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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: When i feel fat...</title>
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				<title>VenusCow on "When i feel fat..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-i-feel-fat#post-1088065</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 17 Nov 2013 16:07:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>VenusCow</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Or you could just lose the weight, stop looking at fashion until you can get into it and feel comfortable, the upside you stop torturing yourself. Think short term pain for long term gain.
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				<title>krishnidoux on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 17 Nov 2013 11:44:03 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;The necklace is beautiful but the price... is this a joke? Why is it so high? Am I missing something?
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&#060;p&#062;Ha. Diamonds. Ok, get it.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Deborah on "When i feel fat..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-i-feel-fat#post-1087890</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 17 Nov 2013 11:25:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Deborah</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Late to the party and I support your comfort Jewellery purchases:). But I just wear waist surrendering tops and dresses when I feel fat lol
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				<title>froggiebecky on "When i feel fat..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-i-feel-fat#post-1087882</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 17 Nov 2013 09:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>froggiebecky</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Another vote for Wendy Brandes here. The F#$% rings would be good. Maybe you cold get second set to say &#034;FAT&#034; on the other hand. Make a statement about body image...  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>bj1111 on "When i feel fat..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-i-feel-fat#post-1086990</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 16 Nov 2013 06:20:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>bj1111</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;gigi...i think about how much i need to save to generate the equivalent income stream in the future. &#038;nbsp;sooo much better to curb shopping than how many hours i would have to work!
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				<title>Gigi on "When i feel fat..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-i-feel-fat#post-1086953</link>
				<pubDate>Sat, 16 Nov 2013 04:30:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Gigi</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like Park Mommy's rule of not shopping when distressed or sad...I know I have purchased things when &#034;under the influence&#034; in that way. My latest solution is to still shop online when I feel that way, but I leave the stuff in my cart and don't check out. A few days later, when I go back, I usually say, &#034;Gosh, why was I so sure that I needed this thing?&#034; It seems like if you can just get past the moment of crisis, you can save yourself some bucks. I also ask myself, Do you really want to spend [amount of money] on this, or is there something else you would rather have for that money? Usually the answer is that I would rather spend the money on something else. Or I may say to myself, OK, you really like this thing, but do you really think it's worth [amount of money]? Again, the answer is usually no. I also think about how many hours I have to work to pay for the thing--is the item worth my working X number of hours?&#038;nbsp;These are some of the ways I keep myself on track, because I'm all too aware of how weak I can be!
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				<title>deb on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 16 Nov 2013 01:31:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>deb</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Have you seen this site? I&#038;nbsp;ordered new stones for a very old ring from them and had them set by my jeweler.
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&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://www.africagems.com/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.africagems.com/&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>deb on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 16 Nov 2013 01:25:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>deb</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I&#038;nbsp;do things like this when I am depressed. lately I just go to the makup counter and have my face done. I may or may not purchase anything but I do feel better.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>annagybe on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 16 Nov 2013 01:04:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>annagybe</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love the ring!
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				<title>bj1111 on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 16 Nov 2013 00:59:46 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;anna, i've already spent my wad on accommodations in kruger. &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;but now that you've put the bug in my ear...here is how i would were animal pattern&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a rel=&#034;nofollow&#034; href=&#034;http://www.brownsjewellers.com/jewellery/earrings/gold/14ct-yellow-gold-tigers-eye-diamond-earrings/index.html&#034;&#062;http://www.brownsjewellers.com.....-earrings/&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a rel=&#034;nofollow&#034; href=&#034;http://www.brownsjewellers.com/jewellery/rings/gold/14ct-yellow-gold-tigers-eye-and-pave-set-diamond/index.html&#034;&#062;http://www.brownsjewellers.com.....et-diamond&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>annagybe on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 16 Nov 2013 00:49:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>annagybe</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I would save the $ and buy a piece of amazing jewelry in South Africa. I love vacation jewelry.&#060;br /&#062;
ETA and have it shipped back to the States, so it doesn't get stolen.
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				<title>bj1111 on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 16 Nov 2013 00:47:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>bj1111</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;anna, i am totally drooling over her borgia rings. &#038;nbsp;i want one for my pinky!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;citygirldc, sad but true...when i feel plump (thanks suz) i feel like eating more and more unhealthily.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;von, i an under orders form hubs to either buy the darned thing or just stop whining about it.
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				<title>annagybe on "When i feel fat..."</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/when-i-feel-fat#post-1086533</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 15 Nov 2013 20:54:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>annagybe</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think you need a piece from Wendy Brandes (of the infamous squirrel necklace).
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				<title>Sage on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 15 Nov 2013 19:35:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sage</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh, that is a beautiful necklace!&#060;br /&#062;
I'm sorry you're feeling down, and quite recognizing it. My solution in such times is often to spend too much time on the ylf forum, living vicariously through the WiWs and investments of other members.
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				<title>T on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 15 Nov 2013 19:12:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>T</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I buy make-up.. It always fits  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>citygirldc on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 15 Nov 2013 18:15:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>citygirldc</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I eat. or buy shoes or exercise (when I'm in the mood). &#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#038;nbsp;Sorry you're feeling bad. I'm right there with you especially in the cooler weather months. &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Anonymous on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 15 Nov 2013 18:11:58 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I hear you about the &#034;going broke&#034; - I have a new rule not to shop when sad, tired or my kids are with me (too distracting)!  The necklace is beautiful though.
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				<title>Von on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 15 Nov 2013 18:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Von</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So, did you get the necklace, or did you back slowly away from Ross Simons? LOL&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Echo on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2013 22:52:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Echo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My preference is generally to buy shoes, bags and jewelry anyway. I can more easily delude myself that they are &#034;investment pieces&#034; and that the CPW will be lower (even though I have a million shoes and the CPW on most of them is very high). But I can't argue with jewelry, so I can't talk you off the ledge here, I'm afraid.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>bj1111 on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2013 22:02:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>bj1111</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;i might need an intervention, von.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;amy k, indie designers would be welcome. &#038;nbsp;always on the look out for talent.
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				<title>minimalist on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2013 19:10:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>minimalist</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I get a massage. If someone else can feel my fat and get through it, so can I.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;That's a nice necklace. If you're feeling that fat, would you like links to independent designers?
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				<title>Von on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2013 19:05:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Von</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I buy bags and makeup so I can totally understand. Do you want (need) an intervention?&#038;nbsp; If so, I won't go on about how nice the necklace is, and I'll pull out something from &#034;the intervention files&#034; instead :). 
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				<title>Suz on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2013 18:32:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sorry you are feeling plump....the necklace is beautiful....&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>pil on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2013 17:39:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>pil</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Or a new bag.
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				<title>Beth Ann on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2013 17:32:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Beth Ann</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;or lipstick.&#038;nbsp; It's cheaper and it doesn't tangle or tarnish.&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>bj1111 on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2013 17:26:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>bj1111</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yes!  How could i forget shoes!  Although my feet gain and lose weight too...but out of sync with my belly.
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				<title>Mo on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2013 17:24:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Or shoes. &#038;nbsp;
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				<title>bj1111 on "When i feel fat..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 14 Nov 2013 17:24:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>bj1111</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;...i buy jewelry.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I must lose weight, have an attitude adjustment or go broke.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;This is in my cart...sigh.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://www.ross-simons.com/products/811376.html?cc=&#038;#038;curr=&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.ross-simons.com/pro.....#038;curr=&#060;/a&#062;
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