https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Thu, 04 Jun 2026 22:14:39 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749749 Sat, 12 Nov 2016 10:17:11 +0000 Style Fan 1749749@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I thought you looked great but I see what Angie is talking about now.&nbsp; I didn't go for long over lean (doesn't work for me) so I have a harder time telling what works for someone when it comes to long oversized sweaters.<br />I do like your jeans.&nbsp; The colour is great. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749624 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 20:54:47 +0000 Anonymous 1749624@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yes, I'm glad others have chimed in.<br /> For me, I need something thick 'n chunky or else thin/medium weight and a little form fitting. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749621 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 20:25:27 +0000 Suz 1749621@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This makes perfect sense to me -- I'm uncomfortable in a too drapey sweater, too. I like oversized but only if it is reined in quite strictly in places. So, for instance, I have an oversized sweater from J. Crew that is <b>really</b> oversized in the body -- but the sleeves and cuffs are narrow and that gives structure, as does the knit (flat) and the pattern (framed -- so, outlining the arms and shoulders.)&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749596 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 19:03:52 +0000 rachylou 1749596@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I really think that's interesting about the silhouette of the sweater. The droopy-ness. I'm RATE, so I'd run with it; but I can see how it would be uncomfortable. I also personally don't like medium thin cotton sweaters that often... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749586 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 18:43:39 +0000 RobinF 1749586@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This has been a very informative thread. I looked and said, that looks fine, and then read the comments and looked again and could see what they were talking about. Such a great learning experience. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749571 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 18:21:09 +0000 Helena 1749571@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>OK, thanks again to everyone; I've learned a lot from this thread so thanks for indulging me! A few of you wondered about the silhouette and then Angie's comment cemented it - this is not my silhouette. The sweater is too loosey-goosey and in fact, the fit of the pants, while not horrible, is not perfect either. So I think I felt a bit too floppy and sloppy in it. Into the donation pile with the sweater; the pants will get another chance with a more tailored supporting act and then we'll see if they make the cut. It's the same with a blush sweater I wore the other day; love the color and in theory, I love the cut, but I felt bad in it and I think it's the drapey silhouette.&nbsp;</p> <p>The other key learning was around the accessorizing, and yes, quite right you all were. I added a bit of sparkle per Rachy's comment and immediately felt better. I also DID in fact wear shoes I wore gray wedge booties, and the bit of height made the whole silhouette work a little better for my personal style and comfort.</p> <p>Most importantly, I've learned that I've been using YLF all wrong! Rather than sharing my successes, I must try much harder to share my fails ... with this wisdom to tap into, I'll learn way more!! :D</p> <p>Thanks all xoxo</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749485 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 12:59:19 +0000 Jaime 1749485@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I agree that a cool pair of shoes would really help a lot. I would do ankle&nbsp;boots with a heel.&nbsp; I also think maybe the pants should be a bit tighter to offset the large sweater. If you have skinny jeans they would look great-and save the burgandy ones to wear with a more fitted top. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749482 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 12:53:27 +0000 Angie 1749482@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This is not a bad outfit. Shoes would help.</p> <p>FWIW, I think you're reacting to the sloppy vibe of the pullover. A less than fab fit. You usually prefer things more tailored, Helena. If you were my client - the rolled back cuffs and too wide hem make it a contender for the pass-on pile.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749467 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 12:18:51 +0000 Helena 1749467@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Just popping in to thank everyone for your kind and insightful responses ... Haven't had a chance to comment but have read every one and am pondering them all! Will pop in after work today to respond properly ... Thanks wise women! Xx </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749465 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 12:17:59 +0000 ma 1749465@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think you look very nice. &nbsp;I wish I could see the footwear you chose. &nbsp;Maybe try tying the scarf a different way? Angie mentioned somewhere that the "muffler" style felt more current (a while ago so maybe not so current anymore? I am not sure) Maybe it is missing a statement piece...a fun topper or handbag that isn't matchy?? Just ideas, I am not sure why you don't love this look. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749460 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 12:11:15 +0000 Suz 1749460@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think it's emotional comfort. It looks like a great outfit for your job. But check your feelings about the fit of each item. I see what Gigi sees re the proportions but I also think camera angle and footwear play a role and IRL this is probably not at all unflattering. (I'm always sensitive to that particular issue since my legs are on the shorter side and I'm easily cut in half by tunic length sweaters that look fab on others.)&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749444 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 11:45:23 +0000 kkards 1749444@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>yup....i have worn plently of outfits like this....in my mind the outfit is fab, but on...something just seems off, at least to me.....i think it often comes down to emotional comfort..... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749430 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 11:06:24 +0000 Summer 1749430@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The only thing I notice is that the pants may need hemming a tad shorter, although it's difficult to be sure without the footwear. They seem to be wrinkling a little around the ankles.&nbsp; Otherwise, this is a perfectly nice outfit to my eye, and will be just right once you've added the shoes/boots.<br />Another thought is that maybe one or two pieces just may not be items that you <i>really</i> love - even though they suit you perfectly.&nbsp; If that's the case, it's time to let them go.</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749399 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 06:31:42 +0000 Gigi 1749399@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I haven't read the other responses, but I think that what you are seeing is that the proportions are not optimal--the top and bottom cut you almost in half. I'm not quite sure how to fix it. A couple of possibilities would be to wear a high-heeled bootie in a dark color that blends with the pants and thus extends your leg line (making the dark-colored area clearly longer than the light-colored one), or else roll the pants up significantly and wear them with a light-colored bootie (to help "shorten" the dark-colored area so that it is clearly not equal to the light-colored area). </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749387 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 03:18:25 +0000 susan 1749387@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think it looks beautiful.&nbsp; If I had to change something I'd say maybe find a lighter weight scarf.&nbsp; The scarf seems to overwhelm you a bit but that's just being picky really.&nbsp; You look great. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749385 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 02:49:07 +0000 citygirldc 1749385@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What do you think is wrong with it? You look nice though but maybe it's too "safe" for you???!!! Maybe you need to add something with a little oomph! how about a cool fedora hat? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749383 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 02:41:35 +0000 LaPed 1749383@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Could this be a matter of silhouette fatigue? I wonder if your eyes are adjusting away from the loose top/skinny bottom look and towards the new-again proportions of fitted tops and fuller bottoms. </p> <p>The long-over-lean and loose-over-lean looks have definitely, finally, reached a saturation point where I live -- especially now that the weather's cooled down. &nbsp; &nbsp;</p> <p>Last thought -- a bit of wrist or ankle might help here. I often feel a bit blah if I don't bother turning up my pant cuff or scrunching my sleeve a bit. That can help ground/complete a look. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749381 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 02:28:49 +0000 TraceyLiz65 1749381@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Anticipating the review after shoes and the earrings were added , as I think it's a nicely put together look.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749371 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 01:29:54 +0000 Anonymous 1749371@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think you are being more critical of the outfit than an outside observer would be! Of course we are usually our own worst critics. I like the outfit, maybe you could improve your own opinion of it with some cool boots or bling or bag. (Such as a leopard bag as per recent Angie post). </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749360 Fri, 11 Nov 2016 00:32:46 +0000 El Cee 1749360@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You look absolutely lovely! Could something be wrong with your mirror?&nbsp;<br />JAileen is cracking me up. Yes... shoes would be good. :-)</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749343 Thu, 10 Nov 2016 22:59:15 +0000 JAileen 1749343@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think it needs some shoes. Otherwise it's very nice. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749342 Thu, 10 Nov 2016 22:45:19 +0000 Helena 1749342@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Rachy, throwing on some sparkly studs before I leave ... will keep you posted ... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749341 Thu, 10 Nov 2016 22:44:30 +0000 Helena 1749341@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm not sure really ... I'm heading out now in it; I'll ponder! Thanks for the kind words though </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749340 Thu, 10 Nov 2016 22:44:07 +0000 rachylou 1749340@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It's pretty! But I suppose what it doesn't have is that little bit of zing or sparkle - something shiny, like earrings, or stompy, like boots. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749339 Thu, 10 Nov 2016 22:44:02 +0000 peacechick 1749339@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think this outfit is lovely too! Do you normally wear white and burgundy? I've found I'm not comfortable wity high contrast... but this outfit doesn't have that high of a contrast to me. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749337 Thu, 10 Nov 2016 22:40:10 +0000 Sara L. 1749337@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I don't see anything wrong with this outfit either. &nbsp;It looks like something I would wear. &nbsp;Can you pinpoint what feels so wrong? &nbsp;Too much color? &nbsp;Not enough color? Etc. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749336 Thu, 10 Nov 2016 22:36:58 +0000 Ginger 1749336@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think this might be a personal question. It looks very cute and comfortable, and I love the amount of white and non-black. So if you feel uncomfortable, like something's off, it's probably because it's a departure for your style in some way. Are any of these pieces new? Have you worn them in other outfits and they felt good? What's the difference between those outfits and this one? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749335 Thu, 10 Nov 2016 22:34:30 +0000 Muffin 1749335@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hmmm, I'm not going to be helpful at all because I think it looks really nice and put together. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw---help-me-understand-why-this-outfit-sucks#post-1749329 Thu, 10 Nov 2016 22:06:25 +0000 Helena 1749329@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hi there! Ok, so not that I thought this was high fashion or anything, but iny mind this was not a bad outfit ... The burgundy pants are simple and a nice color, the plaid scarf and cable knit sweater are cozy for fall, and I like the cut of the sweater. And yet I feel so rotten in this outfit ... Like I'm trying to hard but not succeeding. Any brilliant thoughts on why this doesn't work? Appreciate your insights! </p>