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YouLookFab Forum » Topic: WIW - to post or not to post https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Fri, 10 Apr 2026 17:56:04 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 <![CDATA[Search]]> q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php Zaeobi on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/3#post-2338520 Wed, 13 Sep 2023 17:05:23 +0000 Zaeobi 2338520@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ @staysfit Sure! I've reposted my question here, if you're still interested: <a href="https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/meta-wiw-preferences" rel="nofollow">https://youlookfab.com/welookf.....references</a> Thanks for kicking off the discussion, @Irina. Karie on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/3#post-2338067 Sat, 09 Sep 2023 16:07:20 +0000 Karie 2338067@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Irina, I didn't post one outfit a month, I posted all my outfits for the month in one post, every month - I apologize for the confusion! And it probably really wasn't ALL the outfits I wore, just a selection. I enjoyed doing it that way because when looking back, I could definitely see how my style evolved, how I paid more attention to fit, and how I learned to mix and match items. One outfit per month is a great idea, though! It would help me with reevaluating my now much more casual, more gear based, wardrobe.  Irina on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/3#post-2338052 Sat, 09 Sep 2023 12:56:06 +0000 Irina 2338052@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Kathy, I like the idea of posting one outfit a month. I think it’s possible for all even if our lifestyles are now more casual. Also, would be great to see them all at once in our own photo collection.  Karie on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/3#post-2338048 Sat, 09 Sep 2023 12:29:32 +0000 Karie 2338048@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Very interesting responses. I’ve loved reading all of them. I’ve been on the forum for 10+ years, and I originally joined simply because I love fashion. I liked seeing what real people were wearing and having the opportunity to interact with them. I like that it’s a “safe space” - no rudeness allowed. Constructive comments are fine, but who wants to post something and have someone be mean to them? YLF wouldn’t have grown to be the friendly, fun, supportive community that it is if that had been allowed to happen. I first started posting because I wanted feedback; I wanted to learn. I’m a very visual learner so looking at my own outfit photos, combined with reading comments/suggestions from others, really helped me a lot. One year I posted my outfits for each month and then reflected on my progress. It was quite the learning experience. I also started posting because I felt like I was getting to know people through reading their posts, and I wanted people to get to know me. I slowed way down with posting outfits the past few years because in getting ready for retirement I wasn’t buying or even refreshing that part of my wardrobe. Now that I’m retired I have a whole new set of wardrobe needs, so I hope to get back to posting more often. Olive Green on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/3#post-2338001 Fri, 08 Sep 2023 18:48:38 +0000 Olive Green 2338001@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Oh, Celia, “it is worth to be seen”  is the most perfect thing to say.  Lesley on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/3#post-2337995 Fri, 08 Sep 2023 15:21:07 +0000 Lesley 2337995@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ A very interesting discussion! I love WIWs but mostly don't post photos myself (maybe I've done one or two in a decade). It's a double-standard, I guess. It's a privacy thing, a desire not to spend too much time on social media or have my mind occupied with social media and posting, and that sometimes I think my outfits look abfab in person but I can't capture them the way I want to in a photo, ha ha! Jules on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/3#post-2337994 Fri, 08 Sep 2023 15:04:07 +0000 Jules 2337994@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ To be clear the act of offering a critical or nuanced opinion  is generally not what I would push back on - it would be on the opinion itself: what it's rooted in (expertise vs bias), maybe how it's phrased. Basically, offering an opinion on the opinion (which does get a bit meta and away from the original point). If I see that someone is not interested in that pushback, I will eventually drop it. It's the tension between wanting to give critical opinions and how one receives feedback on them that I find interesting. Irina on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/3#post-2337993 Fri, 08 Sep 2023 14:48:50 +0000 Irina 2337993@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Jules,  " By being opinionated, critical, etc, doesn't one also need to be open to equally opinionated pushback on that?" I probably coming to it from a different side. I learned important facts about how to dress late in my life and often feel regret that I didn't know much about fabrics, brands, type of outfits, proper fit when I was younger. I became a forever student of fashion. Offering an opinion (I don't unless asked) seems useful to me. Saying something nice, too.  I'm glad I asked this question. I came here years ago first of all to learn from Angie and others. I'm not static in my style and I thought if I share my journey with others, I contribute to an overall discussion on style and it might interest/help. But it seems that we are at the point in our lives that aside from something specific, we do not need and not seeking opinions of others but rather affirmation. Jules on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/3#post-2337991 Fri, 08 Sep 2023 13:54:55 +0000 Jules 2337991@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ After a couple of days' worth of slow-burn introspection, I have concluded that I post WIWs mainly to "give back" - show forum members and Angie how they have inspired me, both in the particulars of the outfits and the overall sense of joy, contentment, and/or satisfaction I am experiencing in that moment. Thus I only really post outfits I am happy with and I'm not really looking for a critique (although gentle suggestions are appreciated!). At the same time while of course I enjoy validation, it's not competitive, so not getting the same level of interest as another forum member is totally fine. On the idea of "the gentle pressure to say something nice"  I like this phrase from Sarah, and Suz's response. Reminds me of a little game I played with my daughter when she was young... we would walk along the lakeside strip where our summer cottage is and pick our favourite thing about each dwelling (which range from the pretty basic to the pretty fancy). It gave us a positive reason to be gawking and we could always come up with something to admire, be it nice trees, pretty chairs, old-fashioned details, modern upgrades... Generally speaking I find the idea that it's "too hard to be nice" interesting (to be clear I'm not attributing that to anyone here). By being opinionated, critical, etc, doesn't one also need to be open to equally opinionated pushback on that?  ChristelJ on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/3#post-2337963 Fri, 08 Sep 2023 01:04:13 +0000 ChristelJ 2337963@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Fascinating thread, wow. I absolutely love seeing others' WIWs and getting a chance to know people's various styles better, get ideas, and just see how other real women dress for their real lives. My hope is I can contribute in the same way, at least once in a while. I don’t post photos often, because it makes me feel just generally vulnerable, even though I have received nothing but kind and positive comments here. I do post photos when I want suggestions on how to style a new item or a tricky item, or in response to a style challenge, or sometimes just for validation. I have highly appreciated the suggestions I have received, which have been super helpful. The people around me are not interested in these subjects the way forum members are. Sloper on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/3#post-2337961 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 23:34:04 +0000 Sloper 2337961@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I enjoy looking at WIW’s.  I don’t post myself for privacy, shyness, logistical reasons (plus I loathe myself in photos).  And I don’t always comment for many of the reasons others have mentioned above - everything’s already been said, I don’t have a suggestion (if the person is asking for one), I’m ambivalent or dislike a look, I’m just not having a “chatty” day, etc.  Also, for me, whether something “works” or not is an intuitive reaction, so I might find it difficult to articulate a response in a helpful/kind manner. I do like the more general discussions about style and fashion, and opportunities to reminisce about past favorite eras. celia on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/3#post-2337944 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 16:08:55 +0000 celia 2337944@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ It took me reading all the comments to be able to articulate my answer. I have been in the forum for 15 years and I find that the times that I posted WIW more were times of change for me, like being a new mother, moving to a new country,starting a new job. Although the blog and forum have changed and evolved during these years I believe that the underlying message has always been that it is worth to be seen, that fashion/style is a form of self expression and can be a great tool for self acceptance and self care. In this light, I think that WIW's coming from people with different backgrounds, cultures, needs and body types reinforces the positive message that there isn't only one acceptable way of being, but rather many different ways all of them with their valour. I always enjoy when members have the generosity to share their outfits even if I don't comment. Besides the times where I would be asking for advice, showcasing one of Angie's formula or participating in a challenge I wouldn't post photos because I think that if I post an outfit that makes me happy and showcase it as " I feel great in this" besides a potential happiness shared there is no good answer that the forum can have. I realize that this has more to do with my delivery than anything else but the fact remains that no matter what I can say otherwise having no answers to posts is demoralizing. Helena on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/3#post-2337939 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 13:00:17 +0000 Helena 2337939@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Irina to your point: "I rather dislike this “say something nice or nothing at all” I find that people often feel they obligated to say something nice even if they don’t like it or indifferent." This is a very fair point of disagreement. The risk of course is that if people feel obligated the responses are inauthentic ... like I think someone looks terrible but I tell them they look great to be nice. However, I think what I try to do is, as Jaime says "meet people where they are" ... so even if something is not to my taste, I can find elements to genuinely appreciate (moreso when I understand their personal style and priorities). The genuine piece is key ... I don't think it's useful to be dishonest. If I truly couldn't find something positive, I would choose to keep my mouth shut. Unless feedback was sought, in which case I would try to share my thoughts in a constructive way. But as I say, your point is fair and well-taken! Staysfit on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/3#post-2337938 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 12:45:57 +0000 Staysfit 2337938@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I have loved this thread so much that I keep coming back and reading each and every response.  <div> </div><div>@Zaeobi, I think my response above places me solidly into the “process” camp, although I also enjoy the end results.  Your question is so interesting I wonder if you should repost it in a different thread and somehow link it back to this one?</div> Zaeobi on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/3#post-2337920 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 04:40:32 +0000 Zaeobi 2337920@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Popping in to say hi & to share a little bit of my story Interesting thread & responses - many of which resonate! Will bold my own reasons for sharing & looking at WiWs) in my drivel below, lol: I haven't posted in quite a while but when I first joined the forum (under another username) it was mostly to comment on Angie's blog & occasionally the forum (absorbing fashion wisdom along the way). I think I started posting more frequently for advice after I moved to Brazil & my suitcase went missing - brings a whole new meaning to the 'I have nothing to wear' dilemma, lol! I think I finally became less shy about posting WiWs after I moved to Hong Kong & actually had some space to take photos (as per @rachylou) but without my face showing. Whilst I appreciate compliments (who doesn't?), I did it because I value the 'constructive criticism' here from folk who have a bit more to give, fashion-wise - my family would be more concerned with cultural parameters and my husband sees no need to dress up (ever lol), so their feedback always skewed differently. Like @Jonesy I'm quite a visual person, so I like looking at others' WiW & I find it easier to understand people's perspectives when I can 'see' their styles. So I figured people would also benefit from seeing mine ( a form of 'giving back' to the forum, as others put it). I used to be more cautious about only posting photos from the neck down, but after occasionally asking for makeup/ hair advice, I felt a little more at ease with occasionally showing my face so people can see what I look like (I find it easier to 'visualise' Fabbers in my head if I can imagine them standing there, which I appreciate can be difficult to do without a face). I still hide my photos after a little while though, because I sometimes find it weird to scroll through and see myself on the internet - even though @Judy I also remember the blogs (& also had my own at one point, lol)! Speaking of which, I'm like @SarahD8 in that posting a WiW can help me build on my written thoughts by eliciting others' input, so that I can bounce back ideas in order to help crystallise them into actions. The visuals help alongside the text - for example, I like how @Donna8's challenge WiWs with lots of photos in one post help to tell a story of what she wore throughout the month. Or posting different photos of the same look allows you to gain different perspectives, as if you were looking at the outfit in-person. @Brooklyn I've also felt the same thing you described - especially if I was posting & commenting around the time that the forum was active but wasn't receiving responses (those of you in eastern hemisphere timezones know what I'm talking about, lol). But as @Suz says, sometimes the type of engagement (or a lack of it) is less about us & more about them. I appreciate your (& others') WiWs though - it takes a lot of work to put yourself out there (& in good quality photos)! The different looks & approaches help to push the envelope on my own fashion boundaries On the flip side, I've found that, the more self-assured in my own style, the less of a need I feel to post WiWs! Since my silhouettes/ colours/ styles are becoming almost 'uniform' now, I'm not buying much new to 'show off' anymore & I'm also less unsure of whether something will work on me or not anymore (hence not needing to ask as many K/R questions). So I'm not sure whether my WiWs would be of use to anyone on the forum anymore! So, dear Fabbers: do you prefer to see the 'process' in WiWs, or the end destination of the fashion journey? Suz on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/3#post-2337919 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 04:13:19 +0000 Suz 2337919@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Ooh, Sal, that's a fun idea.  Maybe some day we can try a challenge like that  -- figure out some items we have that is the same or similar to several other forum member's and style it in our own inimitable ways.  SarahDB said:  "(So, I'm saying that the gentle pressure to say something nice is actually a gift *to me.*)".  I love that -- and experience it in a similar way. I had a poetry prof who had the same effect on my workshop group. We were a wildly varied group with vastly different aesthetics. It was so enlightening to look for the positive in every piece of work that came in.  Sal on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/2#post-2337914 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 03:27:55 +0000 Sal 2337914@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ It is a unique special community that is hard to explain to friends and family.... I agree Gaylene. A bit off topic but I could imagine Brooklyn, Irina, Bijou and Angie might all have the same dress (maybe in olive).  Brooklyn might style with chunky flat brown sandals, Bijou with chunky white boots, Irina with refined dark loafers or flats and Angie with refined white loafers - and if I was in that stylish company I would probably wear sneakers or tan sandals. SarahD8 on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/2#post-2337913 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 02:28:09 +0000 SarahD8 2337913@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I really like Jaime's point! I understand why the forum's norms of positivity can seem saccharine or suspect/phony, but I am thinking about how that spirit of positivity also prompts me to stretch my aesthetic eye/brain -- an outfit may not be my style, but I can appreciate what the poster is aiming at and how the aesthetic functions, and that increases my understanding of style in general. (So, I'm saying that the gentle pressure to say something nice is actually a gift *to me.*) Brooklyn on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/2#post-2337912 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 02:16:10 +0000 Brooklyn 2337912@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Jaime, that is so well said! I agree that I wouldn’t make a critical comment if the poster is obviously happy with their outfit. If it’s a K/R or the poster has indicated that they want help, that’s different. I think it is possible to make constructive suggestions on a WIW that are not criticisms. Eg “you might try that outfit with white boots”. Angie (of course) said that to me once. That’s not negative, she’s just trying to engage with me and open my eyes to other styling possibilities (which I can choose to try, or not). It’s nice and it’s another reason to post. Of course, I can’t always make suggestions like that myself. And I also run out time and of things to say! Sometimes I just say “thanks for sharing”. I hope that the poster understands that I intend that as a genuine expression of appreciation of the effort of posting. Gaylene on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/2#post-2337911 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 02:14:17 +0000 Gaylene 2337911@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I offered this comment in response to this question eight years ago: We've had lots of discussions over the years as to how different members can contribute to the forum and the general consensus has always been for everyone to do what feels comfortable as long as Angie's guidelines are followed; the YLF umbrella is big enough to hold all of us, as long as we are respectful and considerate of each other. Personally, the WIW aspect of the forum has always been the least interesting to me; I stick around because of the lively problem-solving discussions and analyses--exactly the areas that some of the other ladies find boring. It's this kind of diversity that makes YLF such a unique fashion site. I joined YLF in 2010 because I was filled with admiration for what Angie and Greg had created—a safe place on the Internet for a person of any gender, age, nationality, or any.other descriptor to hang out talking about fashion plus a host of other topics which are part of our lives. It’s the support we find within this community which makes YLF so unique.  I’ve never posted a WIW picture and doubt that I ever will, but I’d like to think that, over the years, I’ve contributed in other ways. UmmLila (Lisa) on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/2#post-2337909 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 01:41:43 +0000 UmmLila (Lisa) 2337909@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I love fashion and like many of you, I don’t have a lot of people in my immediate environment who do. <div> </div><div>I enjoy seeing other people’s WIWs, because I know they are posted by people who think about fashion and style. We all have different tastes, but it seems to me that the primary thing we have in common on this forum is a thoughtful approach to the creative aesthetic of dressing. The secondary thing is that for the most part that we are nice people who want to lift others up (bar the occasional narcissist or troll). I post my WIWs to share what’s making me happy or as a way of supporting the forum overall. When I ask for advice, I genuinely want it. The feedback here is usually helpful, though I do find that sometimes it is a bit too nice and not practical enough. (A recent post I made to ask about black tie was tremendously useful. The actual result WIW will follow on the weekend.) </div> Janet on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/2#post-2337908 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 01:39:00 +0000 Janet 2337908@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I relate to a lot of comments in this excellent thread. I don’t often think to take a picture and post it, and a lot of days my outfit just doesn’t really warrant sharing, LOL. But sometimes I just want to share because it’s something I enjoyed wearing, features a new item, or is for a special occasion. Sometimes it’s almost like “felt cute, might delete later” haha. I do really like seeing others’ WIWs and figure it’s nice to contribute to the give and take. I will sometimes post a new item in a K/R type of post for feedback if I am unsure — sometimes extra pairs of eyes help! Sometimes just taking the photos gives me my answer and I never bother posting. But my WIWs are not generally looking for feedback in the form of criticism. If I’m posting it, I’m probably happy in it unless I say otherwise, and overwhelmingly the forum participants are kind enough to reserve criticism for when it’s actually requested. I do very much agree that seeing what other members wear helps envision them better and helps us understand each others style and goals in a way that words just do not. It’s a visual art and I crave the visuals! Jaime on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/2#post-2337907 Thu, 07 Sep 2023 01:23:05 +0000 Jaime 2337907@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I am learning a lot from this thread Irina. As to the question of responding with something nice or nothing at all, I try to respond to most posts in the spirit of positivity. It is practice in empathy for me. Clearly the person posting likes their outfit (unless they explicitly say they don't). I know my way of dressing is pretty out there and not everyone's or even most people's taste, but people tend to respond kindly when I post and I appreciate it. I try to return the favor by understanding where the poster is coming from and meeting them there.  DonnaF on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/2#post-2337903 Wed, 06 Sep 2023 23:53:53 +0000 DonnaF 2337903@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ If you want to know a huge portion of my thoughts, see what kkards posted way, way, way up thread. I really enjoy others’ WIWs but may not comment due to my time and/or energy when I view it. My apologies for any hurt feelings, and please don’t take it personally. I am more apt to comment, however, if a person is asking for advice. I am most apt to post a WIW if it links to an Angie formula or if I have created a challenge for myself. I don’t seek validation so I was completely shocked when folks said they liked my socks with dresses. I will post a photo if I am asking for advice but have learned that K/Rs can be biased toward Keeps, lol. Jonesy on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/2#post-2337900 Wed, 06 Sep 2023 23:18:04 +0000 Jonesy 2337900@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Okay, I'm late here, but had to chime in. This is a really great question with lots of interesting responses! When I first joined YLF (over 13 years ago! kind of hard to believe) I posted a lot of WIWs and always commented on everyone else's WIWs. Over time, I drifted away from participating on the forum, but then during Covid (and the isolation it brought) I found myself wanting to engage again, so I started participating more. I posted a big batch of WIWs last winter, with the intention of continuing to post, but then life intervened with a series of terrible events, and now it's September :).  To your question of why: My reasons echo lots of the comments already shared. I really like seeing others' WIWs, and so it seems only fair to post my own (that spirit of exchange and generosity people have mentioned); no one in my real life cares much about style and fashion, so I enjoy sharing with people here who do care; seeing others' WIWs helps me to "know" them and their style, and likewise, I feel like posting my WIWs helps people "know" me, so in that sense it facilitates a greater sense of community, at least from my POV. I admit I have a much harder time distinguishing between posters who never post their WIWs, vs. those who do. The visual is very powerful, at least to me. Agreeing with many others who talk about the sense of vulnerability--I feel it too! It's hard to put yourself out there! Brooklyn, I am 99% sure that no one hates you! But I know what you mean about people who never respond--it can feel personal, but my sense is it's more about them than you. Irina, personally I love your WIWs because it seems like you favor oversized clothing, and that is a preference I share, plus one that isn't as well-represented here as other stylistic preferences (e.g., more tailored or fitted or conventionally flattering shapes and silhouettes). So I love seeing what you're up to! Style Fan on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/2#post-2337885 Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:42:38 +0000 Style Fan 2337885@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ There are so many good points here about why we post a WIW.  I can relate to most of them.  These days I wear very casual clothes and I don't post those outfits.  I spend most days walking my dog and doing things around the house.  My outfits are not very exciting. Some of the reasons I post a WIW are: 1/  I have a question about the outfit or a piece.  I am not always sure about the size or how to wear something.   2/  It shows the rest of the forum what my style is.  My wardrobe is in a good place, thanks to Angie and the forum members.  When I joined YLF, I envisioned how I wanted to dress, but kept buying clothes that didn't work. 3/  I like the interaction with the other forum members.  The WIWs add to that interaction.  I understand if someone doesn't feel comfortable with pictures on the internet. I am always interested in how others put their outfits together.  There are so many different styles here.  I may not always comment, but that is because of my difficulties being on the computer for long periods.  I have chronic migraines that have been awful the last year. Irina on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/2#post-2337883 Wed, 06 Sep 2023 19:28:24 +0000 Irina 2337883@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ All right, thank you all who answered my question. Some conclusions on my part:<div>I’m not super convinced Angie benefits from our WIW more than from our responses on her daily blog.  I do see a point of posting WIW as a curtesy to others that do. It doesn’t not require to post as often as I used to. <div>Helena, I rather dislike this “say something nice or nothing at all” </div><div>I find that people often feel they obligated to say something nice even if they don’t like it or indifferent. </div> I don’t equate fashion with trends. I appreciate style but it is only one part of it. History, craft, textiles, shows, collections - it is all fashion. Reading and participating in discussion is as important to me as to see WIW. </div> judy on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/2#post-2337877 Wed, 06 Sep 2023 18:12:01 +0000 judy 2337877@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <div><div>"I’m not asking should I post photos, I need to find an answer myself. I want to ask you this - Why do you post (or don’t) your WIW?"</div> </div><div></div><div></div><div> I used to post a few photos way back in the day,...I've been here on and off for more than 15 years, sometimes off for a long time tho.  They were linked to a blog I had...remember those?? Before iphones too!  I used a little digital camera.  I never posted my head, just the body and clothes. I wasn't so much looking for critique or compliments, just sharing inspiration and joy.  That was then...and now?  I don't honestly even know how to post photos here.  I never did, that's why I linked to the blog.  I don't use my phone for the forum, and my photos, including ones of what I wore (usually sent to my sister),  are taken on my phone.  And my iphone is old...a 7! so the photos are not great.   I respond occasionally to a WIW thread with an encouraging word.  But I agree, it needs to be genuine.  Sometimes the outfits are not to my taste, so I don't say anything.  But also, sometimes I love it, and I also don't say anything.  I tend to participate more in the style questions, theory, experiences kind of threads.   I also agree that it is generous of people...and brave...to post WIW's.  It can provide so much learning and inspiration too.   </div> SarahD8 on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/2#post-2337874 Wed, 06 Sep 2023 17:50:54 +0000 SarahD8 2337874@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I don't post a ton of WIWs, partly because of limited time and partly because I don't have a great setup for outfit photos so I struggle to capture pictures that accurately convey the colors and proportions of what I'm wearing. When I do post outfit pics it is often with some larger pattern or observation in mind -- an outfit lab exploring different ways to wear a new piece, different versions of an outfit formula I'm playing with, a single outfit that exemplifies some things I've been thinking about (or doesn't, and I can't put my finger on why not), and so on. The process of articulating that larger pattern often helps me understand it better (yes, I'm a writer who gains insight by writing). And I guess I like to think those musings, and the visual illustration of them, might be useful food for thought for others. Similarly what I tend to look for in others' outfit photos is a bigger picture -- whether it's how Brooklyn is exploring a seasonal theme or how Runcarla is finding an unexpected new way to wear an older piece. That bigger picture doesn't necessarily have to be spelled out by the poster however and aside from all that analysis it can be nice to just see what other folks around the world are wearing. I enjoy and take something from WIW posts even though I don't always manage to leave a comment (again reasons of time...or maybe not feeling like I have much to add that hasn't already been said). Minaminu on "WIW - to post or not to post" https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---to-post-or-not-to-post/page/2#post-2337872 Wed, 06 Sep 2023 16:46:07 +0000 Minaminu 2337872@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <div><div><div>As they say, fashion fades but style is nurtured! Mine has been growing thanks to all those generous posts. I'm very grateful to all fabbers who take the time to share their WIW and the results of their experiments (success or failures, as I learn from both!).  It is so helpful to learn about proportions (which I always get it wrong), discover interesting colour combinations, motivates me to try different things and challenges my own perception of style. </div><div><div> </div><div>Just as a few examples, I discovered a new jewellery brand thanks to your WIW, learnt about colour dying thanks to Brooklyn, fell in love with the colour camel thanks to Suntiger, tested my colour palette thanks to Helena and sharpened my critical eye thanks to Suz. These are few examples but I could carry on with every single WIW, not to mention Angie's posts that are a source of infinite knowledge! <div> </div><div>Personally, it is challenging to post a WIW as I lack confidence, my environment is quite restricted in terms of light and space and lastly privacy is a major concern given the most recent AI developments, which is the reason why I post with a smiley on my face. Confidence is not my forte, but I am working towards more WIW posts and slowly slowly I'll get there!</div></div></div></div></div>