https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Sun, 12 Apr 2026 02:12:42 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy/page/2#post-1127766 Fri, 03 Jan 2014 16:20:36 +0000 Grey Rainbow 1127766@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Fascinating thread. Feeling female vs feminine, sexy vs. sexual, and how these intersect with feeling powerful. Or psychotic -- love Una and Rachylou's comments! </p> <p>I equate feeling sexy with feeling free, in the way that warm summer sunshine, soft breeze, sand or grass between toes, no makeup, freshly washed but unstyled hair feels free. Luxuriating, stretching out with time on hands and sun on skin. Healthy, fit, relaxed, comfortable in my skin. So, soft fabrics like old tshirts or tank tops, slouchy or skimming. Drawstring PJ-type pants that expose a bit of belly. So, jersey maxi skirts with havaianas, even my beloved Eileen Fisher harem pants give me that feel. Although, I have yet to meet a man who thinks they are "sexy". Powerful, daring, even intimidating yes. Sexy not in the least. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy/page/2#post-1127674 Fri, 03 Jan 2014 14:41:01 +0000 rute 1127674@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>A well tailored black dress! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy/page/2#post-1127600 Fri, 03 Jan 2014 13:05:56 +0000 April 1127600@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I do feel sexy in a heel, but I really can't/don't wear heels and have gotten rid of almost all of mine. &nbsp;I would say super-long jeans over heels would be my fantasy sexy outfit, even if it's not something I typically wear.</p> <p>I would&nbsp;say that&nbsp;I also feel sexy in the things that SO finds sexy -- which is to say, "anything quite&nbsp;fitted on the lower half." &nbsp;:) &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy/page/2#post-1127377 Fri, 03 Jan 2014 02:16:38 +0000 catgirl 1127377@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Yes but look what I had to do to catch that little one - flatten him! :)</p> <p>I have a psycho look too. But no one finds it sexy. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy/page/2#post-1127296 Fri, 03 Jan 2014 00:55:44 +0000 Fruitful 1127296@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Lol at what Rachylou said </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy/page/2#post-1121744 Tue, 24 Dec 2013 21:06:42 +0000 rachylou 1121744@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I just had a thought, reading Una's and other's thoughts on being feminine. (Btw, I think you're right about sledding Una I'm sure you catch all the boys sledding.)</p> <p>My thought was this: I do have a femme fatale look that's stop 'em dead, but I have to say that it doesn't make me feel sexy. Powerful and psychopathic, yes; sexy, no. Read what you will into that... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy/page/2#post-1121685 Tue, 24 Dec 2013 19:01:41 +0000 Anonymous 1121685@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Freshly painted nails. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy/page/2#post-1121681 Tue, 24 Dec 2013 18:58:15 +0000 Stephmonster 1121681@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>It's not always practical in the winter, but I feel strong AND sexy when I wear&nbsp;halter-neck or thin-strapped, low-back tops/dresses. I absolutely did not win the genetic lottery for boobs, but I love showing off my broad shoulders and decently toned&nbsp;back (thanks, yoga!).&nbsp;</p> <p>Of course, I am also fully in favor of the perfectly-fitted LBD, glossy-but-not-sticky lips, a good shot of fragrance and a pair of high heels :)</p> <p>It's a real darn shame than sunbathing is so bad for your skin. I haven't had a 'real tan' in years and while I appreciate the fact that my skin looks pretty good for my age,&nbsp;I really do feel sexier AND thinner (?!) when I've got some color. (At-home self tanning and/or Mystic tans just don't give the same result, although I use both during the summer months.)</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy/page/2#post-1121649 Tue, 24 Dec 2013 17:56:03 +0000 citygirldc 1121649@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I feel sexy in a leather jacket. It makes me feel powerful. Red lipstick is a close second. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy/page/2#post-1121645 Tue, 24 Dec 2013 17:43:30 +0000 shiny 1121645@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Red lipstick.</p> <p>Good hair day.</p> <p>Pointy toed pumps -- &nbsp;but they have to be comfortable to walk in, so nothing higher than 3 inches. I do not feel sexy if my feet are aching.&nbsp;</p> <p>But mostly, a dress that fits *just right* -- flattering cut, skims the body but not tight, neckline not too high but also not too low, sleeves cut just right,&nbsp;just the right length (a bit above the knee), makes me look like I have a waist, but isn't constricting in the waist. A bit of structure but not too much.&nbsp;A dress with stretch in it, so I can move freely. A dress that fits so well, I do not require any Spanx to suck it all in. This might mean strategic ruching, but not necessarily: it's surprising how a good fit can make my belly and bumps disappear, no Spanx required.&nbsp;&nbsp;Because I'm sorry but wearing anything constricting just does not make me feel sexy - no matter how well it slims me down visually in the mirror.&nbsp;</p> <p>When I find effortless dresses like that I hold on to them forever!</p> <p>I will add that I have a sack dress that I feel perfectly sexy in too.</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy/page/2#post-1121396 Tue, 24 Dec 2013 08:17:46 +0000 Fruitful 1121396@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I feel sexiest wearing clothing that fits me perfectly (I'm falling in love with my tailor lately!).</p> <p>And as others have said on a good hair day, whether worn up or down.</p> <p>And with just enough makeup to blur imperfections but to give the impression I don't wear or need makeup.</p> <p>A mid-heel that gives me a little lengthening but doesn't look like I'm trying hard.</p> <p>Basically it's when *I* know I'm wearing my best look (shape, cut, colour) but it all seems effortless, as if I just threw anything on and got out of bed looking like that :)</p> <p>Although I have some figure/decolletage-showing dresses that technically make me look sexy, I feel sexier in the ones that leave more to the imagination. I really like the idea of someone thinking I'm remote, mysterious, or even unattainable, but giving them just enough visual and personal information that their imagination is inspired.</p> <p>I'm totally with Rae in that being physically active makes me feel sexy - partly because I'm strengthened and empowered, but also because I just can't fight endorphins :)</p> <p>I am recently separated and although I can't date at this stage, the feeling of coming home to myself after many years is so enlivening that it is&nbsp;deeply sexy, and beyond sexy. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy/page/2#post-1120821 Mon, 23 Dec 2013 17:04:46 +0000 Aziraphale 1120821@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>High heels, flattering jeans, good hair&nbsp;and red lipstick are useful for making me feel attractive in a sexy way. But it's how I feel on the inside that matters more. Being good at things makes me feel sexy.&nbsp;Having just accomplished something that required effort, skill and&nbsp;persistence makes me feel "killer" (as Angie would put it) more than any item of clothing ever could. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy/page/2#post-1120778 Mon, 23 Dec 2013 16:06:28 +0000 Mary Beth (formerly LBD) 1120778@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Heels, stockings, and manicured nails </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy/page/2#post-1120755 Mon, 23 Dec 2013 15:28:37 +0000 minimalist 1120755@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Thanks for expressing this so clearly, Una. I feel "sexiest" when I'm alive, engaged, doing something well, maybe in the middle of nature. Things that might seem sexy to others, I take for granted as just the way I do things. (Underwear sets, pedicures, waxing etc.) </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy/page/2#post-1120699 Mon, 23 Dec 2013 13:04:09 +0000 Anonymous 1120699@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I don't feel sexy at all --- I do like feeling strong and active, or capable. I rarely feel feminine.</p> <p>Basically what Una said </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy/page/2#post-1120695 Mon, 23 Dec 2013 12:56:38 +0000 Janet 1120695@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I've thought about this a little since this thread first appeared, and sometimes it is the more unexpected things that make me feel a little sexier. It can be something as simple as a very flattering piece of clothing that is nothing "special" but drapes or falls just right and feels good on. Comfort + flattery + stylish = sexy in my book.</p> <p>I do love how I feel in heeled boots and booties -- they definitely make me feel a little taller, with longer, strong legs, which makes me feel good. A little cleavage can be good too, but too much looks trashy on busty me. Leather jackets make me feel a little tough-sexy. Ultrafeminine details tend to make me feel very unsexy. </p> <p>Lastly, a great fresh haircut and color is definitely a big help in this department! I've also been feeling a little sexier leaving my hair a little wild and wavy rather than straight. Funny, since I spent most of my life trying to tame and straighten it. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy/page/2#post-1120629 Mon, 23 Dec 2013 08:17:32 +0000 catgirl 1120629@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I don't associate sexy and feminine for myself. And I feel very uncomfortable when I feel too traditionally girly. And this is despite being a committed believer in female energy and power. </p> <p>I wish I had a picture of what I wore at our holiday cocktail party last night - black silk shirt and gold sequuin miniskirt with patterned fishnets. I got a lot of compliments but just felt too gussied up.</p> <p>I feel best like I am in this picture taken sledding tonight, after a serious wipeout. Being a mom with my (crushed) kiddo. Or here, in what I wore earlier.</p> <p>I wish I could describe it better. I certainly appreciate all of you who do feminine so well! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy#post-1120396 Sun, 22 Dec 2013 22:20:26 +0000 Suz 1120396@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Kamyrk -- so interesting. I was going to say that menswear styles can make me feel alluring. I think it is the surprise of them. Especially if they are done in wonderful fabrics that feel good to touch.&nbsp;</p> <p>But a form fitting sheath dress can also do the trick! &nbsp;:)&nbsp;</p> <p>I also like pretty undies that match.&nbsp;</p> <p>Healthy eating and exercise and enough fresh air.&nbsp;</p> <p>And a great writing day.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy#post-1120268 Sun, 22 Dec 2013 18:46:54 +0000 rachylou 1120268@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hehe. My bunny feet pjs. Why is this sexy? </p> <p>One zipper all the way up and down </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy#post-1120236 Sun, 22 Dec 2013 18:22:53 +0000 Anonymous 1120236@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>That's a fab photo Karymk. I think I feel sexy/alluring when I'm in knee high boots, as others have mentioned too. Something about boots makes one feel empowered and strong, which in turn creates confidence. There is nothing more sexy than a confident woman. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy#post-1120231 Sun, 22 Dec 2013 18:18:24 +0000 karymk 1120231@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I feel most feminine and alluring when I am taking care of my health with good diet and exercise. &nbsp;</p> <p>When I take the time to do a good natural makeup I feel really pretty, especially when i take the time to use a little taupe eye shadow and a pop of pink on my lips. &nbsp;</p> <p>"Good' jewelry makes me feel spoiled and feminine. &nbsp;I love the jingle of my charm bracelet, the sparkle of my wedding rings, the feel of a little dangly earring swinging back and forth...</p> <p>BF jeans and heels make me feel sexy, but it's ironic since my butt looks so lost in them! &nbsp;</p> <p>menswear styles can make me feel really sexy: remember this buttoned up look? I felt like a femme fatale in it! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy#post-1120217 Sun, 22 Dec 2013 17:55:02 +0000 Mo 1120217@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>A good hair day goes a long way toward making me feel alluring. &nbsp;I'm also not so sure blatantly sexy is a thing for me. &nbsp;A great fitting pair of jeans and knee high&nbsp;boots rate high for me, too. &nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy#post-1120201 Sun, 22 Dec 2013 17:24:12 +0000 rae 1120201@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Being strong and active. So I don't really feel that way recently. :T Trying to get life back in order, though.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy#post-1120177 Sun, 22 Dec 2013 16:15:26 +0000 Peri 1120177@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>My new Purple Big Bird sweater. It is soft, relaxed and comfortable...and everybody wants to touch me! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy#post-1120173 Sun, 22 Dec 2013 16:11:14 +0000 Carla 1120173@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Gently body con clothing (sheath dress, pencil skirt, slim cut pants) and heels. In August I acquired my first leather jacket, and in November my second. I feel sexy every time I wear them. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy#post-1120172 Sun, 22 Dec 2013 16:10:39 +0000 lyn* 1120172@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>They way my fellow looks at me and smiles&nbsp;even after I've had a bad day and have toque hair. :p </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy#post-1120171 Sun, 22 Dec 2013 16:09:39 +0000 Angie 1120171@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Karymk, what makes<b> you</b> feel alluring?&nbsp;</p> <p>In my case it's healthy and shiny skin, pretty bra and panties (always matching), good hair day, and&nbsp;my scent that I spritz each morning. And for Greg - a tight black turtleneck.&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy#post-1120145 Sun, 22 Dec 2013 15:11:34 +0000 TraceyLiz65 1120145@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I would have to say that the support of my husband in my weight loss and this fashion blogging journey has done wonders for my feeling sexy. &nbsp;Dresses and skirts with heels, boots or booties.&nbsp;&nbsp;I just really perk up the sassiness with skirts, dresses and heels.. I really love being a woman and it's when I feel my most feminine energy...Although coated jeans and heels run a close second... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy#post-1120107 Sun, 22 Dec 2013 11:39:35 +0000 RoseandJoan 1120107@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I don't like to feel sexy, alluring I can go for, like many above I feel my most alluring, freshly washed, moisturised skin, wearing soft fabrics in a fluid fit&nbsp;plus a light spritz of my favourite scent. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-makes-you-feel-sexy#post-1120078 Sun, 22 Dec 2013 07:06:24 +0000 Jeanie 1120078@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>A pencil skirt with a&nbsp;silk slip that no one can see but feel absolutely divine against my skin. </p>