https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi Style Advice for Fashion Lovers en-US Mon, 27 Apr 2026 22:50:36 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/search.php https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1995333 Wed, 23 Jan 2019 17:02:06 +0000 nemosmom 1995333@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><div>I had to do a search for "HEWI" - I thought it meant "Hardly Ever Wear It" HAHA</div><div><br /></div><div>A hip length moto/biker style jacket, with snap collars and simple detailing, in the <u><i>perfect</i></u> shade of cognac - not too tan, not too brown. </div><br />Most I find have cheap-looking hardware, too much quilting on the arms/shoulders, or are too cropped for my long torso. *sigh*</p> <p> </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1995063 Tue, 22 Jan 2019 15:49:57 +0000 Stagiaire Fash 1995063@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Idk, I just got my new backpack/bag and am pretty happy with that... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1995058 Tue, 22 Jan 2019 15:15:47 +0000 Christina F. 1995058@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p> <div>I would really like a bag large enough to take to work, but in Navy. I have about 30 purses (though I'm going to purge 4-5 soon). Shouldn't be so hard, right?! I buy purses on a whim when I see them for cheaper than sale price at places like the Rack. I just haven't run into a navy one that fits the bill. I may have to do a more concentrated search this year. I've always wanted a Cambridge satchel, so if I got one in navy, it could be a way to kill two birds with one stone? On the other hand, that Cambridge satchel vibe might not fit with my newly settled style moniker of Fun NY Eclectic, though "eclectic" covers a lot of ground.</div><div><a rel="nofollow" href="https://us.cambridgesatchel.com/products/13-inch-magnetic-satchel-in-leather-navy">https://us.cambridgesatchel.co.....ather-navy</a><br /></div></p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1995047 Tue, 22 Jan 2019 14:06:05 +0000 Sisi 1995047@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>The Perfect Summer Dress. Modest neckline, short sleeves, knee-length, natural fabric, colour that I like, flattering shape, breathable.&nbsp;Difficult, right? I told you that I am super picky. :)&nbsp; </p> <p>Bijou, I think a white coat would be perfect on&nbsp;you!</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1995022 Tue, 22 Jan 2019 12:31:51 +0000 Eva 1995022@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>A few years ago I saw someone wearing a camel/toffee coloured fitted wool coat, about mid thigh length, with an asymmetrical covered zip closure. It had kind of an understated elegance. I have never been able to find something similar. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1994721 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 20:38:53 +0000 Kyle 1994721@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>A simple but spacious leather crossbody bag without gaudy logos or hardware. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1994706 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 20:12:05 +0000 taylor 1994706@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I’m with Angie here on the Tiffiny colored clothing item . I would like a pair Of pumps or handbag in that color. SO hard to find . </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1994675 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 19:29:48 +0000 texstyle 1994675@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Seems like my HEWI should be easy, a med size cognac handbag with at least one decent exterior pocket and inside pockets - oh and the option to carry it with a long handle. I have one that just isn't very comfortable but has all the other required features so it's been a placeholder now for a few years. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1994673 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 19:23:57 +0000 The Cat 1994673@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Bijou, that white coat looks so glamorous and at the same time simple and relaxed. Don't give up! Hopefully you will find it some day, perhaps when you least expect it. </p> <p>For several years, I had a dream of an offwhite cape with black piping. Didn't find until once I was in London and just going sightseeing, not shopping. Suddenly, I turned my head and there it was--hanging in a window in a shop on the other side of the street! I immediately ran over to try it--the one in the window was actually the only one they had--and it proved to be perfect and not even expensive! :-)</p> <p>My HEWI this winter: one or more soft, long-sleeved midi-length (at least covering the knees) turtleneck sweater dresses that don't cling to my body and don't move around but stay in place. A white one would be lovely and would be my favourite. A grey one would be welcomed to. And if possible, it would be great to get a non-neutral one as well. I just don't find them--those that I find are too short, uncomfortable or plain/boring/cheap looking. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1994538 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 14:10:23 +0000 Kathie 1994538@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Gorgeous white coat! Mine is one of those super simple ones- black knee height boots, leather-lined, 2” heel. That fit through both the calf and the ankle. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1994536 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 14:08:54 +0000 LaPed 1994536@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I spent the better part of a year searching for the perfect fitted, ribbed turtlenecks and finally found them last September. :)</p> <p>My other long-standing search is a versatile, dressy, non-black ankle boot. They need to be low-heeled (no higher than 1.5"), not suede, roomy in the toes and not too pointed, slightly higher shaft (a lot of booties hit right at or over the ankle bone and I don't like the proportions that gives me), and not completely smooth on the bottom (though I'm open to adding treads to a leather sole). Navy or a dark metallic would be my top choices. Shoes involve so many criteria that finding the right one can be really difficult! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1994535 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 14:07:44 +0000 Diana 1994535@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Slim black cigarette pants. I’ve been looking for years and despite the being pretty ubiquitous at retail have never found a pair that works for me. Pear shaped hips + skinny ankles + fabric sensitivities have made every pair I’ve tried not work. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1994532 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 14:00:08 +0000 Lesley 1994532@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Jessikams, I like the way you think! With an unlimited budget, yes, I might do that (also because I basically live in Siberia, that would also be kind of practical). But I do have my puffer wardrobe covered, and I want more of a traditional coat for when I want a little glamour and elegance, although I still like loud, hence the leopard. I am hoping since leopard was so huge this year that we see some more neutral animal prints next year, and then I could get lucky with something really unusual, like giraffe! A girl can hope! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1994521 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 13:44:29 +0000 gryffin 1994521@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Exactly Bijou - but a black velvet frock coat and I'm hoping cue comes through and thanks for looking out for me, would be a forever piece.&nbsp; I would make it it's own shrine and figure out places to wear it! </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1994519 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 13:39:21 +0000 Janet 1994519@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Hmm, for a long time it was a simple casual midi length, long-sleeved solid dark color (most likely black) dress for fall/winter — something simple but with some detail that makes it a bit more edgy or distinctive without being overly trendy. I’ve given up on that, and given up on winter dresses in general. </p> <p>But I do have another one. I had a metallic convertible clutch/crossbody that I wore to death. It’s kind of beat up, but it’s in my holding zone because sometimes I’ll dig it out for travel. It’s the perfect largish size to hold what I need and nothing more, it dresses up if needed but doesn’t look silly with an ultra casual outfit, it is flat and lightweight and easy to pack when I travel, and a neutral muted metallic that’s kind of a dark platinum color, so it mixes with other metallics well. </p> <p>For the life of me, I can’t seem to find a good replacement. Everything seems too blingy or shiny or heavy, or a bright cool silver, which I like but is not quite what I want for this purpose. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1994509 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 13:28:57 +0000 SarahD8 1994509@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Oh, so many! A Breton long sleeve tee with the right neckline and the right navy. A Breton tank, ditto. A black knit tank with just the right cut. A white woven tank that is not too sheer and is very simple in style but made with embroidered fabric. </p> <p>I've been looking for that last one for probably 7 or 8 years now. I have a very clear picture of it in my mind and it would complete soooo many summer outfits but nothing I've seen in real life even comes close. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1994504 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 13:20:32 +0000 Bijou 1994504@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p><b>Gryffin</b> - if Cue do a black velvet version of my frock coat, you will be the first to know. I don't wear mine a lot, simply because it is more of a dressy piece than what I wear to work. However when I do, I enjoy it very much. It has longevity and does not have to be a workhorse.</p> <p>Your Theory jacket is beautiful and a great pick, Theory is such great quality. I also love your white tux shirt, but can see that you silk one is very delicate and could not be a workhorse. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1994496 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 12:59:54 +0000 gryffin 1994496@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Bijou - I have too bigs HEWI's.&nbsp; The black velvet frock coat.&nbsp; I did buy the Theory power jacket for 40% off.&nbsp; I do well with Theory jackets and the style is my classic.&nbsp; It was a good way to scratch the velvet itch and see if I would really wear a more dramatic frock coat or is this an aspirational style.&nbsp;If I can't make this work, then velvet is out for me.&nbsp; My other HEWI is the perfect soft white tux shirt.&nbsp; It cannot be stiff cotton.&nbsp; It must be soft, cotton preferred, not transparent with a pleated or ruffled bib and small wing collar.&nbsp; Almost all are transparent and stiff.&nbsp; I had the perfect one from AT years ago and wore it to rags.&nbsp; I bought the JCrew shirt but it's stiff and I have the A&amp;O&nbsp;Arminda but it's silk, fragile and uber dressy and there are report of cleaners refusing to even try and clean it due to the pearl buttons and intense ruffles.&nbsp; It's for super dress and babied.&nbsp; I want one that can be a workhorse.&nbsp; So I continue to look.&nbsp; I'd take it in black too if I could find it.&nbsp; </p> <p>BTW gorgeous white coat.&nbsp; I'll keep eyes peeled.&nbsp; Perfect for your style!</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1994469 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 09:10:23 +0000 Bijou 1994469@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Really interesting that items that are seemingly basics - a classic coat, the perfect swimsuit, the right white shirt or dress, the right boots.... are so elusive. I thought I was just being very picky in looking for a white coat for 2 years and never finding it. It is probably because I am quite specific about the sort of coat I want.</p> <p><b>TG</b> - you make me laugh as I don't think you could look like death in anything! However, finding a flattering taupe can be a challenge due to to different tones and base colours in taupe.</p> <p>It is heartening to hear that in many cases it is worth waiting for the perfect item. <b>Peri and Jenni NZ</b> - so glad you waited until the right item appeared. <b>Carla</b>, I hope that the Uniqlo dress works, as it looks gorgeous. </p> <p><b>Angie</b> - I remember a Tiffany blue coat being on your list for 2018, hopefully 2019 is the year!</p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1994464 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 08:08:11 +0000 Jenni NZ 1994464@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You know, Bijou, I don't think I have a HEWI at the moment? I think suitable bronze shoes were a HEWI for a number of months. Since I got them and am waiting to wear them I'm all good for now. That white coat would be perfect for you. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1994454 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 07:21:49 +0000 Greyscale 1994454@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>You know... I don't have a HEWI right now! That's a first. I found my dream cowboy boots, finally. I found a denim midi skirt just last week after trying every one I came across.</p> <p>I love the thrill of the chase so I'm sure I'll fill this void somehow.</p> <p>Oh, I just remembered!! My very specific HEWI is neon green gloves or arm warmers, in thick fluffy wool. I may have to knit my own. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1994431 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 03:01:55 +0000 JAileen 1994431@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I’ll keep an eye out for white coats. I agree that white would be fab for you. </p> <p>My HEWI was a silver bag. Bags are hard enough (what works for me might not work for you), but then I found it - Furla Capriccio Tote! And it’s lovely. </p> <p>My newest HEWI is a Blackwatch Tartan coat. Here is the new Duchess Meghan wearing an especially nice one (Burberry). </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi/page/2#post-1994426 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 02:48:07 +0000 Jaime 1994426@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Bijou, Kim Novack is definitely the perfect muse for you! I can see you in her entire outfit! I am too moody and fickle to stick to any one HEWI for long, but right now I am hunting for a plaid pants suit and a light blue structured bag. Caveat - I am only looking in person at second hand shops!&nbsp; </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi#post-1994425 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 02:45:29 +0000 Jessikams 1994425@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Lesley would you be open to a long printed puffer? I see them with graffiti print, cartoon characters, or plaid or checks. They are very popular in Beijing- warm, practical and fun. My friends tell me they just buy one new coat every year and wear it every day for 4 months- so they want it to be fun and trendy. So different from what my mother taught me (“buy timeless quality”) but it actually makes good sense. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi#post-1994424 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 02:40:20 +0000 Jessikams 1994424@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Bijou yes that is the coat! Aaarrrgggh just seeing it again reawakens the yearning... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi#post-1994405 Mon, 21 Jan 2019 01:10:50 +0000 DonnaF 1994405@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>For DD: Black 14” tall grippy soled boots narrow in the calves and not too masculine or stompy.</p> <p>For me: Super sheer knee highs that match my skin color so look invisible. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi#post-1994385 Sun, 20 Jan 2019 23:53:45 +0000 Sal 1994385@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>I am not sure that I quite have one.&nbsp; For a couple of years it was brown tall boots with a solid low-mid heel that would work with skirts.&nbsp; I found a pair in late winter 2017.&nbsp; In July 2018 I found a pair of white jeans that I like - thick denim, relaxed but slim fit, good fitting waist, seat and thighs!!</p> <p>Things I find a challenge to find (and would pounce on)-</p> <p>1) Perfectly fitting work trousers, slim fit, high rise, quality fabric.&nbsp; Probably cropped.</p> <p>2) Slim fit puffer to hip length - shaped, warm - definitely not black - ideally in warm red or bronze.</p> <p>Along with flat practical city walking boots these are my main winter needs for 2018. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi#post-1994380 Sun, 20 Jan 2019 23:07:58 +0000 Irina 1994380@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>Mine is very simple, it seems - a white button down straight cut shirt in cotton or linen or both. Whatever I try is either fit in the shoulders but too tight in the chest or fit in the chest and too big in the shoulders.<br /> Another one is mid calf lace up winter boots that are elegant and with a good grip soles at the same time. Been looking for both for ages. </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi#post-1994373 Sun, 20 Jan 2019 22:12:35 +0000 Kate 1994373@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>An endless supply of full length, high rise black jeans that fit perfectly without alteration. I think my HEWI will probably remain one.</p> <p>In pursuit of said item, I just purchased from Aritzia the Olivias that Suz has<br /> because they had them for $75, down from $218. Figured it was worth a shot. For anyone interested, Aritzia does have a few left in sizes 30 &amp; 31.</p> <p>Though it’s not a HEWI, I’m drooling over the beautiful white coat Bijou posted from the Hitchcock film. Coats are my favorite category of clothing, and I have quite a few. For sheer glamour, a white coat is unbeatable. I have a white wool jacket that I love, but a long white topper? Hmm... </p> https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/topic/what-is-your-hewi#post-1994363 Sun, 20 Jan 2019 21:55:00 +0000 kkards 1994363@https://youlookfab.com/welookfab/ <p>the prefect white blazer...3 season wool...$200 or less..... </p>