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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations</title>
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				<title>Zaeobi on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 26 Sep 2021 02:41:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Zaeobi</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Congratulations on the opportunity, Janet - what lovely *wildlife photography*, too  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-biggrin icon-emoticon-biggrin "></span>  (yes, I'm also inclined to agree it very much counts in that category!) &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I'm glad you went with something that felt like 'you' (artsy) but was also practical for the event (trousers). At the end of the day, the outfits that make us the happiest are usually the ones that honour both ourselves &#038;amp; the space that we will be occupying - you went with your gut that being OTT but impractical would make you feel miserable on the day, yet so would looking like corporate staff  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>kkards on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 25 Sep 2021 13:49:18 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>kkards</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;FAB!&#060;br /&#062;Hits all the right notes, pulled together and polished but not corporate.
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				<title>bridgie on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 25 Sep 2021 05:22:04 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Such an honor Janet.&#038;nbsp; Outstanding all around.&#038;nbsp; Congratulations.!
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				<title>Brooklyn on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 25 Sep 2021 04:48:09 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Brooklyn</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I am late to this but I’m glad it went well. Great outfit and great work!
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				<title>N on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 25 Sep 2021 04:34:40 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>N</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love love love the photo and your outfit. You have such effortless style. Unrelated note but I really loved the silver Stella trainers on you from your shopping trip post. I didn't so much care for them on the stock photos but with you modelling them, I am now very envious. I have silver Elyse sandals but not a silver trainer...maybe I need them *laugh*
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				<title>Eliza on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 25 Sep 2021 02:14:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Eliza</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Well played! The look was you and brilliant, as it could have gone with almost any event atmosphere.&#060;br /&#062;
You know I love those birds! Congratulations.
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				<title>Sal on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2021 22:18:05 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sal</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Perfect choice- and a glorious photo!!
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				<title>Katerina on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2021 21:03:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Katerina</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Fantastic outfit, perfection! Love everything about it. The top works soo well with the blazer and jeans. Boots are great here too. You look stunning gorgeous and cool at the same time. Congratulations again and glad the event was a such a success!
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				<title>Angie on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2021 17:29:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;KILLER GORGEOUS! A fantastic look, and very pleased you had a great night and response. Exquisite work  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Suz on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2021 17:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I'm super late, but &#060;b&#062;Janet,&#060;/b&#062; you looked spectacular! Perfect outfit. &#060;b&#062;LOVE&#060;/b&#062; your photo. Congratulations on being chosen, and on this honour!&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Tanya on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2021 14:30:52 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Tanya</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love your final outfit - such as stunning blazer, and the booties complement it very well.&#038;nbsp; Glad to hear the event was a success!
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				<title>Murph11 on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2021 13:40:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Murph11</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Stunning all around!
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				<title>CarolS on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2021 13:29:20 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>CarolS</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Great choice! I can see why you love the pattern on that top, and it works sooo well with the blazer and jeans. I'm glad to hear the show went well. The new ring is such a great way to add an extra bit of 'arty' vibe.
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				<title>Anonymous on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2021 13:24:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Looks great and glad it went well  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  Love the print on the top!
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				<title>Janet on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2021 13:22:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks, everybody! I grabbed some quick photos on my way out yesterday. I dressed rather quickly and relied on gut instinct and mood to pull this together, and I felt occasion appropriate and comfortable all evening! &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I wore my AG Angel very dark wash bootcut jeans, the Z&#038;amp;V blazer, and an old sleeveless top from Vince Camino that only gets worn a couple times a year, but I love the print so much that I don’t mind. It’s a bit long and tunic-y, not my best length, but it works either under a topper or with a very tonal, low contrast bottom such as these jeans. Finished it off with my old but still beloved Modern Vice blue stingray booties (low heel and well proven for comfort for years so they were good for the four hours of being on my feet), silver Kate Hewko ring, and dangly silver leaf earrings from Mexico. Not pictured is my silver Milly tote, which I often use when I’ll be carrying extra stuff. And my mask, of course. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;The event was a lot of fun and I got great response to my work, as well as lots of compliments on the blazer, and the ring got noticed too!
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				<title>Barbara Diane on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2021 21:50:51 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Barbara Diane</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Janet, having seen your amazing and stunning wildlife photography (on your website) I only disagree with your self description as not a wildlife photographer. :)&#060;br /&#062;
Congrats on earning your spot in this show.&#060;br /&#062;
I also thought you should wear some of your memorable jewelry.
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				<title>Star (Lise) on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2021 08:46:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Star (Lise)</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Incredible photo!&#038;nbsp; The blazer is a wise choice as you know you feel totally fab in it.
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				<title>DonnaF on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2021 06:23:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>DonnaF</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wear what feels right to you, but I’m always partial to your iridescent vest. Memorable.
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				<title>rebekahphoto on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2021 02:43:00 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;congrats!! thats fantastic and sounds like a great opportunity to show your work! I know the challenge so well, as the fancy events I typically attend are gallery shows. you want to look cool, but professional....I would stay funky and creative! Even the corporate buyers expect artist to be, well, artsy! and true to your edgy style. I would not expect to see you in a too simple lbd, or bright, funky colors...&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;&#038;nbsp;you always look polished, and I agree pants/jeans with your Z&#038;amp;V cool jacket will give a great style and edge, and the IG post link is smart business....people will notice....comfy shoes are a must!!!! &#060;br /&#062;I remember years ago wearing some gorgeous Italian, classic knee high leather boots with 4&#034; heels to a gallery walk...(in my 20s when I would still wear heels) and by the end of the night I almost had to walk barefoot my feet hurt so much.....
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				<title>Jaime on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2021 01:40:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jaime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;What a stunning photo and no wonder you were honored! And congratulations! Definitely would go with an I am an artist look rather than something conservative. I imagine the corporate people would be disappointed otherwise - don't they all secretly dream of being the artist  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  ? The Z&#038;amp;V blazer sounds good. &#060;br /&#062;And Lesley I love your parenting/life advice.
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				<title>Janet on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2021 01:31:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Thanks so much, everybody! &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I’m leaning towards the Z&#038;amp;V blazer with pants of some sort — I will be doing a fair bit of carrying and moving stuff around, and pants will be easier for those tasks. But I think hubs and I need to schedule a date night so I can debut that skirt!  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-biggrin icon-emoticon-biggrin "></span> 
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				<title>Windchime on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2021 00:44:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Windchime</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I couldn’t have said it better than Carol—wear what makes you feel most confident for the event. Fabulous photo!
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				<title>CarolS on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2021 00:32:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>CarolS</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Beautiful shot! I don't have much new to add, but will chime in with those who are encouraging you to wear something that makes you feel beautiful and strong and confident -- whatever that may be on the day of.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Sal on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 23 Sep 2021 00:17:27 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Sal</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Stunning photo and either look would be fantastic - go in what you feel on the day....
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				<title>Momo on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 22 Sep 2021 22:39:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Momo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Beautiful picture !&#060;br /&#062;I want to see the cool blazer with the tulle skirt  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Vildy on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 22 Sep 2021 22:37:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Vildy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Love all your photography that I've seen and this atypical one made me smile.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Go as an artist - it has a mystique.
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				<title>citygirldc on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 22 Sep 2021 22:15:43 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Janet - When else are you ever going to get funky enough except when going to an art event that you you've been recognized for. Where something that makes you FEEL FAB!!&#038;nbsp; Yes DC is conservative, but I always notice those that stand out.
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				<title>rachylou on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 22 Sep 2021 21:27:03 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That is an AMAZING shot!!
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				<title>Katerina on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 22 Sep 2021 21:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Katerina</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Janet, congratulations! And what a fantastic photo!&#060;br /&#062;I will be of no help here - I think both the tulle skirt idea and the Z&#038;amp;V blazer idea are really good. Personally, I would choose the Z&#038;amp;V, but it is only because I love blazers and this one is so amazing and so great on you.&#038;nbsp;
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				<title>Tanya on "What to wear when you’re not sure of expectations"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-when-you%e2%80%99re-not-sure-of-expectations#post-2226238</link>
				<pubDate>Wed, 22 Sep 2021 20:36:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Tanya</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wow, that is one of the most impressive photos I have seen lately.
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