https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Sun, 10 May 2026 10:43:38 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-908726 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 22:47:04 +0000 vesperholly 908726@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ 1, 3, and the "Chevron" outfits are my favorites - you look fresh, modern and stylish... just like your hair! I have a poison eye for high-vamp athletic shoes, I've realized, so I find myself wanting to change your beige shoes to something with a low vamp - ballet pumps, an almond-toe flat, or something like Jack Purcells (or your Converse). This might just be my personal taste, however, and practical (and budgetary considerations) may also come into play. https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-908651 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 21:04:48 +0000 kellygirl 908651@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks, Parsley and Laura! You are both so nice.</p> <p>@Parsley: I found the white sweater at TJMaxx. It’s by Jeanne Pierre--a brand I’ve never heard of but I liked the v-neck and the mesh. The hem is vented and slightly high low so it seemed more trendy than a regular sweater. I love the coverage too. 100% cotton so hard to go wrong.&nbsp;</p> <p>@Laura: Yes, we’ve had a few “shorts” days but the last few have been windy and cool. I’m back in pants--chinos, to be exact I also think it’s a bit warmer down my way--out here in the boon docks!</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-908515 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 18:29:36 +0000 Laura (rhubarbgirl) 908515@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>First off, I can't believe you've been wearing shorts! I hope it's been less windy for you than me, because I've been freezing even though its supposedly in the 70s most days now.</p> <p>I agree with everyone else, there's something about the way you style these outfits that makes them great, even though most of the pieces are classic. and I really like the chinos - they are definitely coming back into style and they suit you to the ground. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-908514 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 18:24:44 +0000 Parsley 908514@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ You are so funny, Kelly! I've never, EVER seen you look frumpy!<br /><br />These outfits are no exception. You look casual, but stylish and fabulous in all of them.&nbsp;<br />I have a poison eye for chinos, but you carry them off well. I love the white sweater- what is it? It works well with all your bottoms.<br />You look great in sneakers, and ready for anything life sends your way.<br /><br />There's nothing wrong with casual when it's done like this.<br />You have great style! https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-908502 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 18:07:14 +0000 kellygirl 908502@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>A million thanks to all of you for making me feel less frumpy. Simple outfits and sensible shoes have been making me feel less than stellar. It seems a fine line between casual and frumpy. Thanks for embracing the gas station pants too. I was so hoping this looked current because I love them as a jean alternative. They are slouchy and comfy and have a great relaxed, tomboy vibe. I will be wearing them a lot this summer. &nbsp;</p> <p>@sarah: I’m glad I’m not alone. I have to say that your RR stripe chinos are exactly how I want to look in chinos--hip and fun. I’m loving the break from jeans and those chinos are so comfy. I just couldn’t tell if it looked current on me (part of it is my age and negative associations I have with chinos in general.) I agree with the wider belt too--I hardly have any that fit around that part of my abdomen. I spied an orange one at Gap that I am planning on ordering. I wish Gap listed the width but it looks wider than my yellow one.) Will try the pants with one more roll :)</p> <p>@Rose and Joan, Shannon, Ingunn, hedgiehog, Jenava, Thistle, Alicat, annaj, Joy, Makrame,&nbsp; : Thank you!</p> <p>@Peri: Thank you. Your question really resonated with me. I loved reading the responses. I’m glad that you posted it!</p> <p>@Jules and Firecracker: Thank you for pointing out the subtle on trend elements. I really hadn’t thought about them like that. I half tuck without thinking these days and Firecracker, you are absolutely right about the footwear. I only wear my running shoes to run--Lol!&nbsp;</p> <p>@Suz: Yes! You understand about casual dressing. I think it’s so hard to feel stylish when the outfits are so stylish and somewhat repetitive. Thanks for them mesh sweater love. I ended up getting this one before the Gap one came. Of course, with me and white, I will be keeping both. Not sure how long they will last before the next major spill/stain. &nbsp;</p> <p>@pil: Thank you! I agree about the footwear. It was a soccer weekend--uneven grass/dirt fields so the Cons were the best option. I figure I will never look any worse than this--any other shoe can only look better.&nbsp;</p> <p>@Sveta: Thank you. I’m sure I could if I tried :)&nbsp;</p> <p>@Mia: Thank you. I know, I saw Dickies somewhere recently too. I think they are kind of hip in the skater community.&nbsp;</p> <p>@Angie: Thank you! I’m so relieved. I’m glad you like the longer hair. I haven’t had it this length for awhile but am enjoying it. My hairdresser says the medium length shag is kind of in right now--certainly easy to style.&nbsp;</p> <p>@Shevia: Thank you! I think you are right about the chinos but I really wanted some non-jean pant options. I will keep these full length but change out the footwear to make them look more hip and less Chevron!</p> <p>@AJ: LOL! I know. In the picture it looks almost scandalous but it didn’t look that way IRL. DD’s would have given me major grief if they thought it was see through--well, at least I hope so. I will wear this with a cami from now on though, just to be safe! Thanks!</p> <p><br /></p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-908106 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 04:52:48 +0000 AJ 908106@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Well I was looking hard for this frumpiness that you speak of but the only thing I was able to notice is that the first outfit in the first picture needs a cami unless that's a bikini top you are sporting as you head to the pool.&nbsp; In that case, I would call that sassy.&nbsp; :)&nbsp; https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-908103 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 04:39:18 +0000 Firecracker (Sharan) 908103@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Oh, dear, no offense, but you don't know frump! <br />I know what you mean about feeling less stylish in some footwear--for you, it sounds like it's closed-toe footwear in general that make you feel a little off your style game. But these outfits are not frumpy looking. Your styling of the chino pants and shorts is current, because of the fit of the pants, the tops you've chosen, the way you wear them (faux semi tuck; rolls, cuffs, and slouch; flattering layered silhouettes; well chosen belts; and yes, the footwear. <br />The shoes in photos 1 and 3 in the first set and 1 in the second set are the most casual of them all, I think, but they look like street sneakers, not athletic shoes. That's a key point in my mind; it says that you deliberately put on a stylish pair of shoes to go with your casual outfit (as opposed to wearing the same shoes you work out in, because you really don't care about the outfit). <br /><br />These are all great looks. I really like the way you wear your "gas station pants"--ha! a funny reference--you've given them that cool tomboy/boyfriend vibe with the slouch at the ankle. And the oxfords with the clamdiggers and white sweater--I'd like to copy that one (if only I could)!<br /><br />You know what else prevents you from frumpness, even if you want to try for it? Your great hair style. It is so flattering and spunky, and it looks congruent with the freshness of your overall style. <br /><br />Hope this helps you feel brighter, as you await warmer days when the toes can come out.<br /> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-908099 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 04:02:11 +0000 Makrame 908099@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ These look great to me - no frump in sight! https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-908098 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 03:57:00 +0000 Anonymous 908098@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ No frumpiness in sight, just casual cuteness.&nbsp; https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-908031 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 01:59:40 +0000 Jaime 908031@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Excuse me, but are you kidding? You look terrific! Really. The white open weave sweater is smashing on you every which way, you look good in every length jeans/pants and your shoes are fab! As for the chinos, I like them but I think they would look good as bermudas too if DH's comment has tainted them for you. https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-908029 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 01:55:39 +0000 Angie 908029@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ No danger zone. And you bypassed&nbsp; Frumpville by miles and miles! Just even more casual - but still as neat and fabulous. LOVING the longer hair :)<br /> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-908023 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 01:48:25 +0000 Mia 908023@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ No frump in these photos. &nbsp;<br /><br />Too funny re the Dickies as I heard somewhere they are total hipster wear now and having a resurgence like so many brands these days that were passé for a while.<br /><br /><br /> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-907988 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 01:04:34 +0000 annaj 907988@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ No frumpiness in sight! You look great!! https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-907978 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 00:47:25 +0000 Anonymous 907978@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ No frump. &nbsp;You haz the cute!!! https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-907976 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 00:43:10 +0000 Thistle 907976@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You are waaaay to casual chic to ever be allowed in Frumpville! They'd stop you at the gates! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-907964 Mon, 15 Apr 2013 00:21:01 +0000 Sveta 907964@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Kelly, you could not look frumpy even if you tried on purpose! I always admired how you make casual outfits look good and these are no exception!<br />Like Suz I especially like the white open weave sweater on you.<br /> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-907886 Sun, 14 Apr 2013 22:07:59 +0000 pil 907886@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh Kelly, you are being silly - you could never be frumpy! If you went to Frumpville they would put you right back on the train to Awesometown : )</p> <p>Maybe try some different shoes with the chinos? I especially like them pushed up though. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-907885 Sun, 14 Apr 2013 22:05:10 +0000 Jenava 907885@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Cute and casual...but decidedly NOT frumpy! &nbsp;I LIKE the navy trousers and like how you've styled them as well. &nbsp;A nice alternative to denim. https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-907871 Sun, 14 Apr 2013 21:49:23 +0000 hedgiehog 907871@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>No frump factor at all! I really like your casual style and I think you look classic and cute. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-907864 Sun, 14 Apr 2013 21:36:02 +0000 Suz 907864@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ You don't look frumpy in the least. But I understand exactly what you are saying. How to stave off boredom (which tends to translate into feeling frumpy) when you are dressing casually day after day? Honestly, if I had the answer to this one, I'd be a billionaire.&nbsp;<br /><br />My faves here are 1, 5, 7, and 8/9. The chinos look good to me. And that white open weave sweater is a real winner on you!&nbsp; https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-907853 Sun, 14 Apr 2013 21:24:36 +0000 Ingunn 907853@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I would like to know where it is, too! No frump in sight as far as I can tell. The navy chinos are great on you https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-907839 Sun, 14 Apr 2013 21:13:00 +0000 Transcona Shannon 907839@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Where is this Frumpsville you speak of??? https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-907808 Sun, 14 Apr 2013 20:32:58 +0000 Jules 907808@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like the blue pants and the way you've styled them with subtle on trend elements and faux tuck, there is absolutely no mistaking them for frumpy (or gas station). </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-907807 Sun, 14 Apr 2013 20:32:47 +0000 Peri 907807@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ha...I'll answer! Although since I've already made it clear that I don't know anything, I hope others will as well. :)</p> <p>You are too cute to be frumpy. If this is frumpy I'm in serious you know what!</p> <p>Maybe the second outfit in the first set is not as good as the others. But the first two in the second set are great. I'd be quite happy to dress like that. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-907804 Sun, 14 Apr 2013 20:28:50 +0000 RoseandJoan 907804@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ Keep on driving baby, you don't belong in Frumpville!<br /><br />These are relaxed casual outfits which perfectly represent the here and now. https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-907803 Sun, 14 Apr 2013 20:28:29 +0000 sarah 907803@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ LOL, Kelly, you had me chuckling with the title - that's exactly how I feel lately. However, please do rest assured that you could never in a million years look frumpy. You look fabulously and stylishly casual, as always! I love your sneaker collection! (You've got to have the best darn collection of casual footwear). Everything looks great. OK, if I were splitting hairs, I might roll the white clams one more time and wear a wider belt with the navy chinos - do you think that would make the look more deliberate? https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/where-ive-been-frumpville#post-907796 Sun, 14 Apr 2013 20:22:08 +0000 kellygirl 907796@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ I've been busy and haven't had time to keep up on the forum and I'm afraid it is affecting my style. Peri posted about looking good vs. being in style and I'm hoping that I'm in the former camp since I'm definitely not in the latter. The weather has been a little cool for spring and I've needed closed toe footwear (so I haven't been able to use funky footwear to elevate an outfit.) In particular, I'm wondering whether my navy khaki pants are a disaster. DH says they remind him of the Dickie's he used to wear (as a teen)&nbsp;while pumping gas&nbsp;at the Chevron! I wear them anyway but am I heading into frumpville the way I styled them? They look immensely better pushed up with sandals but it was too cold in the am to do so. Please let me know if I am heading into dangerous territory.&nbsp;<br /><br />Thanks in advance!