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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: WIdW OBG #1</title>
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				<title>Jenni NZ on "WIdW OBG #1"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/widw-obg1#post-2151936</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2020 20:06:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jenni NZ</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Good on you. I have clothes like that too. I guess I get worried I will miss them, but then since the mid 80s there would only be a handful of items that I really have missed, so it’s a fear rather than reality I think. And even if that black knit dress with bright fishes on from 1986 were to magically turn up again, who is to say I would wear it in reality now?&#060;br /&#062;
Congratulations on letting it go xx
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				<title>Angie on "WIdW OBG #1"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/widw-obg1#post-2151899</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2020 18:37:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;*applause*&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Onward to the next happy home...
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				<title>Suz on "WIdW OBG #1"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/widw-obg1#post-2151871</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2020 18:13:02 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I guess this is a side benefit of this challenge...if it doesn't work, we let it go for good!&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Carla on "WIdW OBG #1"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/widw-obg1#post-2151819</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2020 17:27:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Carla</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You tried.... &#038;nbsp;:-D&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>celia on "WIdW OBG #1"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/widw-obg1#post-2151816</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2020 17:26:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>celia</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;There are items like these that linger in our closets, and vests seem to fall in this category more than others. I do have an older vest from Monsoon that probably dates to 1997, that I wore maybe once in the last 12 years but is still in my closet and every winter I contemplate wearing it again. I came to terms with it and decided that I am willing to keep it even if I don't wear it.
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				<title>kkards on "WIdW OBG #1"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/widw-obg1#post-2151675</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2020 11:51:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>kkards</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;And this!&#060;br /&#062;May not have been able to complete the task, but you clearly learned the lesson.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Minaminu on "WIdW OBG #1"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2020 09:36:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Minaminu</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Very wise! It's a lovely piece and I am sure it will be loved and cherished by someone else, it would be a shame to leave it unused in the wardrobe!
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				<title>Lynne on "WIdW OBG #1"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/widw-obg1#post-2151660</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2020 09:30:04 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lynne</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love this, I think clarity is a great outcome!
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				<title>Sal on "WIdW OBG #1"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/widw-obg1#post-2151628</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2020 07:01:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sal</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I know that feeling and it is a great piece that someone will enjoy.  And it is fine to move on from as well.
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				<title>Bijou on "WIdW OBG #1"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/widw-obg1#post-2151625</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2020 06:48:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Bijou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Good decision - trying to make things work is just so frustrating!
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				<title>Liesbeth on "WIdW OBG #1"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/widw-obg1#post-2151624</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2020 06:39:04 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Liesbeth</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I knitted a vest a couple of years ago but in the end I just don't wear it either. Maybe you just have to be a 'vest person'?
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				<title>kellygirl on "WIdW OBG #1"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2020 04:36:28 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Haha! I’ve felt that way many a time. I just had a similar experience with an old pair of jeans that are finally getting the heave ho as of this morning! It’s liberating, no?!
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				<title>Brooklyn on "WIdW OBG #1"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/widw-obg1#post-2151598</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2020 04:01:58 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Brooklyn</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well you tried. It’s good that the challenge is prompting a wardrobe edit. It’s easy just to let these things slide.
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				<title>Anonymous on "WIdW OBG #1"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/widw-obg1#post-2151553</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2020 01:52:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You gave it a good shot, so do not mourn passing the vest on.  Vests are hard to get much wear out of.  They seem memorable, whether they are or not.
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				<title>nemosmom on "WIdW OBG #1"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/widw-obg1#post-2151550</link>
				<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2020 01:39:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>nemosmom</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;...or, What I &#034;didn't&#034; wear.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-biggrin icon-emoticon-biggrin "></span>  I have this old Kenji sweater vest that I bought from Anthropologie sometime before 2013. I have not worn it in at least 3 years... It used to have belt loops and a braided belt, but on my long torso the belt fell just below my bra strap, so I cut it off long ago... Every fall I unpack it from the 'winter' box, and every spring I pack it away (unworn) again.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;div&#062;Today, I had planned to pair it with a chocolate turtleneck, hi-rise straight leg jeans and my Thursday boots. But, when I put it on it was Just. Not. Right.  Today, I tried a regular belt (well, 3 belts) over it, but the belt(s) kept shifting around. I tried it open over a tee; the look was only so-so, and too cold for today's weather. I tried it over corduroy joggers, thinking a lower rise might help, but no matter what I tried, I just could not get it to work.&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;No matter how soft and fluffy it is, and no matter how much I loved it when I bought it, it was good to actually *realize* that it does not serve me anymore. I happily put my vest in the donate bag, without hesitation.&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;&#060;br /&#062;
&#060;/div&#062;&#060;div&#062;-1 skeleton  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span>  Thanks, Carla!&#060;br /&#062;
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