https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3 Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Mon, 20 Apr 2026 15:35:49 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265343 Sat, 31 May 2014 02:38:48 +0000 Debbie 1265343@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm so sorry. I think one would be fine. With the baby I think pants would be a good idea. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265324 Sat, 31 May 2014 02:20:14 +0000 Sara L. 1265324@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thank you for all your help in this! &nbsp;I'm sorry for being so unclear but I wouldn't wear the two later outfits I posted - just the pants with the blouse from the first outfit.</p> <p>I have a black dress that would be perfect - It's fairly simple, almost a sheath, but looser, but I can't nurse the baby in it, so it won't work.</p> <p>Joy - Thank you for posting what to expect at the funeral. &nbsp;There will be lots of family around that I haven't seen in many years. &nbsp;Taking along some pictures of the kids is a great idea. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265201 Fri, 30 May 2014 22:54:41 +0000 Beth Ann 1265201@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So sorry, Sara.&nbsp; I just attended a funeral this morning, although it was for a member of our church --- a 90 year old veteran who landed on the beach at Normandy.</p> <p>Next week is slated to be quite warm -- mid 80's and humid, until Thursday, when 70's and rain moves in.&nbsp; Hope that helps.</p> <p>As for clothing:&nbsp; I think the first outfit with a blazer would work, as would the purple/wide leg outfit.&nbsp; Comfort is key with a baby!&nbsp; I think it is terrific that you are making the effort to travel with baby on short notice.&nbsp; Your mom will appreciate it, I'm sure. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265162 Fri, 30 May 2014 22:04:32 +0000 Ornella 1265162@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sara, I'm sorry about your grandmother. <br />Can <b><a rel="nofollow" href="http://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/wiw-to-the-funeral">my old post</a></b> be of any help?</p> <p>In any case, I think if you keep within boundaries of modest&nbsp;and subtle outfit, then&nbsp;you cannot overdress. This is family funeral.</p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265152 Fri, 30 May 2014 21:42:52 +0000 lyn* 1265152@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I agree with Joy -- do what your mom would want you to wear to her mother's funeral.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265145 Fri, 30 May 2014 21:23:44 +0000 Anonymous 1265145@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I like the wide legged pants of your second set best. Think of dressing to please your mother. What would she like to see you wearing? Your mother will be showing you off to the rest of the family. I know, but that's the way it is. Someone is sure to be snapping lots of photos. If the rest of your family go, have you thought about what they will wear? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265135 Fri, 30 May 2014 21:14:03 +0000 Nebraskim 1265135@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am sorry for your loss. I like the image in original 1 (slim black pants and patterned top) esp. if you add a jacket. I live in Nebraska, hardly fashion forward, and no one would look askance at slim fit pants (unless they are workout gear like) at a funeral. Your comfort on a sad day is important. And don't be afraid of more color, unless your faith tradition forbids. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265122 Fri, 30 May 2014 20:57:17 +0000 Aquamarine 1265122@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think the very first one you posted (with the black and white print) would be absolutely fine with a blazer. Or out of the second set, the cobalt one would also be fine. I have, unfortunately, been to a few funerals recently and either outfit would be perfect. You'd be surprised at the wide range of attire people wear...both family and visitors. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265116 Fri, 30 May 2014 20:44:03 +0000 Sara L. 1265116@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks everyone for your help!&nbsp; I feel sort of dumb for&nbsp;not knowing what's appropriate.&nbsp; I have different slighter looser tapered pants (#1)&nbsp;that I could wear with low-heeled boots or I can wear these wide-legged black pants (#2)&nbsp;which have a tweedy texture that doesn't show up in the photo. &nbsp;</p> <p>The only black skirt I have is a black pencil skirt that's so new I've never worn it. &nbsp;I'd rather wear pants because I'll definitely have the baby with me (still nursing so I can't leave him overnight) and maybe the other boys. &nbsp;It depends on when the funeral is scheduled whether me and the baby fly out alone or we all drive. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265104 Fri, 30 May 2014 20:26:07 +0000 Liz 1265104@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hmm..I'm going against the grain here, and I'm not usually the most conservative of a group. But&nbsp;is it possible that you have a dark neutral skirt you could wear with #1? All depends on your family and social group.&nbsp;The high heels, and cropped fitted pants are very fashionable but would be too form-fitting/flattering&nbsp;for me to feel comfortable in at a funeral. They might also read as casual, in some groups.&nbsp;However, you'll know your family norms, so do what will work best for your family. Also, a funeral day can end up being very long, so go for long-term comfort in your clothes and shoes.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265102 Fri, 30 May 2014 20:24:25 +0000 rachylou 1265102@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My prayers for your family. #1 with a black blazer would be very nice. Maybe a black top underneath? </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265101 Fri, 30 May 2014 20:24:25 +0000 crutcher 1265101@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am so very sorry.....The next few days will be hard on all of you...Your outfit number 1 with a blazer is appropriate to me...Be sure you have comfortable shoes for walking in the cemetery...I send you good thoughts as you go through this difficult time... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265095 Fri, 30 May 2014 20:16:44 +0000 Anonymous 1265095@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm sorry, Sara. I think your first outfit will work with a blazer. You will probably be seated in a special section so not just one of the crowd of mourners. If there is a burial, and funeral dinner, you will be part of that too, along with probably seeing cousins and aunts and uncles and such. If your family doesn't go with you, be sure to bring pictures of them. Your mother may want you to add photos to a photo collage, something that is popular now at funerals. As a granddaughter, you may also be asked to do a reading or something. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265084 Fri, 30 May 2014 19:58:44 +0000 Thistle 1265084@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am very sorry for your loss. </p> <p>I live north of Chicago in Milwaukee,&nbsp;and&nbsp;it has been in the low to mid 70s and might get to 80 on Sunday.&nbsp; Mornings are still quite cool, usually upper 40s to low 50s. I suspect Chicago is a bit warmer as it a hour or so south of us (excluding traffic!) Not sure if you woudl find it warm compared to where you live.</p> <p>I think #1 would work for a funeral, although I am a total conservative and would probably not wear a print.</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265081 Fri, 30 May 2014 19:56:49 +0000 texstyle 1265081@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm sorry to hear about your grandmother. I agree with the others that #1 with a blazer or other light topper would be perfect. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265080 Fri, 30 May 2014 19:56:10 +0000 Anonymous 1265080@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So sorry to hear about your grandmother. I think 1 and a blazer would be perfectly appropriate. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265079 Fri, 30 May 2014 19:53:51 +0000 carambola 1265079@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am sorry about your grandmother. <br />I think #1 with a blazer would be perfectly appropriate. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265068 Fri, 30 May 2014 19:44:14 +0000 Louise 1265068@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>So sorry to hear about your grandmother x<br /> Either works for me though my favourite is #1 with a blazer or cardi x </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265061 Fri, 30 May 2014 19:32:38 +0000 Quietgirl 1265061@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am sorry to hear about your grandmother.</p> <p>Either one looks fine, I&nbsp;personally lean toward #1 with a blazer. I have heard that you don't need to stick with black...navy or gray would be good as well... that you just don't want to wear something that draws excessive attention.</p> <p>Since funerals&nbsp;can be&nbsp;stressful on the emotions, wear whatever makes you feel most comfortable.</p> <p></p> <p></p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-funeral-3#post-1265057 Fri, 30 May 2014 19:18:47 +0000 Sara L. 1265057@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>What's appropriate for a close family member's funeral? I'm lucky that I'm 40 years old and haven't been to a funeral since I was a very young child. &nbsp;My grandmother has Alzheimer's/dementia and is not expected to live through the night. &nbsp;She lives in Chicago along with the majority of my extended family. &nbsp;I would normally ask my mom what to wear but she's flying out this afternoon to try to see her mother before she passes and I don't want to bother her (My mom has been splitting her time between NM and Chicago for the last 3-4 months and just got back 2 weeks ago, so this isn't quite as tragic as it might sound). &nbsp;This is not unexpected&nbsp;as she's been very ill for a long time.</p> <p>Would the outfit in #1&nbsp;work, especially if I added a black cardigan or blazer? &nbsp;I also have the black long-sleeved dress but it might be too warm for it since it's almost June. &nbsp;</p> <p>Thanks for your help!</p> <p>&nbsp; </p>