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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: What word are you going for?</title>
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				<title>Jewell on "What word are you going for?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-word-are-you-going-for/page/2#post-838237</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 03 Feb 2013 19:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jewell</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My first thought was elegant, but that feels somewhat out of reach like chic. So I think I'll go with polished.
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				<title>Sveta on "What word are you going for?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-word-are-you-going-for/page/2#post-838147</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 03 Feb 2013 16:56:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sveta</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;If it can be one word only I think I will go with 'strong'...
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				<title>Atlantia on "What word are you going for?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-word-are-you-going-for/page/2#post-838138</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 03 Feb 2013 16:42:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Atlantia</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Natty.&#060;br /&#062;
Yeah, I went there....on the never ending quest to bring &#034;natty&#034; back.
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				<title>stitchywitch on "What word are you going for?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-word-are-you-going-for/page/2#post-838133</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 03 Feb 2013 16:34:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>stitchywitch</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Elegant
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				<title>Angie on "What word are you going for?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-word-are-you-going-for/page/2#post-838132</link>
				<pubDate>Sun, 03 Feb 2013 16:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Elisabeth, you do make me chuckle. Thanks for the smiles :)&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Have a look at Ornella's thread - it's an offshoot of your thread: &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;a href=&#034;http://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/ask-angie-and-everyone-modern-vs-trendy-and-cool---the-difference&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://youlookfab.com/welookfa.....difference&#060;/a&#062;
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				<title>Aziraphale on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 03 Feb 2013 16:12:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aziraphale</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Trust Vildy to come up with something outside the box.   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>   Some days, I like &#034;windblown&#034; too!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Angie -- &#034;modern&#034;?  Of course.  Why did I not predict you would say that.  You are absolutely modern.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Sara L. -- &#034;effortless&#034; -- I like it!  I think it goes hand in hand with &#034;cool&#034;.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Rachy -- to me, &#034;cool&#034; always has dark undercurrents, when the word is applied to a person's style.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;RoseandJoan -- I think &#034;fluid&#034; is a good word for your overall style, and not just because of the way your clothes drape.   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Ornella on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 03 Feb 2013 14:51:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ornella</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Mine is - lady. I want my outfits to reflect first and foremost that I am a woman, but without ever crossing the boundaries of bad taste in any aspect.
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				<title>Vildy on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 03 Feb 2013 14:02:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Vildy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Today, &#034;windblown&#034; appeals to me.  I've been liking my hair so that the longer bottom layers look blown forward from the back. And I like to wear ladylike, polished, traditional clothing that's worn carelessly, tossed on, disheveled.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  (vs. distressed clothing added to polished outfits)  I feel dynamic so like the idea of having the wind at my back speeding me on.
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				<title>cheryl on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2013 15:13:04 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Unique! or fun or cute  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Lyn D. on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2013 08:42:42 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lyn D.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;'Stylish'
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				<title>Ariadne on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2013 07:38:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Ariadne</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Interesting.
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				<title>RoseandJoan on "What word are you going for?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-word-are-you-going-for/page/2#post-835080</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 21:34:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>RoseandJoan</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Fluid, although I'm quite gentle I'm nearly always in motion and love my clothes to be soft and move and drape with me.
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				<title>Angie on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 20:28:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Modern.
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				<title>rachylou on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 20:25:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>rachylou</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Cool&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#060;em&#062;But&#060;/em&#062; what I expect people to say is &#034;cute&#034; &#060;em&#062;meaning&#060;/em&#062; &#034;cool.&#034; And when I say cool, I don't mean the &#034;neato&#034; type. I mean the other kind with dark undercurrents. Lol.
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				<title>Sara L. on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 20:13:00 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;This is a tough question - how about &#034;effortless&#034; as in &#034;I just threw this together but don't I look great?&#034;  or maybe &#034;sleek&#034; since I don't like overdone outfits.  I'm not saying I always end up looking like this, but it's what I'm going for.
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				<title>texstyle on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 19:38:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>texstyle</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think I just want to look GOOD.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Aziraphale on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 17:33:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aziraphale</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;&#034;Honest&#034;, &#034;authentic&#034; and &#034;myself&#034; -- those all mean the same thing, I think.  Nice one!  Another popular descriptor.  I don't feel like I need it on my list, though, because I do dress like myself -- I can't really dress any other way.  (Although I did try it once -- dressing like someone else, I mean -- at the beginning of my teaching career, just so I wouldn't look like a student. I tried to dress older, and more business-like.  It felt awkward).  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Mona -- absolutely, I think you could describe a person's style as &#034;confident&#034;.  I wouldn't mind having that one as a descriptor, either.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;kkards -- you could hyphenate it.  &#034;Put-together&#034;?  I bet you could get away with that.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Amy -- I like distinctive, too.  Gee, there are a lot of words that I want to appropriate.   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Amy on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 17:23:06 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;distinctive
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				<title>kkards on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 17:23:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>kkards</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;i want to say put together, but thats 2 words. so i guess polished.
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				<title>catgirl on "What word are you going for?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-word-are-you-going-for/page/2#post-834685</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 17:11:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;At the moment I am going for authentic - I really want to wear only what feels like ME.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;(&#034;Unconventional&#034; was a close second.)
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				<title>milehighstyle (Linda) on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 16:45:56 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>milehighstyle (Linda)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;It's so hard to pick just one word - polished, I guess.
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				<title>Mona on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 16:45:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mona</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think i would go with &#034;confident&#034;. Can we even describe a style as being confident?
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				<title>Kristin L on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 16:40:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kristin L</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That's challenging. I think I'll have to pick &#034;honest&#034; as in I'm not trying to dress or act in way that isn't me.
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				<title>MsMary on "What word are you going for?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-word-are-you-going-for/page/2#post-834617</link>
				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 16:32:46 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;At work I'm going for &#034;powerful.&#034;  In real life I think I'm Team Going For Chic.
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				<title>Diana on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 16:30:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My word is &#034;Interesting&#034;.  I have a deep seated fear of being boring.
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				<title>Anonymous on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 16:24:09 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;@Mo- I like on the fringe.  Can I join you there?
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				<title>Aziraphale on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 16:22:26 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aziraphale</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Oh, and I mean &#034;old enough&#034; in the good sense, not in the haggard sense.   <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span>   (I'm quite enjoying being forty).
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				<title>Anonymous on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 16:21:19 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I was said to be cute all my life and in my 20s I wanted to be Dramatic.  Now I want to be cute again, not long ago I cried to my husband &#034;I'm old, I'm not cute any more&#034;.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I don't want to be sweet, or girly but I do want cute.
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				<title>ironkurtin on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 16:20:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ironkurtin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love spiffy.  I also like dapper, elegant, and refined.
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				<title>Aziraphale on "What word are you going for?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2013 16:20:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aziraphale</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I thought about it some more....but I'm still going with &#034;tasteful&#034;.  Perhaps &#034;chic&#034; implies tasteful, as well as other qualities such as looking current, effortless, and attractive, and that's why so many of us have chosen that word.  The word itself is a bit hard to define, but I think most anybody would be happy with being labeled &#034;chic&#034;!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;But still, I'm going to use &#034;tasteful&#034;, because that has become an overriding (and more specific) theme when it comes to my style goals these days.  Five years ago, if I'd thought of this question, my answer would probably have been &#034;cool&#034;.  Cool is still high on my list.  Even now, I'd rather be called cool than chic.  Both imply effortless style, but cool also suggests an attitude to life that l like.  A deeply ingrained sort of confidence.  But it IS possible to look cool and be a little lacking in good taste (punk comes to mind -- it looks awesome, but since it's all about flicking the &#034;V&#034; to authority, it's hardly tasteful), and at the moment, good taste trumps everything for me.  I'm old enough to want to be chic and dignified, not cute and funky.
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