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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: When life hands you lemons</title>
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				<title>tarzy on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-live-hands-you-lemons/page/2#post-1025165</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 09 Sep 2013 20:08:45 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I can only hope that I have a tenth of your positive attitude! I'm dealing with a stressful situation right now and this post was very inspirational. Thank you.
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				<title>rachylou on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-live-hands-you-lemons/page/2#post-1025055</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 09 Sep 2013 16:45:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Dang. Well, ahem, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Nice.
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				<title>Transcona Shannon on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 09 Sep 2013 13:44:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Transcona Shannon</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My apologies for not getting back to this thread until now. Thank you all sooooooo much for your support and words of encouragement. It means more than you know  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>velvetychocolate on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-live-hands-you-lemons/page/2#post-1023965</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 08 Sep 2013 00:35:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>velvetychocolate</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;This is &#060;i&#062;way too many lemons&#060;/i&#062;, but I have to say - you make the *best* lemonade!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Sorry to hear you're dealing with so much all at once like this, but it really does sound like you've totally taken the &#034;bull by the horns&#034; so to speak, and gotten a few things in place to help improve the situation a wee bit. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Despite the negative goings-on, I am curious about the 'sexy car' bit ...sorry, that just brought a big smile to my face and I'm glad there is something fun and nice going on in the midst of all the drama. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Meanwhile, I am thinking that the 'sexy car' might go very well with your future dreams of living in the city. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Hang in there Shannon, and as others have already said - you epitomize &#034;grace under fire&#034; in a way that is very inspiring. 
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				<title>Debra on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-live-hands-you-lemons/page/2#post-1023813</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 07 Sep 2013 19:32:02 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Debra</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wow.......that is one HUGE sack of lemons you were handed !!!&#060;br /&#062;
Most importantly ....... You handled it all...... your kitties are okay, you still have a house and a 'sexy' car and you have looked after your MIL :)&#060;br /&#062;
I hope she realizes how lucky she is. What have you learnt about yourself?&#060;br /&#062;
You are kind, resilient and strong :)&#060;br /&#062;
Buy a lotto ticket now  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>cobaltblue on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-live-hands-you-lemons/page/2#post-1023798</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 07 Sep 2013 19:12:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cobaltblue</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Shannon, I'm in awe of the manner in which you've faced each challenge head-on and conquered.  I hope the next few weeks bring some peace and relaxation!
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				<title>Nicole D on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-live-hands-you-lemons/page/2#post-1023446</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 07 Sep 2013 03:03:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Nicole D</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well done. &#038;nbsp;SOunds like you handled it all with courage and wisdom. &#038;nbsp;Looking forward to seeing your fabness again soon.
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				<title>pil on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 07 Sep 2013 00:15:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>pil</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Glad to hear you have wrestled things back under control. So much to contend with! Has Iain started university classes yet?
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				<title>Isabel on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 23:09:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Isabel</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh my ! &#038;nbsp;How utterly scary and disheartening. &#038;nbsp;I am glad that you are taking control and feeling good about it.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I look forward to your grand entrance.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Deborah on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 23:02:47 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Shannon, one of my favourite authors talks about the fact that who we really are is most obvious in times of trouble and challenge and clearly you have maintained grace and wisdom throughout displaying the Shannon we all know and love.  You have been in my thoughts and it will be good to have you back:)
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				<title>shedev on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-live-hands-you-lemons/page/2#post-1023211</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 22:02:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>shedev</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Way to take the bulls by the horns.
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				<title>MsMary on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-live-hands-you-lemons/page/2#post-1023021</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 18:26:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>MsMary</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Big hugs, Shannon!&#038;nbsp; You are Queen Grace Under Pressure for sure!
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				<title>goldenpig on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 16:52:01 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>goldenpig</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Geez! That's a lot of lemons and lemonade! Big hugs and I'm so glad things are looking up. Really glad you have a plan in place for MIL. How scary about the cigarette in bed! Yay for safe kitties and new car!
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				<title>Sara L. on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 16:46:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sara L.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wow, that's definitely a lot to happen all at once.&#038;nbsp; I'm glad to hear you have&#038;nbsp;a plan in place for your MIL.&#038;nbsp; My grandmother has Alzheimer's and the family recently found a home for her and it has been a big relief on everyone.&#038;nbsp; And thank goodness your kitties didn't escape!&#038;nbsp; A new car is always fun.
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				<title>Anonymous on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 15:27:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Attitude is everything. You're doing a great job of handling what life throws at you.
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				<title>texstyle on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 14:58:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>texstyle</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love that you guys took the bull by the horns so to speak and got these things settled!&#038;nbsp; Yay for you!&#038;nbsp; Look forward to seeing you here soon.
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				<title>Lantana on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 14:56:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lantana</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Missing your beautiful presence on the forum. Take care, Penny.
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				<title>Jaime on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-live-hands-you-lemons/page/2#post-1022722</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 14:27:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Shannon you are such a trooper! A wonderful example of why&#038;nbsp;attitude is the most important thing. You have dealt with a huge handful wonderfully and best of luck with everything and welcome back!
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				<title>Beth Ann on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-live-hands-you-lemons#post-1022715</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 14:18:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Beth Ann</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well, to quote another axiom, that's certainly taking the bull by the horns.&#038;nbsp; You should feel a great sense of accomplishment with all you managed to fit in last week.&#038;nbsp; Be kind to yourself, and stroke your kitties.
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				<title>ManidipaM on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 14:12:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ManidipaM</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Good grief, I am not only in awe of you, I am very grateful for the many soothing jugs of lemonade you ended up with. It could all have gone very very wrong there for a good bit.
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				<title>Jjsloane on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-live-hands-you-lemons#post-1022589</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 10:02:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jjsloane</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;High fives to you for taking charge of the situation. Well done and looking forward to seeing you back soon!
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				<title>RoseandJoan on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 09:14:41 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>RoseandJoan</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It is very therapeutic squeezing those lemons&#038;nbsp;but such&#038;nbsp;hard work too. I am so happy things are looking up.
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				<title>Anonymous on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 08:01:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Whoa! That is a shed load of lemons. Thank God you managed to work through it all and thank God nothing really dreadful happened to house, kitties, Mil&#038;nbsp; etc. Well done you for seeing it through to the other side. I've missed seeing you post Shannon. Your car sounds fab and we gotta see that driving outfit! Take care xo
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				<title>Ingunn on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 06:33:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ingunn</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Miss you, dear Shannon! You have killer surviving instincts, that is for sure. Enjoy your new car, you definitely deserve it!
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				<title>Caro in Oz on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 04:44:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Caro in Oz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Really miss your lovely smiling face. Wow you've both accomplished so much. Take care of each other  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>catgirl on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 04:43:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hugs,Shannon - I need to take a cue from you on how to make the best of whatever comes your way.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Lyn D. on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 04:41:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lyn D.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am glad your Kitties know they are onto a good thing living with you, and that everything has worked out O.K!
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				<title>Sveta on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 03:29:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sveta</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hugs Shannon, this sounds like A LOT! I am glad it all came together in the end.&#060;br /&#062;I hope you can have a success with mil and assisted living program. My dad is living in such a building and it has been great for him - much better than living with us!
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				<title>donnat on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 01:08:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>donnat</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Glad to hear you have made lemonade. I am thankful it turned out ok for you.  Mil is quite a handful. Hopefullly a space opens up for her sooner, rather than later. Glad kitties are safe.  I have missed your morning posts.  Thankyou for keeping us informed.
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				<title>Sona on "When life hands you lemons"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 06 Sep 2013 00:59:12 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;&#060;b&#062;TS: thinking of you!&#060;br /&#062;&#060;/b&#062;Our last week sounds eerily similar. DH's car broke down Sunday night when I was still in Napa, CA. we had&#038;nbsp; to completely redo ( clean, paint, change fixtures, clean carpets, notarize documents and the like) for our rental property as new renters were moving in. I developed&#038;nbsp; a severe case of sinusitis and continued to work despite I. My husband waffled on cares and we finally were able to buy a Subaru legacy ( same as mine) because MN winters do best in all wheel drive cars. Luckily we got a 0% down and 0% APR for 4 years. phew.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Sorry to have shared my sour lemonade too.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;MIL is like a ticking bomb waiting to go off it seems like in one way or another. I hope she decides on the assisted living option.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I was really thrilled to hear your decision about the sporty&#038;nbsp;car ( Woot! Woot!)&#038;nbsp;and how the two of you have worked on finances. Reading between the lines it seems like this episode brought the two of you closer per chance?
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