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				<title>greenglove on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 21 Apr 2014 22:26:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>greenglove</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like the contrast, I think the look is better with the shinier studs. &#060;br /&#062;Somehow a duller stud would not work for that many studs.&#060;br /&#062;Also your style is less distressed these days (I think), I would need a duller stud but you can wear high contrast.
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				<title>Echo on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 02:26:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Echo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I would bet that the original pair and the new pair are the same, and that the original pair just tarnished. The black seams look the same to me; the new pair just seem shinier. I still kind of like them, though!
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				<title>sarah on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 02:20:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>sarah</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;&#060;a rel=&#034;nofollow&#034; href=&#034;http://www.ebay.com/gds/How-to-Antique-oxidize-metals-a-cautionary-tale-/10000000011306910/g.html&#034;&#062;http://www.ebay.com/gds/How-to.....910/g.html&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a rel=&#034;nofollow&#034; href=&#034;http://www.squidoo.com/oxidizecopperbrass&#034;&#062;http://www.squidoo.com/oxidizecopperbrass&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>sarah on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 02:14:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>sarah</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Janet, when I was in highschool, I took several semesters of jewelry making, and we actually used an oxidizer to darken jewelry. For example, when you look at silver jewelry from the Southwest, you'll notice all the black in the creases, etc? That's because the silver has been oxidized, and then wiped off, leaving some of the oxidizer in the creases. I would think&#038;nbsp;that once you know what the metal is, you'll be able to locate an oxidizer.&#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>Janet on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 02:11:02 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hmm. Off to boil some eggs. How timely -- if only I had some dye for Easter eggs!
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				<title>ironkurtin on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 02:06:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ironkurtin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm so glad RP mentioned this! I seem to recall when I did it with rings it only needed overnight.  Good luck!
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				<title>rebekahphoto on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 02:01:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rebekahphoto</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;ha! I think a day or 2, I have not done it myself! but I think it depends on the metal/surface treatment...hopefully not too long!
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				<title>Janet on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 01:49:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hmm. I wonder how long egg yolks need to hang out with the boots in order for that technique to work. Long enough to start smelling?  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>Janet on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 01:48:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh, interesting, Rebekahphoto! Great tips, thanks. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I'm glad to see these getting some love, even in the shiny blingy version.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>rebekahphoto on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 01:45:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rebekahphoto</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I really like the metal armor like quality of them! But I do know about wanting to dull down the shine, as I have done that on items before. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Depending on the metal composition, if it has some copper to it you could use some liver of sulfur, which is used in jewelry making to add tarnish. &#060;br /&#062;Fine steel wool would remove any shine also.&#060;br /&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://www.fusionbeads.com/Liver-of-Sulfur-Q-and-A&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.fusionbeads.com/Liver-of-Sulfur-Q-and-A&#060;/a&#062;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;An old-fashioned technique is to place freshly cooked hard boiled egg yolks in a sealed container with your metal, the sulfur gasses will tarnish the metal.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I have also used gun bluing to add tarnish to metal pieces. &#060;/p&#062;
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				<title>rae on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 01:44:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rae</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well I love them in their newer incarnation! This from someone with her own pair of blingy boots, mind you. And you want to wear them anyway... I vote to wear under bootcuts and flares for now and enjoy watching the oxidation process make them even more gorgeous over time.
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				<title>Parsley on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 01:39:15 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Parsley</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You know, Janet, even though they look different they're still fabulous!&#060;br /&#062;I imagine that with time they'll develop the patina of the original ones, and only get better and better.
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				<title>Janet on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 01:34:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Here's an interesting thing. I just realized I want to wear them anyway. I would actually like to wear them tomorrow with bootcut jeans. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;IK, I definitely saw the armor/scale thing too! Which is not the impression the first pair gave, and I'm not sure that armor is my preferred vibe, but if only a small bit is visible (I.e. with bootcuts), at least while I break them in and develop some patina on them, they do feel true to my style.
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				<title>annagybe on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 01:27:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>annagybe</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like 'em. They remind me of my Laurence Dacades.
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				<title>ironkurtin on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 01:23:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ironkurtin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;You know, if I hadn't seen the first pics my blingy little heart would be breaking over the glittery ones.  They are like fabulous armor or scales with all that studding.  I think they are amazing, even if ultimately they aren't what you imagined.
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				<title>Janet on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 01:17:59 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Here's a wrinkle to the situation -- the receipt says returns within 7 days! I imagine they might be a little flexible with me on that since I did wait months for these (I ordered via phone, and I have been in contact with the same person the whole time), but it looks like I'll have to decide soon.
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				<title>Suz on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 01:12:11 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I remember those boots! I completely agree that the new ones are not the same at all. I think if it were me, I'd send them back because it's not as if you are lacking for great boots, and it's questionable whether these will ever be the ones you dreamed of.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>JAileen on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2014 21:42:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>JAileen</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Someone here took a sharpie to metal jacket buttons. I don't know if you would want to do that. That's a lot of studs!
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				<title>CocoLion on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2014 19:28:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>CocoLion</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;No metals expert here but if you have grey jeans they would look good with these, while you wait for the studs to change color and the leather to wear as well.
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				<title>rachylou on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2014 18:59:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree about the shine...
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				<title>Janet on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2014 18:58:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Yeah, the thing is, they fit and feel good, and I'm pretty sure they will eventually look like the other ones I tried on. It's just a question of what it will take to get them to that point. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Figures that the queen of photographing rust would not want her metal too shiny!  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-biggrin icon-emoticon-biggrin "></span> 
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				<title>cciele on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2014 18:48:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>cciele</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I do hope they darken naturally -- those are some awesome boots.
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				<title>Ginkgo on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2014 18:41:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ginkgo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Janet, I like your idea of wearing them around the Texas ranch for a week -- nothing like authenticity.
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				<title>Janet on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2014 18:37:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well, I sent a message to the manufacturer -- we'll see what they say!
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				<title>MuseumGal on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2014 18:12:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>MuseumGal</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think the boots are awesome and as soon as you take them out for a spin, they studs will dull - walk down a dusty dirt road, or sweep out your garage to hasten the process.
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				<title>Janet on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2014 17:38:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thank you, everyone! Especially you, Dana. That's really helpful.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I don't know if my shoe guy would be any help. He is usually pretty reluctant to take on anything he doesn't do regularly.&#038;nbsp;&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Perhaps contacting Old Gringo would be the best course of action, to find out if they can help me identify the metal and offer any suggestions.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Greyscale on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2014 16:36:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Greyscale</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I definitely see what you mean. Such a disappointment when you have the perfect thing in mind... I hope you can find a way to dull them faster. If nothing else, the manufacturer might know if they dull quickly on their own&#038;nbsp;(the ones you tried on might just have been out of the box longer).
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				<title>Gigi on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2014 16:33:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Gigi</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I would call a jeweler and see if they have any ideas. They are very in the know about all kinds of metals.
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				<title>ironkurtin on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2014 16:28:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ironkurtin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ok, per the boy,  who is a materials expert, you do not want to use any sort of vinegar wash.  Acids will hurt the leather.  Using solid black shoe polish will just mound up gunk around the studs, and liquid polish will rub off.  Depending on what the metal is, it will likely oxidize and scuff over time.  He advises you call the manufacturer if the metal content isn't listed and find out what it is.  They may also be able to help.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Also, and this is just me, have you asked your shoe guy?
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				<title>Diana on "When a long anticipated item is different from what you expected..."</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2014 16:11:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hm, I wonder if just going over the whole thing with black shoe polish might dull the studs a little bit?&#038;nbsp; It shouldn't do anything to the leather since it's already black, and you could always wipe it off if it doesn't work... 
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