4-5 DB/UWP (&#38; YLF Challenge: Primary and Shadow Style Personas)"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2012 16:48:47 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;OK, anyone up for a fun challenge? Wear two different outfits (or find some previous WIW's) that represent your primary style persona (or everyday style) and your &#034;shadow&#034; style persona (a secondary style that you like to explore once in a while, or one that you aspire to or are attracted to but doesn't quite fit with your lifestyle). Here is Suz's thread for reference: &#060;a href=&#034;http://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-your-shadow-style&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://youlookfab.com/welookfa.....adow-style&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;For me, my primary persona is Demure Bombshell. Very feminine/ladylike, fitted waist, lots of RED, a hint of glamour, but not too overly sexy either.&#060;br /&#062;
Shadow style is Urban Warrior Princess, heavy on the P. I like the contrast of tough and girly, leather and boots and studs and zippers, but I don't have the personality or lifestyle to pull this off every day. Also I'm a little too polished to do pure UWP, which tends to have a lot of RATE elements, so I just dabble in it once in a while for fun.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Here is what I wore the last two days, and a couple more from my non-pregnant WIW's so you can see the contrast. Same trench coat but very different vibes.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Hope you all play too! Can't wait to see what you come up with!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;1-5. Demure Bombshell&#060;br /&#062;
Adrianna Papell red faux wrap dress&#060;br /&#062;
Secret Santa leopard necklace (from Lisa from last year)&#060;br /&#062;
Tortoiseshell handbag&#060;br /&#062;
B Makowsky Heist red and leopard heels&#060;br /&#062;
6-10. UWP--Here I'm channeling Una--I know she has this skirt!&#060;br /&#062;
Tahari black leather jacket&#060;br /&#062;
Target black exposed zipper top&#060;br /&#062;
Target green snake skirt&#060;br /&#062;
F21 bracelet&#060;br /&#062;
Mia Nanette boots&#060;br /&#062;
The Sak black purse&#060;br /&#062;
11. Demure bombshell signature outfit&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://goldenpig.lookfab.com/post/new-haircut-and-my-signature-outfit&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://goldenpig.lookfab.com/p.....ure-outfit&#060;/a&#062;&#060;br /&#062;
12. RATE Kate Spade&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;a href=&#034;http://goldenpig.lookfab.com/post/unas-challenge-rate-kate-spade-my-feeble-attempt&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://goldenpig.lookfab.com/p.....le-attempt&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;ETA: Even if you haven't named your style persona yet, don't worry, you can still play! Just pick an outfit that is your favorite or feels very &#034;you&#034;, and do something that is opposite in style. Or a contrast, like feminine and masculine, or polished and rough around the edges, or colorful/bright and dark/neutrals, or boho and preppy. Your style doesn't have to have a name, but I think it's a great thinking exercise and lots of fun!
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