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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: Who&#039;s guilty of this?</title>
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				<title>Mochi on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whos-guilty-of-this#post-1207065</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 22:26:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mochi</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I've probably been guilty...less likely to fall prey to it now.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>unfrumped on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2014 20:37:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>unfrumped</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I have done this when I need sizes or items on-line and can return to the B&#038;amp;M store in town. With a certain &#034;favorite&#034; retailer, I think their minimum is too high, and especially as noted, when you buy during the sale, it's hard to meet the minimum. Usually I will try to legitmately &#034;try&#034; something or have learned I need to try 2 sizes (fluid fits!). However, recently I paid shipping to get an even further discounted sweater that had disappeared and reappeared in the right size (girl math came out even) that turned out to be  agreat essential item. So at times I try to look at it as just an overt cost of shopping whereas &#034;free&#034; shipping is hidden in there somewhere.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;With Nordstrom's I'm almost the opposite, a lot of times I only order one thing at a time, sometimes when it might make more sense to order things or sizes to compare. Sizes I'm getting wiser, since they sell out.
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				<title>Sarah A on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2014 00:38:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sarah A</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hahaha. All the time. I almost always order two sizes to try.  I do return a lot though  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>Laura (rhubarbgirl) on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2014 23:23:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Laura (rhubarbgirl)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Man, I want to shop wherever the shipping only costs 3 bucks! :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I do this not infrequently, but only if I get free returns as well, or it's a brand I can return to a b&#038;amp;m store in my local area. Often I am ordering a couple sizes anyway, or something to try that will likely not work, so it's not hard to get over the free shipping limit. Or at Twice, where they have free shipping and returns and everything is secondhand anyway, so I'll end up returning a good chunk of it. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The 'worst offender' for me is Powell's Books - they offer free shipping for any order over 50 dollars, and the shipping for books adds up quickly. I can almost always find a book or two more that I want to add to my order. 
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				<title>Disha on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2014 21:02:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Disha</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So, once I dithered on ordering something expensive so that I could add a $15 something that would tip the balance to free shipping.&#060;br /&#062;Added a little belt that I did not need, placed order. They ran out of the original things and all they shipped to me was the silly belt that I would never have bought anyways.&#060;br /&#062;The perfect ending would be that the belt became a workhorse. Sadly, have not even worn it once, yet  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-razz icon-emoticon-razz "></span> 
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				<title>Isabel on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2014 15:15:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Isabel</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Stop spying on me and making memes out of it ! &#038;nbsp; &#038;nbsp;LOL. &#038;nbsp;&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Anonymous on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2014 03:22:42 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Guilty, although for more expensive shipping costs and returns at a local&#060;br /&#062;
store.  The extras may be another size to try or April's tactic of adding something like $12 tights.
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				<title>DonnaF on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2014 22:30:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>DonnaF</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yes, I've done that but mostly for $5 - $8 shipping.&#038;nbsp; Even then, I will only generally spring if returns are free since inevitably something won't fit or be as expected and I really only want to keep *10*s.
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				<title>Kristin L on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2014 22:23:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kristin L</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yup, I'm guilty as well.
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				<title>kellygirl on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2014 21:34:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>kellygirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Mmm, not me. Never. :)&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>rachylou on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2014 17:33:24 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Lol. I'm a little guilty of that...
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				<title>April on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2014 12:49:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>April</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Only when it actually costs more to pay for shipping than to add another item. &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;This is common when there's a &#034;spend $100 and get 20% off plus free shipping!&#034; promotion, and your items come to $90. &#038;nbsp;Then adding that $12 pair of tights to your cart brings down the total while giving you an additional item.
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				<title>Laurinda on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2014 12:44:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Laurinda</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;There is some truth to that, and at $3 I would let it go. At $8 I add one outrageously gaudy (for me! not judging) piece to each order&#038;nbsp;and smile as I bring them back to the B&#038;amp;M stores. I also time my&#038;nbsp;orders so I make one trip with returns to various stores. Next week is the week for Spring orders &#038;amp; returns, yeah!
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				<title>Suz on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2014 12:18:58 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Raised hand (s). &#038;nbsp; :)&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Thanks for that word &#034;spare&#034; by the way, on the other thread. And the nice compliments. I think you are right -- it fits quite well. Disciplined is also good. Though in person I can be less than disciplined. Let's just say I have a history of procrastination on YLF. &#038;nbsp;;)&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>El Cee on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2014 11:57:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>El Cee</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh yes… Guilty as charged! But I will only do it when there are free returns as part of the deal.
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				<title>Glory on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2014 11:51:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Glory</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Too funny! Maybe not $3 but $5 for sure  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Gigi on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2014 06:36:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Gigi</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well, yes and no. If there are things that I legitimately might want, I will order the extra stuff to get the free shipping. I am very hard to fit, so I know that most of the stuff will go back. If I order a lot of things in the same package, I at least have a better likelihood that something will work.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Also, shipping is not usually $3! :^) For me, it doesn't make sense to spend $8 on shipping for&#038;nbsp;one item that will likely not fit. So I spend the minimum--waiting if necessary until I see enough stuff on the site that I want--to get the free shipping.
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				<title>Marley on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2014 06:29:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Marley</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hahaha!&#038;nbsp; Well, I can certainly relate to this!&#038;nbsp; Reminds me of the department store make-up counters too.&#038;nbsp; You know, the &#034;Gift with Gift&#034; promo?&#038;nbsp; Spend so much money - usually around $50. to $60. to earn&#038;nbsp;the&#038;nbsp;&#038;nbsp;&#060;i&#062;privilege&#060;/i&#062;&#060;i&#062; &#060;/i&#062;&#060;i&#062;&#060;/i&#062;of &#060;i&#062;buying&#060;/i&#062; another one of their products!&#038;nbsp; That's right - give them money so that you can give them &#060;i&#062;more&#060;/i&#062; money.&#038;nbsp; I used to fall for that one all of the time - but, not any more!&#038;nbsp; Finally figured out that even using &#034;girl math&#034; that&#038;nbsp;isn't really&#038;nbsp;much of a deal!&#038;nbsp;  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Alexandra on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2014 06:18:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Alexandra</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;No way. I only want what I want. You couldn't give me extra stuff for free, so I'm certainly not going to pay for it. Paying for shipping doesn't bother me. Clutter does.
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				<title>Gaylene on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2014 04:58:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Gaylene</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ouch! Which probably explains why my wardrobe is filled with T-shirts from the Sales areas?
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				<title>Liz A. on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2014 04:31:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Liz A.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yeah sure, but only if I can return some of the stuff afterwards.
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				<title>catgirl on "Who&#039;s guilty of this?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2014 04:23:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Just saying.  Is this off topic?
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