https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-dilema Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Fri, 10 Apr 2026 14:33:28 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-dilema#post-1035385 Sat, 21 Sep 2013 03:20:34 +0000 Jules 1035385@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Maybe you've had a positive influence after all "Bum capsule" - I love it! Glad your evening turned out well, you deserved that </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-dilema#post-1035378 Sat, 21 Sep 2013 03:03:08 +0000 TraceyLiz65 1035378@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Too funny. ..night went great. ..she wore. A blouse instead of a t-shirt. And pointed it out immediately when she picked me up. No PA behavior , wonder if other friend called her on it after our last outing? A great girl's night , hope we do it again soon. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-dilema#post-1035369 Sat, 21 Sep 2013 02:07:24 +0000 MsMary 1035369@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I love that your boys are noticing your transformation!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-dilema#post-1035307 Sat, 21 Sep 2013 01:02:14 +0000 Suz 1035307@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I hope you have fun, Traci. It sounds like you found a good compromise outfit.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-dilema#post-1035275 Sat, 21 Sep 2013 00:20:59 +0000 Sarah A 1035275@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Sounds like a hard position to be in with your old friend. I am sorry it is causing you stress The trosuer jeans sound great, I hope you have fun! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-dilema#post-1035164 Fri, 20 Sep 2013 22:18:57 +0000 Glory 1035164@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Too funny with your boys. Your outfit sounds perfect for the event. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-dilema#post-1035098 Fri, 20 Sep 2013 20:39:59 +0000 TraceyLiz65 1035098@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>too funny, my boys are saying, " Mom you don't have a bum capsule" &nbsp;fhat was the 17yr old... The 13 year old said, "Even you sleeping clothes aren'[t bummy..." &nbsp;&nbsp;</p> <p>All I heard is, " I have succeeded in going from the mother who got lost&nbsp;and wasn't caring for herself, to treating myself well and taking great care of myself." &nbsp;They are joking me that this is my mid-life crisis and if this is it, I am rejoicing and thrilled! &nbsp;</p> <p>Thanks for letting me share... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-dilema#post-1034960 Fri, 20 Sep 2013 18:10:59 +0000 TraceyLiz65 1034960@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>This friend has weight issues and suffers from low self esteem. I have had to back away from the friendship because my joy and self confidence make her feel bad and she gets passive aggressive. I have tried building her up and loving her, but can't allow the PA behavior in my life. I only go out with her now as a threesome and the other friend is in her 60's and is my boho artist friend I adore and don't see enough of. Definitely going to arrange a lunch for just the two of us...<br /> Tried on trouser jeans with sweater and pink ponte knit jacket with leopard pumps. Think it's a good compromise. I get to dress up with events with DH, so won't feel like I missed a shot to do so. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-dilema#post-1034941 Fri, 20 Sep 2013 17:53:06 +0000 Kim 1034941@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'd wear what I wanted to wear (dress and heels) since I rarely get the chance to dress up. &nbsp;</p> <p>They are your oldest friends, you know they know you. &nbsp;They won't be surprised by your outfit, and they shouldn't feel under dressed since they are dressing in their comfort zone and you in yours. That's the cool thing about old friends!</p> <p>And if anything's said, use my sister's line..."Oh, you know me...overdressed for everything!" &nbsp;Then&nbsp;laugh and change the conversation to the show you are about to see... </p> <p></p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-dilema#post-1034897 Fri, 20 Sep 2013 16:51:25 +0000 rachylou 1034897@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I'd maybe make the dress and heels casual, unless you're all ok being matching. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-dilema#post-1034880 Fri, 20 Sep 2013 16:33:41 +0000 annagybe 1034880@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Or you could do jeans and a blazer. You have lots of nice blazers. Maybe a more faded jean to keep it more casual. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-dilema#post-1034823 Fri, 20 Sep 2013 15:21:17 +0000 TraceyLiz65 1034823@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Going to an art show tonight... I would normally not even hesitate and put together a nice dress and heels outfit... don't know what to do after my friend informed me she was going in jeans and a t-shirt cause that's her comfort zone and the best she can do is to not have writing on her shirt....I feel like she broougt this to me cause she knows my nature and just wanted me to know she was not going to dress up...She is my oldest friend, since I was in my early 20's...</p> <p>What is a happy medium where I can go to such an event with two friends who will most likely being wearing jeans? &nbsp; My first instinct is to grab my trouser jeans , a sweater and booties... Does this sound like a good idea? &nbsp;&nbsp; </p>