https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-is-oversized-too-big Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Mon, 04 May 2026 15:36:54 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-is-oversized-too-big#post-1401305 Sun, 23 Nov 2014 05:31:31 +0000 columbine(erin) 1401305@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The answer to the question of when it is too oversized is relative, I guess. It's too oversized when you don't feel fab in it even after using Angie's tips of structure. I'm sympathetic, because I really like the idea of an elegantly long, cozy cardigan, but haven't found one that looks right on petite me.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-is-oversized-too-big#post-1401249 Sun, 23 Nov 2014 03:14:35 +0000 Beth Ann 1401249@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Another vote for a bit of structure -- particularly in the shoulder area.&nbsp; I also think that scale and proportion matter.&nbsp; For a petite, mid thigh probably works. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-is-oversized-too-big#post-1401151 Sat, 22 Nov 2014 21:51:55 +0000 ironkurtin 1401151@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It's too big when the shoulder seams come down too far on your shoulders.&nbsp; Shoulder fit is the key to this look IMO. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-is-oversized-too-big#post-1401140 Sat, 22 Nov 2014 21:11:31 +0000 unfrumped 1401140@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Structure is good but also I would "think outside the box" for petite.<br />I think the truly long-cardi look is difficult for a real petite. Applying conventional proportion "style filters", of course.<br />Instead you might look for your version of the long cardigan, and it might be a regular size, not sold as "long" but still longer this year due to style shifts.And it might be longer than usual hip-length but leaner and not too BF-oversized.<br />Or, you might find sweaters with some pointed/asymmetrical hems give the "look" of the longer sweater, but less overwhelming. Also, look at Angie's forecast for spring, reining in volume with belting and tucking--something like that might work for you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-is-oversized-too-big#post-1401134 Sat, 22 Nov 2014 21:00:24 +0000 Erikajl 1401134@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Structure, hmm.&nbsp;&nbsp;Si I should look to find a topper that has a bit of structure to it. Maybe a cape instead of a long shapeless cardi would work better.&nbsp;</p> <p>Thanks all! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-is-oversized-too-big#post-1400693 Fri, 21 Nov 2014 21:20:51 +0000 crutcher 1400693@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think it is a matter of how you like it...You just know when the piece just overwhelms you...if that makes sense... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-is-oversized-too-big#post-1400670 Fri, 21 Nov 2014 20:45:30 +0000 Thistle 1400670@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>As Jeneva said, there has to be an element of structure to it.</p> <p>And, your pants have to stay up. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-is-oversized-too-big#post-1400667 Fri, 21 Nov 2014 20:41:50 +0000 Jenava 1400667@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think it's personal preference, but also making sure there is some element of what Angie refers to as "structure" in the outfit to balance the over-sized fit.&nbsp; This could be close-fitting sleeves or pants, or wait definition, for example.&nbsp; Even just exposing the ankle with baggy pants and tops can make a look less overwhelming. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-is-oversized-too-big#post-1400639 Fri, 21 Nov 2014 19:45:54 +0000 gryffin 1400639@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>erikajl - that's a great question and I don't pretend to know the answer.&nbsp; I think on the forum you'll see completely different tolerances to "oversized"&nbsp; I am 5'3" and a size 4 and I either wear tailored fitted clothes or oversized.&nbsp; I love huge tunic sweater which I am sure many would think overwhelm me.&nbsp; I do know that thinner drapier knits will give you a nice look but with less excessive volume.&nbsp; I would be the best answer would be when you feel great in the proportion you are wearing, but Angie and others may have more concrete guidelines.&nbsp; Petite sizes will also give you shorter lengths and less volume.&nbsp; I would look at Eileen Fisher - she is a master of flattering oversized drape - see if how they style the models appeals to your eye and then you might have something to compare yourself to for reference.&nbsp; Hope that helps!!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-is-oversized-too-big#post-1400636 Fri, 21 Nov 2014 19:30:01 +0000 Erikajl 1400636@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So, I'm loving these over sized cardigans, but when does oversize become just too big? I'm petite, and everything is already oversized on me. I tried on every long cardi in Nordstroms, and they all swam on me. What is the secret to having this look right and not like I your 10 years old wearing your mother's clothing. I really like the long cardi, top, leggings, and boots look. </p>