https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Thu, 09 Apr 2026 03:27:15 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices/page/2#post-2321710 Mon, 08 May 2023 01:32:34 +0000 Carla 2321710@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>:-)</p> <p><b></b> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices/page/2#post-2321708 Mon, 08 May 2023 01:08:53 +0000 LJP 2321708@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>How do you remember this stuff Carla ? I’m quite amazed ! I returned the green dress and passed on the hot pink sandals some time ago . They never go worn . The black fake suede mules also hit the donate bag a week ago - they were past their prime . That would have made a cool outfit though ! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices/page/2#post-2321640 Sun, 07 May 2023 18:58:01 +0000 Carla 2321640@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Don’t you have a grass green shirt dress in your closet that might work? &nbsp;Wear it with the hot pink holiday slides or your black closed toe wedges. A colourful clutch (with the bright footwear) or black or graphic black and white with the wedges. &nbsp;Great earrings and your always fabulous make-up. &nbsp;</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices/page/2#post-2321546 Sun, 07 May 2023 04:45:40 +0000 Suz 2321546@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>LOL, <b>Jaime</b>. I have visions....</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices/page/2#post-2321524 Sun, 07 May 2023 02:40:06 +0000 Jaime 2321524@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Both look good on paper, but it all comes down to a try on. I have absolutely no idea what one wears to such an occasion. My engagement "party" was actually in Boro Park (ultra orthodox Jewish neighborhood in Brooklyn) and believe me you don't want to go by the dress code there. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices/page/2#post-2321501 Sun, 07 May 2023 00:18:10 +0000 Barbara Diane 2321501@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Not what you’re asking but my sister-in-law often borrows an outfit from a friend for these types of occasions. And are you sure you don’t have the makings of a fabulous outfit in your closet? Scarves, jewelry, bag, kimono, etc. I know you have a lot of B&amp;W, but?</p> <p>And have fun at the party. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices/page/2#post-2321471 Sat, 06 May 2023 19:45:30 +0000 LJP 2321471@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Well it isn’t a wedding. That much I have determined. Plus it’s outdoors with food /bar inside . And it’s in the evening. Definitely will need a jacket of some sort unless it’s a blistering heat wave which isn’t likely in June . None of this new information is helping ! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices/page/2#post-2321470 Sat, 06 May 2023 19:04:27 +0000 LaPed 2321470@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Both options look fantastic; I hope you try them both and keep the one that makes you feel great. I do wonder if the the chocolate brown will feel too dark for June? I'm a person who defaults to dark colours 90% of the time and then regret it when a rare daytime summer event comes up. I bet the dress (I vote green) will accommodate a wider range of toppers if you end up needing one; finding the right length jacket to go over the two-piece may be a bit more finicky. </p> <p>I agree with you that the dress has an elegant cut and&nbsp;will dress up beautifully with some jewelry and pretty sandals. But then, I've been hanging out in some rather natural-fibre-obsessed online communities, so seeing pretty linen outfits for showers, weddings and other special events doesn't seem at all unusual to me. I think synthetic fibres have somewhat skewed our impression of what constitutes "polished" and created an expectation that clothes never wrinkle, fade, etc. And I bet you anything that if it's warm out there will be plenty of men in slightly rumpled shirts (poplin, madras, all those summer-weight fabrics).&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321467 Sat, 06 May 2023 18:42:19 +0000 Bonnie 2321467@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think it's a good idea to order both options and try them before you decide. I like both of them in the ads but I've had too many surprises when I've ordered something for myself. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321462 Sat, 06 May 2023 18:27:23 +0000 ChristelJ 2321462@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I would think one of the two options will work beautifully. I think the green color is spectacular but I love the modern shapes of the two piece set. Now we are all excited to find out not only what you wear but if it's a wedding or not! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321455 Sat, 06 May 2023 16:45:15 +0000 Roberta 2321455@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love the two piece set! The color is so rich and yet neutral. I hope it is a wedding, clearly they are planning pictures of some sort. The guests will be a rainbow, which is a nice idea, even if the marching orders are annoying.</p> <p>I would bring a gift card for Home Depot or its equivalent. Every couple needs a grill or a rug or garden supplies or a microwave. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321454 Sat, 06 May 2023 16:44:32 +0000 SW Ann 2321454@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love the green dress, and I don't view it as too casual.&nbsp; The accessories will make the dress either more or less casual.&nbsp; I think it is elegant.&nbsp; Shoes in cream or a metallic would be great. A slide, which I am jealous that you can wear so well. I stumble, and lose the shoe! &nbsp; Jacket?&nbsp; Not sure. I have linen short jackets that would be great with this dress (Tommy Bahama) but doubt you want to buy a jacket.&nbsp; Great, now I want that dress......&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321441 Sat, 06 May 2023 15:37:37 +0000 Dee 2321441@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yes I like Kkards idea for a gift, then you’ve got all your bases covered here.<br />As for the outfits, I think either one would work wonderfully. In my neck of woods both of these outfits would work for this sort of event even if it turned into a secret wedding. I guess you’ll know best once you’ve tried them on.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321435 Sat, 06 May 2023 14:32:49 +0000 Kyle 2321435@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I agree with you about the olive dress. Elegant. And that color! Yummy with gold accessories.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321434 Sat, 06 May 2023 14:32:25 +0000 Helena 2321434@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Agree with kkards on the gift!</p> <p>I vote for the Mango set ... It's really cool and I think you could then break it up and make all sorts of other outfits with it. The linen is gorgeous too but the Mango one speaks to me for some reason. Re shoes, I feel like with those pants, the shoes aren't going to be front and centre, so if you have a passable black pair, I'd be inclined to have it in mind to wear those and if you find something better, great! But takes the pressure off.</p> <p>I was slightly annoyed at the dress code on your behalf until this surprise wedding idea came up and now I'm excited lol!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321426 Sat, 06 May 2023 13:40:41 +0000 Irina 2321426@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh, what about the blue shirt dress from Anthro? I think you mentioned it before. Maybe cotton will not get as wrinkled as linen.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321422 Sat, 06 May 2023 13:05:03 +0000 kkards 2321422@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Love love love the green dress! Which IMO is perfect for a party at someone’s house. the mango pieces would also work, but the dress feels more you to me…<div>Re the gift, I would think so, but an easy solution is money that way if you see that others haven’t brought gifts you just leave the card with the money in your bag. And let’s be honest, who doesn’t love getting cash. &nbsp;</div> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321409 Sat, 06 May 2023 10:28:10 +0000 Anonymous 2321409@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like all the options and they definitely look like things you could wear often after the party. Does the no black or white request apply to shoes too?<br /> I wouldn't think you'd need a topper in June, but agreeing a wrap is an easy solution. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321406 Sat, 06 May 2023 08:41:45 +0000 Katerina 2321406@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh Lisa, this is hard. The set looks good - love the colour for you. The dress is beautiful too, but a bit more casual. But it can be dressed up surely. Maybe the dress would be a better investment - could be worn dressed down in the summer. Do you have a large scarf to wear as a topper? Or would that be too traditional? Sorry, I obviously don’t have a clue… </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321392 Sat, 06 May 2023 04:21:48 +0000 CarolS 2321392@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Funny, the idea of a surprise wedding had crossed my mind, too! And no, I just can't believe you don't have a shoe somewhere that will work!!! Sigh. Good excuse for something new! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321387 Sat, 06 May 2023 03:25:29 +0000 Sal 2321387@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like these options Lisa - for my crowd the dress would not be too casual. But I like the set and think you might wear this more in the future.</p> <p>In terms of a gift my Mum always gave expensive towels. Practical and useful for everyone. A voucher for a home wear store? A garden pot - if they have a deck or garden? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321386 Sat, 06 May 2023 02:55:06 +0000 kellygirl 2321386@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I always enjoy thee kind of posts thinking they will help prepare me! I like the green dress best and am surprised it’s viewed as casual. Although—if it wrinkles, perhaps. The no black and white is perplexing unless it’s a surprise wedding… good luck! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321384 Sat, 06 May 2023 02:11:25 +0000 Ket 2321384@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Also agree with everyone: I vote crinkle chocolate 2piece set &lt;3 BUT! I also think with accessories, shoes, etc, the linen dress could be dressed up. Weddings and parties have also become far more casual than times past. So I think it just depends. Feeling comfortable and good is the most important thing! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321381 Sat, 06 May 2023 01:54:22 +0000 LJP 2321381@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Bijou - that did occur to me (surprise wedding ) .</p> <p>I haven’t actually ordered the dress yet , just the Mango 2-pce . But I’m so enamoured with the colours of the dress I’m going to order it tonight . I think in the green . </p> <p>My denim jackets are black , as are my leather jackets . </p> <p>Carol - no suitable shoes , hard to believe eh ? I had to laugh at myself too . </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321376 Sat, 06 May 2023 01:19:03 +0000 Bijou 2321376@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Do you think this may be a surprise wedding? Both outfits look appropriate to wear, I would try both and see what you feel best in. As for toppers, once you get it home, a try with the jackets and blazers you own is likely to find one that works.<br /> When dealing with these situations I rely on either a denim or leather jacket for my topper as if it is outside that makes the party a bit more casual and if indoors then I only need the topper to when travelling to and from the party. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321375 Sat, 06 May 2023 01:18:20 +0000 LJP 2321375@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>No mention on the invitation of gifts or not . The mother of the groom lost her husband 6 months ago ( my husband’s life long best friend ) so I am not asking her anything about anything . The whole thing is fraught with emotion already . </p> <p>Anyways , indoors or out , anything I’d wear will work for either option . These were honestly the first and only two outfits I saw online today and that was enough searching for me . I’m terrible. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321373 Sat, 06 May 2023 01:10:00 +0000 CarolS 2321373@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Nice options, Lisa, but i get the frustration of having to shop for the occasion!</p> <p>FWIW I don't see the dress as too casual for a party. To me that's exactly the kind of simple piece you can dress up or down as needed. It reads as simple and elegant.</p> <p>I do agree that the brown two-piece seems like maybe a more versatile option, and easier to toss a jacket over for a bit of extra coverage if needed. I can't believe you don't have a sandal that would work?!?!? :-)</p> <p>I'd probably expect to bring a gift to an engagement party. Maybe they are registered already and you can choose something you know they want. I hate trying to choose gifts when I don't know the couple's tastes or needs.... Leaves me utterly paralyzed. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321372 Sat, 06 May 2023 01:08:53 +0000 Vildy 2321372@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>If these are dear friends then it ought to be easy to ask and find out whether it will be indoor or out.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321371 Sat, 06 May 2023 00:56:06 +0000 LJP 2321371@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Deleted thoughts on what constitutes summer weather . Lol . I clearly live in my own hemisphere </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-an-engagement-party-2-choices#post-2321370 Sat, 06 May 2023 00:55:06 +0000 Suz 2321370@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think the linen dress could look great! And could be accessorized to any level. But if it crinkled up it might read too casual.&nbsp;</p> <p>It also depends on the temps you are expecting. Unless it's a heat wave, the linen might not be warm enough for June.&nbsp; </p>