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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks</title>
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				<title>Mary Beth (formerly LBD) on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2020 14:51:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mary Beth (formerly LBD)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I, for one, love it!  You look lively and energetic and bristling with energy, which is making me think about getting off the couch and doing something with my day
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				<title>anchie on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2020 12:05:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>anchie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Fashintern - LOL - librarian is just something my DD would say. I actually enjoy her humorous comments lke magican assistant or sushi waiter. Situation here is getting out of control unfortunately. There are 38 positive cases ar work and 6 at my DD school, but still no work from home or online school. So I don’t have much patience at the moment for people who complain about not having anywhere to go - I would gladly trade places.
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				<title>lyn67 on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2020 11:46:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>lyn67</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love this -esp. on a late (=so think already sunny:-)) morning-advance pattern mix, so very YLF!:-)
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				<title>Stagiaire Fash on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2020 11:42:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Stagiaire Fash</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Today’s look is fresh &#038;amp; cute. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;You just made a point that I’ve been thinking of in relation to your post—the people you interact with at work don’t necessarily care about your style. They might dislike something just because it is unusual, so they find it a jarring interruption, and vice-versa. Does that matter? I think there are times when you need to use all the tools you’ve got, including sartorial choices that influence a person in ways they might not realize. It didn’t sound like yesterday was that kind of day, so have fun with what you wear! &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I solicit my son’s opinions sometimes. If he says “it’s fine”, I usually harass him for more. He often comes up with vivid descriptions or humorous/sarcastic comment. They don’t hurt, and can make me laugh. Then I consider what he is saying in them, and whether that point matters enough for me to change my outfit. I enjoyed the outfit in this pic, but hearing him say I look like a “librarian” tells me it doesn’t have the effect I thought. That’s useful info. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I just saw that the Robt Koch Institute considers the state of Wien a high risk zone for Corona, and people arriving in Germany from there are required to quarantine. I hope you are well!
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				<title>anchie on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2020 05:36:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>anchie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you all for the nice feedback and support, it was nice distraction from the stress that I have been under lately.&#060;br /&#062;
@Runcarla - interesting that you find my family comments hurtful, because I don’t especially if I asked. Maybe I don’t take it that seriously or I am not that sensitive but I find it informative and amusing, and sometimes I agree and sometimes I don’t. Similarly like asking here, except that I don’t work with fashionable woman but with bunch if IT guys that my husband is good representative of :)&#060;br /&#062;
Here is today’s WIW that got unsolicited  thumbs up from the family.
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				<title>columbine(erin) on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2020 03:12:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>columbine(erin)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love this pattern mixing and happy color!&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Carla on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2020 01:05:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think you need to stop asking family members for their opinion, and go with your gut. &#038;nbsp;Their comments seem hurtful. &#038;nbsp;Your styling of your outfits is consistently head and shoulders above the the norm.&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Lucy on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---is-this-disaster-as-my-family-thinks/page/2#post-2144676</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2020 00:51:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lucy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I really love it!Def advanced pattern mixing.  It's fun, you know? I think chic and fun at the same time.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Style Fan on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2020 23:55:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Style Fan</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Definitely advanced pattern mixing.&#038;nbsp; You are a pro!
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				<title>Anonymous on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2020 15:58:10 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think it works too- definitely not a disaster!
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				<title>Star (Lise) on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2020 15:38:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Star (Lise)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Fabulous - love it and would definitely wear it myself.
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				<title>Debbie on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2020 13:58:43 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You look fab to me. I love your hair!
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				<title>cindysmith on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2020 13:45:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cindysmith</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;They're dudes, so they have no clue what they're talking about ;-)&#060;br /&#062;
I was seriously expecting something disastrous, but I didn't get it. This looks great to my eye!
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				<title>The Cat on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2020 09:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>The Cat</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Your morning hair looks French--you know, that casual chic &#034;je ne sais quoi&#034; style.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Gigi on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2020 04:47:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Gigi</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Definitely not a disaster! I'm not much of one for pattern mixing, so I would have gone with a white top most likely. But I don't know why there would be a problem with the blazer...&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I really like the hair, btw! Sometimes mine looks good right when I get up but then falls flat later. Pfft.
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				<title>AJ on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2020 03:26:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>AJ</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Bright and playful!&#038;nbsp; YLF!
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				<title>Jaime on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2020 03:24:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well you look fab to me. From hair to pattern mix to pop of yellow!
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				<title>Aquamarine on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---is-this-disaster-as-my-family-thinks/page/2#post-2144527</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2020 02:42:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aquamarine</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think you look fab! And I love your hair.
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				<title>SW Ann on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2020 21:36:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>SW Ann</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love it! Pattern mixing is advanced fashion for many, as I found in my previous professional life.&#038;nbsp; One time, I had a woman say to me &#034;I didn't know you could do that&#034; as she looked at me up and down.&#038;nbsp; LOL!!!&#038;nbsp; Yes, you can, I said!!! And you did!! The pants photograph dark, but I assumed they were dark blue. Good look, and kind of summery...
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				<title>Firecracker (Sharan) on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2020 21:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Firecracker (Sharan)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I really, really like it! I wouldn't change a thing! An outfit worth repeating. And your morning hair even looks great. 
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				<title>DonnaF on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2020 17:01:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>DonnaF</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love this!!! Great pattern mixing. Maybe the citron blazer is too OTT stylish for them. Hope you can add a photo that includes shoes and bag so we can admire the full effect. Don’t worry; we’ll understand the end of the day crinkles and wrinkles.
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				<title>Angie on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2020 15:54:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;*slaps forehead*&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;You did indeed! Sorry. Need more tea....
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				<title>Suz on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2020 15:45:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well, I would wear it in a heartbeat!&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>anchie on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2020 15:44:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>anchie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Angie - Thanks! I did wear white bag and white slip on sneakers, see finds in OP.
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				<title>Angie on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2020 15:37:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like it too. I see happy tension! &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062; I’d have finished you off with white or silver footwear/bag to tighten and freshen the palette. Add order to the chaos.
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				<title>nemosmom on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2020 15:27:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>nemosmom</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think it's great! A definite one to repeat.
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				<title>anchie on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2020 15:18:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>anchie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;thanks all for the feedback&#060;br /&#062;
lisap - I did ask because I was unsure, but then didn’t listen anyway LOL. And BTW pants are navy and white, not black and white. I would never mix navy and black LOL, this is maybe my only strict rule  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2020 15:12:59 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'd have repeated the blue somewhere else (blue and white checked pants instead of black/wh) or done a black/wh print top with bl/wh pants , but the patterns themselves work really well together . The yellow blazer adds the perfect bit of punch too. Don't listen to family opinions - they shouldn't say a word unless asked  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span>  &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>slim cat on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2020 15:02:02 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love it - especially cheery bright blazer! Adding black belt ( or navy ) might help separating the patterns but it'll be too predictable and not really fun. Anyway - wear it to your heart content  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  !
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				<title>rachylou on "WIW - is this disaster as my family thinks"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2020 15:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What! This is fab! I’d do it in a heartbeat!
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