https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Wed, 22 Apr 2026 12:37:59 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-202376 Wed, 18 Aug 2010 14:14:20 +0000 Sparky 202376@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Coming very late to this thread, but I would have guessed have fun and make it your own! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-202367 Wed, 18 Aug 2010 13:53:58 +0000 Barbara 202367@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Angie, that's an easy one. HAVE FUN WITH FASHION! That's my mantra. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-202319 Wed, 18 Aug 2010 05:44:28 +0000 Scarlet 202319@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You guys are silly :)</p> <p>I like this rule. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-202154 Wed, 18 Aug 2010 00:50:30 +0000 Angie 202154@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Vani, I believe you!</p> <p>Julie, what you wrote on Scarlet-Rosie's thread was duly noted. I saw it </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201936 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 18:17:35 +0000 RoseandJoan 201936@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oooo, I'm not a sore loser BUT I did put having fun with style on Scarlet's thread. I can be such a Monica at times. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201900 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 17:21:50 +0000 RandomThoughts (Andrea) 201900@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Love it Angie! Those psych terms speak to me!:) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201863 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 16:30:58 +0000 Vani 201863@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It's going to sound pretentious now to say, that's what I was going to say but that is what I was going to say! Have fun with fashion. Also what Sihaya said "Respect" - for yourself and for one another. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201860 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 16:22:04 +0000 AJ 201860@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oohhhh yay! I agree. There's so many fab textures, colors, prints, and new siilhouettes to explore, smirk at and embrace. Wear your fashion with a passion y'all! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201856 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 16:16:15 +0000 Jenava 201856@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>that's close to what I was going to say...I was going to guess "keep experimenting" </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201832 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 15:33:30 +0000 Lisa 201832@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Aha! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201830 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 15:29:45 +0000 Angie 201830@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So many fabulous thoughts and I thank you for your brains. I love each and every "rule" that has been mentioned. </p> <p>YLF's most important rule is to have fun with fashion. Don't ever stop having fun at any age. I obviously take fashion and style seriously, and so do most of you. But at the end of the day - it has to stay a fun and enjoyable process. THATS what keeps us going. THATS what makes it appear effortless. THATS the positive intermittent reinforcement (sorry - Psyche major here). Life is stressful enough. Keep this aspect of it fun and you'll always have a bright spot in your day. That's the main reason we created YLF. It's a place for people to learn to have fun with how they dress. </p> <p>It's a given that everyone is respectful, supportive and kind. So that's not a rule because it's in your hearts anyway :0)</p> <p>Well done Kim and Kate!!! You were in my head. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201776 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 14:22:47 +0000 Becky 201776@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hmmm. No one has mentioned anything about having an annual bra-fitting and a perfectly fitting bra yet. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201757 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 13:48:56 +0000 Mae 201757@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Ok, if we're talking absolute, then I'm switching to team "Support thy fellow woman/man in the quest toward trying something new, style-wise". </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201751 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 13:38:10 +0000 Sihaya 201751@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Respect if it's the one absolute rule. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201747 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 13:29:17 +0000 Lisa 201747@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hmm lots of interesting answers. My first YLF rule for clothing was learning about PPL. But I don't think this forum would function as nice as it does without the rule to be respectful and kind to others. Even when you don't favor or agree with another person's opinion, it is best to say nothing at all if you have nothing nice to say. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201735 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 12:25:56 +0000 Mamapicklejuice 201735@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>OOoh, ppl is tempting, but I'm sticking with "keep an open mind." Angie get positively verklempt when someone adapts a new-to-them look or admires a fashion outside their comfort zone. :)</p> <p>So...which is it??? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201732 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 12:15:25 +0000 FiestyWife 201732@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>PPL is the first "rule" that I learned one I embraced YLF. Everything else seems to be "learn then adapt" and add your own style. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201721 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 09:37:12 +0000 Theresa 201721@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Angie how long do we have to wait to find out if anyone has mentioned it? I'm not good with this patiently waiting thing and you have me really curious!</p> <p>My first instinct was PPL, but then I thought more along the lines of Julie &amp; Stringy - the whole "look fab feel fabulous" motto - not turning fashion into a chore, being true to oneself but still having fun etc... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201715 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 07:53:06 +0000 Iris 201715@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Be kind to others, through style.</p> <p>(Everyone else already said "Have fun" or "PPL," so I had to make up a slogan..) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201710 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 07:10:29 +0000 stringy 201710@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm with RoseandJoan - YLFs top rule would be something broadly supportive, backed up by specific details like PPL and top length and polish and so on.</p> <p>So something along the lines of dressing for your current figure and lifestyle, in order to look fabulous as you live your life... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201701 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 06:25:03 +0000 RandomThoughts (Andrea) 201701@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>VPL I know! It's one of my pet peeves! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201678 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 05:52:15 +0000 RoseandJoan 201678@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think YLF top rule would be supportive so I'm going with 'dress the body and for the lifestyle you have now because you are FABULOUS' </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201667 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 05:43:09 +0000 MNsara 201667@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think PPL violations are Angie-felonies. Something like top length with skirts, or two voluminous items in the same outfit, would be a misdemeanor </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201662 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 05:39:07 +0000 bj1111 201662@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>rt,</p> <p>i think vpl is visible panty line...a ylf don't. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201648 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 04:57:25 +0000 AJ 201648@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Violating PPL was my first misdemeanor (or is it a felony?) here. I have been a law abiding member since then. : ) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201644 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 04:49:03 +0000 Angie 201644@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Not quite, Kate. There is *absolutely* one most important YLF rule that hopefully Maya won't even want to break. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule/page/2#post-201639 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 04:38:05 +0000 Kate 201639@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Angie, does that mean there is no one most important rule and you just wanted us to start brainstorming for the manifesto? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule#post-201633 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 04:18:23 +0000 sinead 201633@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I would vote PPL for style and kind, constructive criticism on the forum. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule#post-201630 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 04:15:13 +0000 RandomThoughts (Andrea) 201630@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks Michelle! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/whats-ylfs-most-important-rule#post-201628 Tue, 17 Aug 2010 04:12:46 +0000 Angie 201628@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>And the YLF manifesto is clearly on it's way....</p> <p>Fabulous rules! </p>