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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: What to wear to a burlesque show?</title>
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				<title>Jenava on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 07:21:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jenava</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Do you have a long, black slinky skirt?  I would start with that with maybe some sheer hosiery and heeled black booties.  Something sparkly on top under a cropped, relaxed blazer?
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				<title>CocoLion on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 06:58:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>CocoLion</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Have you ever seen old movies with a burlesque scene in it?  There's one in &#034;Imitation of Life.&#034;  The audience looked to be dressed in cocktail attire.  (Pic #1).  Some other ideas -- Gloria Grahame in &#034;In a Lonely Place&#034; (Pic #2).  Or, Nicolas Ray, director of said movie and married to Gloria Grahame --now there's an androgynous look to aspire to.  (Pic #3).&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I also just watched &#034;Niagra&#034; (Pic #4) with Joseph Cotton and Marilyn Monroe, she's got some great 50s outfits that would look cool at a Burlesque show.  It doesn't have to be exact period attire, you're referencing it rather than replicating it.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;As a former dancer myself (not burlesque though) I would feel more flattered if someone dressed up even if dressing modestly was meant to help the performers stand out.  The more the audience makes something feel like an &#034;event,&#034; the more the performers feel energized and appreciated.  It's not a wedding where you're just not supposed to upstage the bride.
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				<title>stringy on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 06:06:12 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>stringy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;A friend of mine is a burlesque dancer and when we go to the shows we see all sorts of outfits. It's a good opportunity to wear something you love but don't often get a chance to wear because it's too high-drama or edgy, etc. People-watching is one of the attractions of the show, so wear something worth looking at  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I'd also guess that it's the sort of crowd where strangers will appreciate it if you ask about their outfit, since they've probably gone to a lot of trouble to look nice for the event. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I'd love to see a pic of what you decide on!
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				<title>goldenpig on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 06:59:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>goldenpig</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love the Mad Men style cocktail dress and fascinator suggestions! Red lips and heels for sure!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Or I still have my Wild West holiday party costume if you want to borrow that...  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>Lantana on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 06:36:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Lantana</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Bowler hat, bustier, kohled eyes, fishnets, lace up booties, plus a bit of  Liza Minelli in Cabaret.  You could work your  Sass and Bide thingummywhatsit into the mix for a striking black and white mix.
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				<title>Scarlet on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 06:27:36 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Scarlet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That sounds like a ticket to wear one of your great dresses and Anna-ed to the hilt!. Wear something you often don't have the right occasion for.
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				<title>Angie on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 02:01:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Your facinator!
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				<title>ironkurtin on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 01:09:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>ironkurtin</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Whatever makes you feel great and shows off the curves!  Also, I have been to burlesques where audience interaction or flinging things (like candy) or spraying things (like champagne) happens, so nothing you can't dry clean.
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				<title>Stephanie on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 00:41:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Stephanie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree with Mo and Una. I'd let the dancers have the girly thing and go all Bianca Jagger.
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				<title>Suz on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 00:31:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Suz</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I have a friend who does burlesque. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I think almost anything in your closet would work for this, honestly. But something with a bit of a fun, irreverently feminine vibe would be especially suitable.
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				<title>annagybe on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 00:19:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>annagybe</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I wish I owned a suit. My interview suit is boring brown and too big. I'm afraid my New Year's hat is very tall and would probably block someone's view.
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				<title>bj1111 on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 00:09:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>bj1111</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;your new years hat.
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				<title>Amy on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-burlesque-show#post-523022</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 23:58:25 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I have no idea either, but want to see what you come up with!
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				<title>Jonesy on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 23:51:01 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jonesy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I agree with Rita about one of your fab cocktail dresses, maybe with a jacket over it, so you get that mix?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;So, you must be back from that hot, sunny vacation spot :)?
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				<title>Mo on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 23:08:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I actually really like Una's idea of androgynous for this one!   Maybe with just one girly shot like killer heels.
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				<title>EmilyC15 on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-to-a-burlesque-show#post-522971</link>
				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 23:06:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>EmilyC15</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Ah-hah! In my free time I do some burlesque emceeing under the nom d' burly-q Sadie von Scrumptious.  &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Velma's ideas are all perfect. IMHO crowd-watching and the chance to dress up are part of the fun of going to a burlesque event. Some events have &#034;Best Dressed&#034; competitions, which can add to the pressure. Dress up in an evening gown or a retro-look dress or top/skirt. 1930s, 1950s, &#034;Mad Men&#034; are all great inspirations. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Some look ideas from a standard wardrobe:&#060;br /&#062;
* A little black dress accessorized with all those bits you never get to wear - fishnets, shiny evening clutches, fascinator hats, accent belts, evening gloves. If you don't have accessories, maybe a friend can lend. In the burly-q scene we are always lending each other bits and bobs.&#060;br /&#062;
* A pencil-skirt and a form-fitting jewel-toned sweater, with tall pumps and pearls.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Your hair and makeup are quite as important as your outfit. Hair should be &#034;done&#034;; makeup should be, too, including nails and toes. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Have a great time!
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				<title>Dashrashi on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 22:54:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Dashrashi</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I would go relatively understated for this, actually. Stuff you feel really . . . cool in, not stuff you feel hot or edgy or avant-garde in. I think I would want to feel like no one would look at me and think I was trying to compete with the dancers.
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				<title>Velma on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 22:22:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Velma</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Sleek cocktail dress and/or Madmen style afternoon or evening wear--be elegantly retro and quietly sexy, not stripper-esque. High heels and a little hat would not run amiss!&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;One of my dear old friends does burlesque and owns a burlesque-oriented business, so I actually know a small amount about this.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Anonymous on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 21:50:31 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wear something fun. But you already wear drama and fun like no one else . Maybe some crazy boots, your shiny pants and a top?
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				<title>catgirl on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 21:47:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I wish I could see into your closet, because YOU of all people will have something perfect!  Or go androgynous for fun...
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				<title>Mochi on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 21:39:28 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mochi</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Do you have a bustier or corset-like thing? Or anything slightly sexy with lace, satin, etc? However, don't sweat it (unless you're actually up on stage!) I was at a burlesque event recently and people were just dressed up for a night out. So whatever signifies &#034;fun&#034; to you should do it.
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				<title>Anonymous on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 21:22:17 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Can't help ya here, except maybe to suggest you wear red. LOL! Have fun.
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				<title>Anonymous on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 21:17:19 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Pull out the craziest thing that you own and have a blast!
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				<title>modgrl on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 21:09:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>modgrl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think this is the right time to pull out one of your cocktail dresses. How about something fun!?! Sequins, feathers, anything can fly here  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Meredith1953 on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 21:05:58 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Meredith1953</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Wow...not a cluel how one should dress for this.
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				<title>Queen Mum on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 21:03:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Queen Mum</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;haha- I have no earthly idea but I can't wait to see what you come up with  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>annagybe on "What to wear to a burlesque show?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 21:01:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>annagybe</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So I got a ticket to a Valentine's themed burlesque show. However it is on a Sunday, early evening. So what the heck should I wear? I'll be going with friends.
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