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			<title>YouLookFab Forum &#187; Topic: What to wear?</title>
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				<title>Aida on "What to wear?"</title>
				<link>https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-to-wear-17#post-322650</link>
				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 22:15:13 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Aida</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like #3 (WOW this is great!), 6, and 8 in that order. I extra agree with all the words Maya and Angie said  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Mo on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 17:19:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Mo</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Without even opening the thumbnails, I vote #8 straight away.  It seems best suited to the occasion.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;And now that I've opened them, next I would go with #6 and then #4 but #8 still wins  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>catgirl on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 17:17:39 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>catgirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like 3 or 8.  Have never heard of this type of event - please let us know how it goes!
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				<title>Laura B. on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 17:14:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Laura B.</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;That workshop sounds like so much fun! I agree with the others, pick what makes you feel confident. I personally like the last outfit since you look smart but still very relaxed and approchable. Have fun  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Vix on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 15:04:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Vix</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Hi Annagybe --&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Sounds like an interesting evening -- wish they'd had a remedial flirting workshop for me! &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I think WTW depends on your goals. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;There's a multi-part documentary called something like &#034;The Science of Attraction&#034; that ran on PBS and used to be on the website. Bottom line re dressing for female/male attraction was it ain't rocket science -- V neck (preferably with a pendant) and show the waist/hip.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;So IF you are trying to attract as many potential dates as possible so that you can weed them out based on your criteria, I'd run with that advice; the closest would be  1, 7, 8. [Or try other options.] I think you know I love #8, but I'm not your target audience.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Now IF you just want to relax and have fun, wear whatever appeals to you that day.  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-wink icon-emoticon-wink "></span> 
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				<title>Jonesy on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 13:07:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jonesy</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like 3, 6, or 7 (with some fab leggings and heels). It does sound like a fun night!
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				<title>Janet on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 12:56:03 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Janet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Not even reading the other responses yet, because I want to put my gut impression out there before it gets colored by others: #3 &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;I think it is a great balance of your fun, edgy style with approachable. Although you look great in all of these!
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				<title>Katiepea on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 08:24:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Katiepea</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I really like #3 and #6.  I would say to my eye #3 is more flirty, but #6 is more approachable.  I'd be guided outfit-wise by what sort of a persona you are wanting to exude - flirty or approachable?  (For example - When I was but a wee-whipper-snapper I used to be quite flirtatious, so I probablywould have worn #3.  Now that I'm old and decriped, I'd probably be more comfortable wearing #6.  How times change &#038;lt;sigh&#038;gt;  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span>  )&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Have fun at this workshop!
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				<title>Stephanie on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 08:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Stephanie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like all these outfits. In this situation, I would err on the side of the casual but (traditionally) feminine--which I think suggests 3 or something like it. But I agree with others that the most important thing is that you feel attractive and confident. I love outfit 8 but I have a feeling those cropped trousers are going to read as aggressively fashion-forward to people who don't follow fashion. (On the other hand, perhaps you want to weed those people out, being the true fashionista that you are.)
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				<title>Jyoti on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 06:39:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jyoti</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like 7 or 8 best for this event.  I've actually had a guy tell me he gets confused by things that are too fashion-forward, lol.  7 and 8 are hot; 8 having a slight edge!
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				<title>Scarlet on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 06:02:45 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Scarlet</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think every outfit is great but for the situation I would say 3, 5, or 8.
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				<title>CocoLion on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 05:44:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>CocoLion</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love the dress in #7, so feminine and flattering, but I'd wear it w/ leggings or stockings or skinny jeans so you don't feel as if you're tugging at it.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;There was an outfit you posted a few months ago which you said you wore to a mall and you got lots of compliments.  I couldn't find it.  It had skinny jeans and high shoes and (I think) some leather.&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;Or, whatever you feel most confident in.
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				<title>elpgal on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 05:24:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>elpgal</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I say wear whatever you think will make your essential self dazzle. If you are making me pick, I like 3, 4 with something statementy and 6.
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				<title>RandomThoughts (Andrea) on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 04:44:40 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;My picks for this sort of event are 3, 4 and 8. Very &#034;you&#034; but also approachable, IMO.
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				<title>Kyle on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 04:10:07 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Kyle</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Number 8 is awesome!
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				<title>yublocka on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 04:02:24 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Interesting workshop! I agree with the advice to wear something that makes you feel cheeky and confident. Of the photos you've posted, #3 is my fave. Let us know how you go!!!
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				<title>kellygirl on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 03:15:48 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>kellygirl</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;Since it's casual, I vote 4 or 8. All are totally fab though, Anna. I don't think you could go wrong with any of them.
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				<title>Jenava on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 02:51:08 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jenava</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I vote 8, 6, or 3.  With #2 and #5 a close 4th and 5th choice.  (-:
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				<title>Angie on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 02:49:46 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Angie</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I was going to say #3 too, but I do worry about those little cold feet in our weather. &#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;It's been 24 years since I dated and heavens above, I know nothing about the subject. But from a psychological point of view, one is successfully flirtatious when one feels confidant. So make sure you wear something that makes you feel confidant.
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				<title>lyn* on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 02:32:44 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like 4 the most - I think it would be the most comfortable to move around in  <span aria-hidden="true" class="emoticon emoticon-smile icon-emoticon-smile "></span> 
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				<title>Maya on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 02:28:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Maya</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like 3 and 6 best. I love your more fashion forward outfits, but I feel it's better to go with something more approachable for an event like this. 3 especially seems to strike a nice balance between fashion forward approachable, and you look amazing in it.
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				<title>chewyspaghetti on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 02:28:02 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>chewyspaghetti</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I would wear something that makes you feel flirtatious!
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				<title>bella on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 02:26:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>bella</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I think you have an amazing sense of style Anna. My humble opinion,  however, is that most men don't get fashion and are intimidated by it. (Anyone follow the man repeller? &#060;a href=&#034;http://www.manrepeller.com/&#034; rel=&#034;nofollow&#034;&#062;http://www.manrepeller.com/&#060;/a&#062;) Perhaps it would help put the men at ease, if you wore something that they could get their heads around.&#060;br /&#062;
Of course, I would never presume to give you or anybody else dating advice, this is just an observation.
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				<title>modgrl on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 02:19:12 +0000</pubDate>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I like 6 and 8 for a happy hour at a bar. I also really love 7 but you don't want to be pulling at your skirt as you're working your way around the room.
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				<title>Jenava on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 02:14:22 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>Jenava</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;I love the last one.  It just sees so comfy and low-key but still very &#034;you&#034;.  Since it's not really a &#034;date&#034; I wouldn't go too dressy?&#060;/p&#062;
&#060;p&#062;PS, what about a thin long sleeve top UNDer the leather dress?
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				<title>annagybe on "What to wear?"</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 02:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
				<dc:creator>annagybe</dc:creator>
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				<description>&#060;p&#062;So I'm going to a flirting workshop after work on Wednesday. It's being held at a bar. The premise is we're being split into male and female groups. Each group is given a separate workshop, then afterwards we mingle and test our new skills.&#060;br /&#062;
I'm stumped as to what to wear. Here some previous outfits but open to other suggestions.
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