https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Sun, 26 Apr 2026 08:15:34 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1703410 Wed, 27 Jul 2016 05:10:27 +0000 chewyspaghetti 1703410@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Getting back into the dating world is tough...but it can be rewarding! Good luck! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1701055 Sun, 24 Jul 2016 03:04:04 +0000 Amy 1701055@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks, everyone. Yeah, culottes would freak a lot of guys out here. I bought a pair of jeans and a blouse today. Cannot find the right shoes. I'll model some prototype date night outfits for you soon. Thank you SOOOO much for your help!</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700974 Sun, 24 Jul 2016 01:06:03 +0000 Traci 1700974@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I just wanted to throw out there how great I think you look in the OP. &nbsp;It's a shame that that's too much.</p> <p>I think you'll look amazing in a pair of long, lean, dark jeans with cute shoes and top. &nbsp;Your legs go for miles and I bet you can find a great pair of legs to show them off. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700865 Sat, 23 Jul 2016 22:42:15 +0000 Suz 1700865@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh. Well, that sucks.&nbsp;</p> <p>Hmmm. Someone is going to have to educate the taste of Seattle men.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700803 Sat, 23 Jul 2016 20:41:12 +0000 annagybe 1700803@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Nope, no culottes "too weird" for a lot of the guys here. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700780 Sat, 23 Jul 2016 19:44:41 +0000 Suz 1700780@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You know what else might work really well with the right companions? The new EF culottes that are on their way.&nbsp;</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700775 Sat, 23 Jul 2016 19:25:01 +0000 Anonymous 1700775@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think if you don't feel your best in jeans, maybe a casual skirt or dress. And then dress it down with the shoes - i.e. Wedge vs. pump. Jean jacket vs. cardigan. BTW, you look very nice in the pic above. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700771 Sat, 23 Jul 2016 19:17:46 +0000 rachylou 1700771@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Lol, what we're saying, Amy, is jeans whether you like it or not I go for fake jeans... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700690 Sat, 23 Jul 2016 17:03:16 +0000 Suz 1700690@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Now this is fun! It is time for you to build a <b>smart</b> casual capsule!!&nbsp;</p> <p>I'm not dating, but I live in an incredibly casual town (similar to Seattle or even more casual, because it's a smaller place). And I often have to give presentations or go to meet new people in clothes that have some type of "presence"&nbsp;yet are still casual enough.&nbsp;</p> <p>My fallback ingredient is really denim. Denim on the bottom, OR denim on top.&nbsp;</p> <p>So...jeans with a fun blouse/ jacket/ great shoes. White jeans are a bit dressier and very fresh.&nbsp;</p> <p>#1 and #2 are the type of outfit I might wear (depending on temps).&nbsp;</p> <p>#3 has the denim up top. The shell is sleeveless so when it's off the look is a bit more sexy. Skirt is bombshell but feels like PJs and not "precious" because it's a knit. Denim de-bombshells a bit.&nbsp;</p> <p>#4 would also be a hot day option. No denim but a similar relaxed feel to it. I wore it for a lunchtime "date" with Mr. Suz yesterday.&nbsp;</p> <p>Basically, wear clothes you feel really comfortable in that aren't too much, yet show you care.&nbsp;</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700499 Sat, 23 Jul 2016 09:13:56 +0000 Ledonna N. 1700499@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Congratulations on dating again. I think this is an interesting post I'll be following closely. I have not one clue. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700485 Sat, 23 Jul 2016 07:20:12 +0000 AJ 1700485@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>How about this one? </p> <p>From here:<br /> <a href="http://kimair.blogspot.com/2014/04/the-new-look-tuxedo-and-cargos.html" rel="nofollow">http://kimair.blogspot.com/201.....argos.html</a></p> <p>Have fun with the accessories but keep the clothing dressy casual. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700457 Sat, 23 Jul 2016 05:24:53 +0000 Amy 1700457@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks, ladies. This is helpful.&nbsp;</p> <p>DonnaF, I feel fine in jeans, but unlike what I see on this forum, my jeans outfits are not stylish. When I wear jeans, *I* look like I should be cleaning the garage. I haven't put a lot of effort into developing a casual, yet fashionable wardrobe.&nbsp;</p> <p>JAileen, yes, a lot of women wear dresses and heels here, but my guess is that would be down around the business core of town, right? I bet you looked great in your outfit.&nbsp;</p> <p>shannon, that's sweet!</p> <p>Muffin, restricting myself to guys who like to dress up would make it hard for me to date anyone in this town. It's a very casual place--and that's fine. I'm just trying to figure out how to fit in...it's like being in high school all over again ;)</p> <p><a rel="nofollow" href="http://youlookfab.com/member/ecteacher0000/">ecteacher0000</a>&nbsp;, thanks for that link! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700451 Sat, 23 Jul 2016 05:05:07 +0000 VioletMyra 1700451@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>When I need a clue (and believe me I need lots of them), I browse this blog: <a href="http://www.ladyofstyle.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.ladyofstyle.com/</a> <br /> Annette</p> <p>is older than you and younger than me but her style has helped me out over the years.<br />HTH<br />Best wishes<br />Denise </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700429 Sat, 23 Jul 2016 04:24:41 +0000 rachylou 1700429@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I think the new rule is jeans, flattering top, topper, shoes you can walk a fast mile in...jus' sayin'... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700411 Sat, 23 Jul 2016 03:42:28 +0000 Muffin 1700411@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I agree with the advice of jeans, cute shoes, pretty blouse. But if you are more dressy than so be it! I see so many women that have obviously put thought and time into their outfit/appearance with guys in hats, shorts, and t-shirts who look like they could have been cleaning the garage all day-- I want to tell these women to keep looking, this isn't the guy for you! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700404 Sat, 23 Jul 2016 03:33:56 +0000 JAileen 1700404@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>We just got to Seattle this afternoon!!! Anyway, we walked around a lot and ate down on the water, outside. I wore jeans, Cons, nice sweatshirt, and took a windbreaker. (I thought it was going to be colder than it was.) My husband was dressed similarly. I saw people dressed up and down. I saw women in dresses and heels, and women in jeans. </p> <p>In my neck of the woods, people wear jeans all the time. Even the wedding we went to last weekend, an aunt of the bride wore jeans. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700330 Sat, 23 Jul 2016 00:49:25 +0000 shannon 1700330@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I can't speak to the norms in Seattle but I was single in my 40's (not too long ago) here in flyover country. &nbsp;I'd say that dark jeans are a good option with a cute shoe. &nbsp;Also, be sure to consider the venue and make sure you're comfortable. On my first date with my now BF, I wore a print pencil skirt with a white sweater because the skirt was flattering and a cute print. He still remembers the skirt and comments on it whenever I wear it.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700305 Sat, 23 Jul 2016 00:13:47 +0000 DonnaF 1700305@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You don't feel comfy in YOUR jeans or jeans in general?&nbsp; If it is jeans in general, what about a denim skirt or ponte pants?&nbsp; I somehow can't picture you in a denim or chambray dress. . . . </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700256 Fri, 22 Jul 2016 23:04:55 +0000 UmmLila (Lisa) 1700256@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I say well-fitting jeans, a bit of a heel and a drapy but not tight blouse that shows either some arm or décolleté, whichever is your better point. If it's a blind date, wear a jacket over so you can decide if you want to take it off. (Oh yeah, have never been to Seattle so can't speak for the cultural issues.)</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700250 Fri, 22 Jul 2016 23:00:11 +0000 MsGreer 1700250@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I agree with crazyone. Hold off on showing to much skin and make him earn it..lol You have plenty of time to dress up and dress for the occasion.<br /> I love your outfit in the pic, really pretty!!!<br /> Have a wonderful time on your date...how exciting!! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700229 Fri, 22 Jul 2016 22:39:07 +0000 Amy 1700229@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thank you so much! This is very helpful. Now I need to go jeans shopping :)</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700205 Fri, 22 Jul 2016 22:21:45 +0000 Firecracker (Sharan) 1700205@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I don't know, but I'll play along and pick an outfit. Here's one I like, but I might substitute my black skinny frayed-hem ankle jeans for the skirt. And maybe go with less arty footwear, something with a heel. </p> <p>Generally I think I would stick to what crazyone suggests. I would pick a top that makes me feel pretty (as this olive voile one does), and/or one that really brings out the color of my eyes and makes them dazzle. Then some nice, dark-wash jeans or a casual skirt. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700193 Fri, 22 Jul 2016 22:10:03 +0000 Suzanne (ambergreen) 1700193@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hmm...if you don't mind taking thoughts from married folk (but in the Portland, OR milieu so even a bit more casual environment than Seattle), I might suggest a favorite pair of jeans, a blouse you love (maybe a simple one in satin?), statement earrings, and block-heel sandals.</p> <p>Examples added...it actually wasn't that easy to find something that gave the vibe I was thinking of. So much is, yes, either quite hoochie or even more casual. #1 is probably the closest (though the heels are too high IMO).</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700189 Fri, 22 Jul 2016 22:07:06 +0000 Keix 1700189@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'm in ultra-casual Silicon Valley and I agree with crazyone--go for a dark jeans and nice top look. Or you can wear a casual dress (I suspect in Seattle you would fit in with a dress from Athleta, for instance) if that makes you feel more comfortable. One rule to consider is that if you feel like the dress needs dressy shoes (heels, polished pointy-toe flats), then choose a more casual dress. You can then wear the casual dress with heels, but it helps avoid the feeling-overdressed syndrome. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700167 Fri, 22 Jul 2016 21:43:26 +0000 crazyone 1700167@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am naturally a dressy person, so I purposely underdress a bit for first dates--it can feel really odd to be wearing a nice dress and jewelry when the guy across from you is just wearing a t-shirt and jeans. &nbsp;Stick to figure flattering tops and whatever cut of jeans or dark pants floats your boat. &nbsp;The dresses can come out to play on later dates (with the same person) after you've established your personalities a bit. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-on-a-date-in-seattle#post-1700160 Fri, 22 Jul 2016 21:38:45 +0000 Amy 1700160@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It's been nearly 20 years since I last dated and so I'm out of touch with what to wear when going out. I always assumed you dressed up when you were going to meet someone new, but Anna (rightly) pointed out that the outfit I wore yesterday was too dressy for Seattle. My date showed up in jeans and a t-shirt...to a nice restaurant.&nbsp;Looking around the restaurant, his attire was more the rule than the exception. Can any of you share pictures/pins of casual date night outfits? Most of my searches are turning up very slinky and/or exposed outfits that would suit a 20 year old and not someone in her mid 40's. I don't feel all that good in most of my jeans outfits, mainly because I feel too sloppy.</p> <p>Thanks for any help you can give! </p>